The Art of Transformation

There’s a lot of talk about major changes brewing on the planet and in the lives of those who inhabit it. Some describe how the shifts in the magnetic poles affect people. Others refer to the prophecies for 2012 and the period leading up to Transformation. Many simply appreciate the seasonal cycles and the renewal qualities of springtime. Whatever the reason, multitudes are being called to transform their daily lives, relationships, lifestyles, work, and beliefs. Indeed, people are being asked to both acknowledge and align with their own Truth. This takes courage in a society that, in many ways, promotes stability, security, and the steadfast commitment to long-term goals; it takes guts when so many judge change as undesirable or frightening. Change, however, is inevitable and many are both hearing and following this call for transformation, refashioning how they spend their time and who they spend it with.

The maxim “nothing is constant but change itself” used to stress me out. In many ways, I too am resistant to change, yet my life is a testimony to Susan Jeffers’ book: “Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway”. I have listened to strong inner urges to live in various places around the world, switching between careers as an English as a Second Language (ESL) teacher, an artist / arts administrator, and a student. I have also loved deeply, yet lovingly let go of relationships when their purpose had been fulfilled. Each chapter of my life has gifted me with a clearer understanding of myself and others and equipped me with the tools to embark on the next leg of the journey. Fortunately, the inner and outer promptings were sometimes blatantly clear and followed with ease, acceptance, and excitement. Often, however, periods of frustration, confusion, fear, grief, and resistance were needed to help me become conscious of my soul’s summon to the next metamorphosis. In some cases, these adjustments were within my existing jobs or relationships – yet other times they were away from them. Whatever the case, each shift was founded on a strong faith and, in the bigger picture, was perfect. Even the caterpillar needs to molt its skin several times before becoming a butterfly.

The Call for Change
There are many ways that change beckons us. Sometimes, we simply know it is time; a calm sense of resolve settles within us. Other times, an opportunity ignites great excitement, showing that this new path is clearly in alignment with who we truly are. Occasionally, however, a growing sense of dissatisfaction and depression signals a need to be or do differently. If it is not heeded, it can lead to a state of dis-ease. It is important to note, though, that not all discomfort is a signal for correction. Discernment is essential to recognize the difference between a soul yearning for transformation and the growing pains one can experience when stretching comfort zones along the way. Indeed, a goal that still drives us may require challenging steps. At times, however, we are called to let go of long-lived goals as their purpose was only to bring us to this point. This can be very uncomfortable, especially when our self-image is tied to elements of our lives, be they goals, careers or relationships. Furthermore, letting go of what no longer serve us can be painful when others frown upon our choices. Unfortunately, our natural evolution, unlike a caterpillar’s, is sometimes impeded by social, financial, or psychological influences.

Creating Room for Change
Metamorphosis takes both time and space. First, embracing a new path might require planning even when our new direction is clear. For instance, one may need to save up for the next step. Second, cocooning can be very useful, especially in times of overwhelming confusion. Clarity can often be gained by temporarily retreating from a situation, providing an opening for our Higher Selves to communicate through meditation, journaling, dream analysis, counseling, etc. Another way is to create a complete vacuum, trusting that an answer will then reveal itself. For example, last fall, I concluded that my teaching position no longer aligned with my greater needs. Instead, I wanted to spend more time with my art. Although I had no idea what that would look like, I was brave enough to not renew my contract. It was only once I had given my notice and created that vacuum that my new path became clear. At a gallery event, a friend handed me the university’s Certificate of Art & Design program guide. I got so excited that I knew this was my answer. I was then shocked to discover that the courses are in the same building I taught in – something I was oblivious to until I was ready to know. Room for change can take many forms – its goal though is always to build up enough energy and clarity to create that life worth living.

Ultimately, the art of transformation is a spiritual practice that enhances every area of our lives at one time or another. Decidedly, change is healthy – as long as the motivation for it is in line with Love and Truth. One only needs to hear and then respond to the call. In the end, there is nothing quite as rewarding as spreading our wings and flying whole-heartedly on our unique trajectory, with purpose and passion. Are you willing to listen to your Higher Self when it beckons you to the next step on your evolutionary path?

January 2010