They Look simple, But They Can Ruin Your Seduction Tricks

We all know the excitement that comes with a long-awaited date, especially when she finally agrees to go out with you. This excitement sometimes can be so overwhelming that we make some mistakes that will almost ruin success with our dates. These essential things are some little things that most guys tend to over look; these things have their way of contributing to the success of your dating experience and so must be taken into consideration.

It's OK if you took her to the finest restaurant where they serve the most expensive dishes, but if you do not take note of these few things, as little as they are, they could ruin everything.

• Have a good bathe – the worst thing you could do when going out on your first date is to appear unshaven, smelly or even looking dirty. I know that bathing is probably your usual morning ritual, but this time, you have to take your time while doing it, make sure you bath properly, and if you are the type that sweats a lot, shave your armpits and apply a fairly generous amount deodorant. It won’t cost you anything to bath properly, bear in mind that women are clean and so your level of hygiene amongst many others is on her check list too. Don’t expect her to see beyond your appearance, as there may never be a second chance for you to prove to her that you are not always like that.

• Be punctual – keeping a lady waiting is one of the worst things that you can ever do on your date, especially if you want it to be successful. Showing up late will give her a false impression of what you think about her. In case you do not know this, women love assuming. While you are there running late and possibly trying to get to her, she will just sit around considering the worst case scenario. Being time conscious is very important, be the one to wait for her at the venue and if you are going to pick her from her home, get there 5 to 10 minutes before your due time.

• Be courteous – make sure you are the first to compliment her, hold the door open for her, and make sure it’s always ladies first. Throughout your date, keep compliments flowing – this will make her feel you are attracted to her.

• Use communication wisely – this is the best part of a date that can as well be the worst part, depending on how well you use it. No one would love to spend hours being ignored or listening to someone talk about themselves alone. Get to know each other, listen to her and ask her questions. Communication isn’t just about talking alone; it’s about being able to listen to others even when talking. While you are listening to her, you could use your body to talk and pass other messages to her, which is why you need to learn the art of body language. You could lean forward to her, mimic her actions, accidentally touch her, make eye contact, and so on. The last thing you want on your date is to sit down with nothing to say, so you have to prepare against that. Before leaving your home, think about your date and things you will love to know about her, also think of possible questions that you think she my ask you, so that you two will have a good time talking.

• Bid her a warm Goodbye – while I strongly advice against sex on a first date, you can give her a half hug and possibly a cheek kiss. Unless you are sure that she is ready for it, don’t attempt kissing her. If you took her number and promised to call her later, make sure you do.

Robert Hawk is the co-owner of www.tipsaboutdating.com, a website where he constantly shares the secrets on attraction and seduction. You can also get his free eBook on how to start and succeed in a relationship plus seduction tips that will turn on even the toughest woman