I want to give you some quick instructions on
how to get a girls phone number. More expressly, these tips are about how to get a girls phone number during the daytime -- because every day you've got fantastic opportunities to meet ladies that you probably aren't capitalizing on.
Just think about the last time you saw an attractive girl while you were out running errands...and you would have loved to talk to her and get her name and phone number, but you just weren't sure how to approach her?
See, most guys fail to make their move because they're worried about what they're going to talk about with her. Possibly this guy feels semi-comfortable with the idea of talking to girls in bars, but when it comes to "day approaches," he is simply too timid to make his move.
Alas, this is the case with a lot of men. Outside of "social" situations like bars and parties, they just don't feel capable of approaching women and starting conversations out of the blue.
I've got the answer to this problem. First, you've got to stop worring about having long, drawn-out conversations with women you've just met. All you need to do is focus on getting her information (name, phone number & email address). Then you're going to END the conversation and contact her soon to get to know her better.
In reality, you will collect many MORE phone numbers and dates if you learn how to get a girls number FAST.
See, the longer you try to talk to a girl you just met, the greater the chance that she'll "disqualify" you for saying something stupid, or saying or doing something that she just doesn't find attractive.
The next thing to remember: always carry a pen and a small pad of paper in your pocket. This is a useful idea for a few reasons, and one of them is because it makes getting a girls number and other information much smoother.
Here's how you do it. You simply notice a detail about her appearance, or something she is doing at the moment. Maybe she's wearing an interesting piece of jewelry, or a nice dress or fashionable pair of jeans. Maybe she's packing a cool-looking cell phone.
Notice it and mention that you're looking to buy something similar for a friend of yours: "Hey, I noticed your _____. I need to pick out a birthday gift for my friend Jennifer, and she might like something like that...where'd you get it?"
This "detail" can be anything. If she's shopping at the supermarket, you can notice something she's got in her cart and say, "Pardon me, I need to bring a dessert to a dinner party I'm going to tonight, and I'm wondering if you have a suggestion on something that's easy to make, but really tasty."
Want to talk to a girl at a bookstore? Use the same idea: "How's that book you're reading? I need to pick out a birthday gift for my friend Jennifer, and she loves to read...have you read anything lately that you can recommend?"
Let her answer. You only need to have a few minutes of conversation with her, and then say, "I appreciate your advice, I'm going to go pick that up for my friend. Hey, do you have an email address? I'll let you know if my gift gets a good reaction."
The woman will nearly always say "yes" to this. (The "email" question is awesome, because everyone has email, right? Now you're going to treat it as if she OFFERING to give you her email.)
Take out your pad of paper and pen, and give it to her. Act like this is completely natural. No big deal.
Now, as she jots down her email address, say to her, "write down your number, too. And I didn't catch your name..."
By acting as if it's entirely normal for you to give you her personal info, she'll feel comfortable doing so. She won't question it.
It's when you ASK PERMISSION for a woman's personal info that she might think twice about it. So don't ask permission. Just get her info.
After she gives it to you, wish her a good day and walk away. End this quick little conversation on a pleasant note. You can call her tomorrow and take the next step.
Understanding
how to get a girls number is just one of the dozens of methods you'll want to master. And as for how you're going to schedule this "next meet" with her, I've got some incredibly strong methods to guarantee your success...