You can only think for your Self and when you become aware of how you justify your failure (or your absence of success) it’s time to examine how you can correct that (unless you want to stay in the loop of failure, which many people find far more comfortable, because they have become very successful at being a failure).

History repeats at all levels. That's why - in that correction - you have to get away from the idea that we operate separately and accept that we function totally as one entity. Inclusion is a necessary part of success. Everybody is fighting a hard battle. Everyone faces tough challenges from time to time.

All influences provide an opportunity to look at the world in whatever way we choose, rightly or wrongly, for better or worse. It is so easy to fall into that trap of fearful decision-making, giving rise to separate interests with separation being our experience. This feeds further separation and further isolation where our true potential as a person of inclusion, success and acceptance cannot surface and stops us becoming the success we want to be.

Taking ownership of your own success is crucial, even if all you can manage now are the first baby step of having the willingness to wake up one day and say ‘yes I want to break this cycle and I am prepared to somehow try to see my world from a different perspective. I want to stop the Self defeat and I can start today’.

Clichéd as it may sound, today really is the first day of the rest of your life. Inspire your Self in the knowledge and belief that you can create a different world than the one you have come to know.

Be fearless in your choice to find your own freedom. Do not put a value on the invaluable Self that is You. Invaluable means no limitations. Value sets a limit. Be priceless in your own Self-worth.

You do not leave Self-doubt by bringing it to somewhere else. There is no somewhere else. You leave it by simply understanding the power of your ability to choose.

You have the right to choose happiness. Simple and straightforward, this is the powerful key to unlocking your world of abundance. Unrestricted, you can make that decision right now. Freedom is yours without constraint. View your world with as much understanding as possible and realise that you choose to experience the world you want. Failure is forgetting to remember the opportunities you can give to your Self.

Author's Bio: 

Geoffrey J Canavan, Success Expert, business owner and author of 'Solved! The Truth about Real Success'