Some Great Strategies To Ask A Girl Out

So, you've got this crush on a hot girl and you think she might like you. How do you ask her out?

So, you see this girl in a bar and she made eye contact. How do you walk up to her to get her number to go on a date?

Asking a girl out can be a nerve wrecking experience. No guy like rejection and its this fear of rejection that actually keeps us from taking the next step. If you have to be honest with yourself, how many potential dream girls did you miss out on because you were to afraid to walk up to her? Dating is a numbers game. The more you try, the more you succeed. Even the most attractive guys strike out more times than they hit home runs. The more you try, the more you will succeed and the better you will get.

Being inexperienced and nervous usually shows and girls pick up on that really quickly. It might count in your favor if its a girl you already know but for the most part you need to be confident. Women find confidence very attractive and its a sign of "strength". Confidence is not something you are born with but rather something that you cultivate. How do you cultivate it? You face your fears and you approach every girl you possibly can. Get rejected as many times as possible and "get over it". You will quickly see that with the right approach there really is no rejection.

The best way to ask a girl out is to build some rapport first. Women have an invisible "radar" that is always on the lookout for creeps. You need to break through that and help her see that you are not a creep or a weirdo. Once you get over that hurdle she will open up and let you in. As long as you are perceived as weird or a creep then you will always get the cold shoulder - no matter what you say.

The first step then is with your approach. Never walk up to a girl with the intention of getting her into the sack. It will be written all over your body language. The correct approach is to walk up to her with the intention of making a friend. This will dramatically increase your chances of striking up a conversation with her.

Once you've struck up a conversation and she is open and friendly, you need to build rapport. How do you do this? You find things in common. Music, movies and everyday stuff can be a great way to establish rapport. Remember, people like people who are like themselves.

Now that you've established rapport you can ask her out. Its probably not a good idea to ask her out to dinner right off the bat. You could ask for her number and build the relationship further before you ask her out. You could also make a much more informal invitation to a party or something where there will be other people. This is a lot less intimidating and girls will generally be much more open to that than having dinner with a guy she barely knows.