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If you want to become a master of the Law of Attraction, it is important that you keep good company. Our lives become what we think about, talk about and do. Because you spend a lot of time thinking about your friends, talking to them and doing things with them, your energy vibration will tend to match up pretty closely with theirs.

Therefore, choosing to hang around people who are uplifting and positively minded will greatly benefit you. Their higher vibrations will rub off on you, which makes it easier for you to manifest the life of your dreams.

Some people overlook the connection between the Law of Attraction and friends. Unfortunately, while these people may be able to raise their vibrations while they are away from the crowd, whenever they engage with negative people they unknowingly absorb lower vibrational energy. This isn’t such a big deal if you only periodically spend time with negative people, but if the bulk of your friends and acquaintances are negatively minded it will lower your vibration significantly.

Here are a few qualities to look for in a friend who can help to raise your vibration. Even if they don’t know or believe in the Law of Attraction, someone who has all of these characteristics is likely already a master of it:

The Law of Attraction and Friends: What to Look For

1.They speak in the positive:

Words are very powerful. What we say and what we listen to affect our beliefs about the world. Surrounding yourself with people who believe in the possibilities rather than the impossibilities will help you to believe that you too can do anything. Spend time with people who say “I can” much more often than they say “I can’t.”

2. They are supportive:

Many people in the world today do not like to see others succeed. When someone ignores or belittles the achievements of others it is an indication that their vibration is running low. People with very high vibrations are genuinely happy for the successes of others, because they believe that what’s best for everyone is also what’s best for themselves. Not only will they make you feel good about your achievements, but they will also teach you to be more compassionate and loving.

3. They have big dreams:

Keeping company with people who shoot for the stars will encourage you to do the same. The more outlandish or ridiculous the dream, the better-because it means that they have faith in manifesting just about anything.

4. They are affectionate:

Love is a high vibrational emotion. People who regularly smile, hug and kiss radiate a higher vibrational frequency. Vibration is contagious, so try to get close to affectionate people.

The friends you spend time with greatly affect your energy vibration. Make friends with big dreamers who are positive, supportive and affectionate because their energy will help you become a Law of Attraction master. You are the company you keep!

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Author's Bio: 

Andrea Schulman is a former high school psychology teacher and the creator of Raise Your Vibration Today, which offers resources and education on the Law of Attraction. Andrea will also be offering seminars and webinars starting in the summer of 2015. To learn more about Andrea or Raise Your Vibration Today, please visit!