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Spring is in the air, are you feeling creative? I am!

Written by Nikki Lundberg

Topic: SexualityPublished April 29, 2011
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Do you feel any excitement stirring in your gut about new possibilities
or maybe pain in your gut from irritations of things not done
and projects not started?
I know I have both!

I have soooo many things I want to do and at the same time I amrnremembering new years resolutions I made just 4 months ago
that only lasted 3 weeks.

There are other things that I have stuck to and WOW are those things exciting!
One is my position as The AdventureSex Mentor. I have put some
new content on my site and prepared my first big event.
I am so stinkin’ excited!

As for the resolutions/goals I made at the beginning of the yearr
I know that I was either not in alignment with them or it was not the
right time for them to manifest. Now I am re-evaluation those to see if I should re-commit.

My question for you is did you make any goals around relationships
or sexuality? If you are in a relationship with a significant other did you
evaluate where you were and where you wanted to be? And if so, did you
have an action plan or break down the goal into bite size pieces tornmake sure you had progress? Did you talk to you partner and
agree on these together?

Also, whether you are in a relationship or not, did you have any fantasies orrndesires when it came to performance or experiences? I know a lot of people end uprnusing their sexual needs as a distraction from daily life and feel guilty
about pursuing them and only turn to them as a break from the day to day grind.
Then, we feel guilty because we weren’t spending time the way we thought
we should by being “productive”.

I propose a new way of looking at it. By including sexual goals with the rest of your
life goals you will feel a lot better about indulging in sensual activities.
You will even schedule them into your day and week! Or you will just know
that at some point almost every day you are going to do something for
your sexual pleasure, growth and progress and will embrace it fully with no
guilt or remorse!

My husband and I both took a good hard look at our relationship in January.
There were some changes that had to be made. And we also set some goals.
These were sexual in nature and I’m not sure if you want to hear them
but if you need some ideas let me know.

If you set relationship and sexuality goals in January I’d love to hear them!
I’d also like to know your successes and challenges.
Remember me as a resource when you are going through this process.
I promise total discretion and anonymity:)

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About the Author

Nikki Lundberg Your AdventurSex Mentor. Nikki has provided consulting services to over 3,000 people, focused in areas such as health, beauty, leisure, business marketing and growth, personal growth and sensuality.

http://www.nikkilundberg.com

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