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Staying Safe When Dating

Written by Sarah Martin

Topic: DatingPublished March 28, 2011
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Dating is fun but there are some obvious risks involved. Especially if you are dating online, there are certain challenges you could face. Personal safety is the responsibility of individuals, so know what steps to take before a date to keep you safe.

Do not be afraid to ask many questions before a date. Online dating is designed so you can meet someone you may not have met in person in the ordinary course of your life. This makes asking questions crucial. Get to know as much about the other person as possible before you decide to meet them in person.

Instincts can play an important part in safety when it comes to dating. Does the person just sound suspicious? Do you get the feeling that something is up? Even if you are not sure why you are having these feelings, it is important not to dismiss them.

If possible, talk on the phone before meeting in person. This is a great way to break the ice. It also gives you a better read on whether the person you met online is who they say they are. Photos are also great. A person should have more than one photo, since pictures are easy to steal online.

Most importantly, do not feel pressure to rush things. If you are not ready to take your online relationship into a face-to-face meeting, then do not. It is better to wait until you feel truly comfortable with the person than to rush things.

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Sarah Martin writes about how women can empower themselves, especially through online dating.