The Right First Date Conversation

You can come up with dozens of witty conversations for you first date but still wind up alone at the end of the night. If this is something that you wish to avoid, then you might be asking yourself what you should do. - Avoid Awkward Silences One need not to be a philosopher in order to impress a girl through conversation. What is important is you being observant of what's happening around you, and most importantly, her. The topics that the two of you can tackle is endless, for example: o You can talk about how your day went. o You can talk about the music that's playing and ask her what her favorite music is. From this alone you can share your favorite bands, the concerts the two of you have been to and any other memorable experiences associated to such events. o You can converse about what's happening within the community, current events, what's new in sports. o Say something positive about what she's wearing. Fashion is something that women love talking about. - Listen to what she's saying so you can follow it up with related comments or questions. The tip I'm about to give next is most likely the most crucial of all the tips I'll be giving you. Learn how to listen. Don't be a chatterbox! Women like men who pay attention. Men who knows how to listen are seen by girls as someone that is understanding and easy to connect with. WARNING: While listening to her makes you a nice guy, there's a downfall to too much niceties—you won't turn them on. I'm pretty sure you don't want to become part of the "friend" tag right? So what must you do in order not be labeled as such? Here's a brief overview: a. Touch her more – randomly touch her arms, hands, brush your shoulder against hers and so on. b. Be the alpha male – make the decision, lead her and be protective of her. Avoid using the word "maybe". Instead, a straight yes or no would be preferable. - Keep the Topic Interesting and Casual Avoid drama on your