Texting A Girl - A Foolproof 3-Step Formula For Asking A Girl Out Over Text

For many guys, texting a girl to ask her out can be a very nerve racking thing. They're afraid of being shot down or not know the right way to ask.

Well, in this article, I'm going to teach you a simple 3-step formula for asking a girl out that will not only dramatically decreases the chance of her saying no, but can actually get her to ask YOU if she can go out with you.

I'm sure you can't wait to learn this formula, so without further ado...

Foolproof Way To Text A Girl For A Date Step 1: Find Out Her Plans

The first thing you need to do is ask her what her plans for the upcoming week are like.

This where the vast majority of guys shot themselves in the foot. They start off by saying something like...

"Hey what are you doing Saturday night? I want to take you out to this to this sushi place."

The problem with this approach is that she can very easily say that she's busy that day or something similar and then you are stuck.

If you come back and propose another day to take her out, you instantly lose massive value in her eyes because now it sounds like you are desperate to go in a date with her. BAD!

So the best thing to do is to make her tell you the times when she'll be free and then you can pick and choose the date.

Just say something like, "Hey troublemaker, what night are you free this week?"

Foolproof Way To Text A Girl For A Date Step 2: Sell The Heck Out Of Your Plans

The next step is to tell her about your plans. Remember, you are not inviting her to anything yet. All you are doing is casually mention this cool thing that you are planning on doing. As far as you are conce
ed, at this point, she is not even a part of it.

Oh and did I mention that this plan of yours happens to fall on one of the dates that she is free? Don't miss that part.

Now the key here is the sell the heck out of it and make it sound like the coolest thing in the world. Make it sound so cool that she wishes she could go.

Most likely, when she hears you describing your plans, she'll say something like...

"Wow! That sounds great!"

Foolproof Way To Text A Girl For A Date Step 3: Invite Her To Come Along

And the final step is to invite her to tag along. Just don't sound too eager. Act as if the idea of bring her just pop-ed into your head and that you are doing her a favor by letting her come.

You can say something like...

"Hmmm, come to think of it, you sound like a pretty good partner in crime. I'll tell you what, be ready at 7 and I'll pick you up. But you have to promise that you can hold your liquor." (Here you can give her some other challenge that is more appropriate for the situation.)

The best part about this tactic is she is almost guaranteed to say she because she has already invested herself by telling you how great your plan sounds.