Striking Resemblence

Some of us may have striking resemblances with another family member or even a close friend - whether in looks, mannerisms, or tastes. Sometimes we enjoy sharing these traits with another and other times we do not. The times we do not are the times we've judged a certain quality as non acceptable or unwanted.
A striking resemblance is usually one that is completely out in the open, very obvious, and almost amazing or surprising. As a society, we have come to train ourselves to look for the differences, the defects, and the needed improvement, that sometimes striking resemblances affect us moreso than they would if we were more attuned with our similarities.
While we quickly judge a trait as good or not so good, we have, on a subconscious level, already identified with that trait within ourselves. Although outwardly we may focus on how negative or positive a resemblance someone has, we may really be negatively or positively commenting on our own selves. When our buttons are pushed, it's quite likely we've hit upon a striking resemblance of a trait within ourselves that we may not accept or appreciate. It's during these times where inner reflection - both intellectual and emotional reflection - can be of great benefit. Realize that in these moments the potential for great growth or passive denial can occur. Which will you choose?