Stay Out of Shadows - How to Get Him to Notice You

You see him at the local coffee shop every morning. He likes quad lattes with no foam. If you get there first, you will be in front of him in the line. He will see you in your new floral dress, right? Maybe he did but never said a word. He didn’t notice you because you are a shadow that clouds his sun. If you want a man to notice you, it’s time to become the sun. Come out of the shadows and get noticed.

Have you ever had a crush on a guy and didn’t know how to approach him? Did you admire him from afar only to notice him taking an interest in someone else? If you don’t come out of the shadows, he won’t see you and your potential. If he doesn’t see you, you can’t get him to like you.

Tip 1 - Devise a Plan to Make Him Notice You

When you find yourself attracted to a man, you have to let him know you are interested. Don’t intrude his space and confess your longing feelings for him and his affection. That approach will make him think you’re a psycho and you will choke on the dust he leaves behind. Be a little subtler in your approach but develop one.

Tip 2 - Make Your Move

Traditional dating says men should make the first move. If you want a date in real life, it is completely acceptable for you to make the first move. With that in mind, make that move.

Tip 3 – Light Conversation and Smiles

When you see a man that attracts you, approach him with an innocent comment. If he has tattoos, comment about the detail in his artwork and smile. If he is reading a book you’ve read, mention your thoughts on the book and smile. If you frequent the same place, suggest a similar place you’ve found the two of you may enjoy and smile. If you’re laying eyes on him for the first time, give him a compliment. After all, there’s something about him that attracts you, tell him what that something is. Men like compliments the same way women do. Your initial goal is to get him to notice you; gather your courage and make him see you. Smiles are contagious; infect his world with your bright smile.

Your subtle comments will make you shine. Once you have his attention, be ready to make light conversation without being too aggressive. Suggest getting together for coffee or lunch. If he’s in a relationship, he will be polite and deny the encounter. If he’s not, you may get yourself a date. Remember, committed men make dates too. Don’t forget to establish availability. If he’s married, practice your approach elsewhere. If he’s not, allow yourself to have some new adventures with your new skill.