Some useful topics to add vividness to the chat

What do you talk about when you chat? Is that easy to you? If not, there are some topics that we can suggest you at least in the initials talks with that person you are chatting to.

I could say that from all perspectives, talk to someone the first time is everything but easy. And then, as it were not hard enough, the chat takes off from you the possibility of interpreting the body language, the eye contact and the capability of fast reaction. This is quite important because, as you are able to watch someone’s gestures, you may also predict if the topic of the conversation is nice to that person or if it goes in the opposite direction.
Talking about gay’s rights, religion, politics, ethnics and abortion are polemic topics. That is to say, avoid these topics at the beginning. Avoidance does not mean that you are changing of mind just to fit in someone else’s patterns of agreeability. That means that there are some topics better discussed when there exists a solid affective relationship, able to manage these conversations, and also means that you are an appropriate person that knows how to act.

Well, now that you know some of the topics that should be avoided in an initial chat, and that your intelligence tells you to wait until the next stage may be solid, there are some others that will constitute your talking as a whole integrated coherent unit of speech. Here you have excellent cases in point
What are you listening to? (Music)
What's your favourite music genre?
How old are you?
What's your favourite drink?
What's your favourite fruit?
How much sleep do you get?
How old are you?
How did you find this site?
Do you have a cell phone?

I have many friends that have tried this before and assure they keep you on the edge without going beyond the limits. This goes the other set

* How did you find this site?
* Where are you from?
* What are you eating right now?
* What are you drinking right now?
* What's your favourite colour?
* What are you getting/giving for the holidays?

And then, if you want to take it to the next level,

* If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?
* If you could meet any person in the world, who would it be?
* Take a picture of your desktop.