If sex sells, how does a sister find Mr. Right?

It’s a fact. Sex sells. It is, according to most experts on relationships and marriage, the number one priority for a man.

Most women know this, if not intuitively, then from the millions of movies, books, magazines and TV shows that SCREAM it at us on a daily basis. “Sex and the City” is popular for a reason, right?

As a woman, you have amazing sexual power. I’ve watched women try to harness their sexual power with tight clothes and makeup, but they send the wrong signal in the process. Dropping it like it’s hot and cleavage the size of Mt. Everest can actually repel your dream man or make him have the wrong opinion of you. I think we both agree we don’t want that.

There is an “art” to seduction that you can use that won’t leave you knocked up or lonely from yet another one-night stand (or worse!). Although most people think seduction is negative, one definition of the word “seduce” is “to persuade somebody into giving support or agreement.” You can use the art of seduction to persuade your dream man to ask you out on a date, commit to your relationship or even pop the question.

Let me share three ways you can use the Art of Seduction to your advantage to be an irresistibly attractive woman.

1. Flirt
One of the most effective ways to get a man’s attention is to flirt. But I’m not talking about dropping it like it’s hot in front of him. I’m talking about sending him signals that you are interested and that you’d like him to be as well. One of the best ways to flirt is to use your body.

2. Use Your Body
97% of all communication is non-verbal. You can use your body to send a signal to a man that you’d like him to talk to you. A quick example will show you the difference. You standing against the wall with your arms crossed and a frown on your face at a party says, “I’m not interested,” “I’m full of drama,” or “You will get rejected!” But you smiling, talking, laughing and mingling with other people in the room, says, “I’m friendly,” “I know something you don’t” and “Don’t you want to get to know me?” Body language is persuasive!

3. The Eyes Have it
We women spend a lot of time on our eyes—waxing brows, trying new eye shadows, even putting on false eyelashes. Why? Is it just to make your eyes “pop”? I think it’s because we know that the eye is the window to the soul. So once you’ve gotten fabulous, let him see those eyes with lots of eye contact. Eye contact says you’re confident, that you have nothing to hide, and that you can be trusted. Look at him lovingly, longingly, trustingly, and you’ll capture his heart!

Use the lost art of seduction and you’ll be on your way to more dates!

Author's Bio: 

Aesha Adams-Roberts, PhD, is a bestselling author, speaker, and communications expert. In her book, "Can I Help a Sister Out: How to Meet and Marry of Your Dreams" Dr. Adams-Roberts reveals the step-by-step secrets and strategies she used to meet and marry her husband in 11 short months. Her expertise is highly sought after by men and women, single and married couples alike.