Throughout my years as a dating trainer, I've showed literally hundreds of guys
how to approach women in all types of situations. Many of them have been very successful. I've seen shy students who were scared to approach women turn into "approach machines" who all of a sudden began to meet new girls on a daily basis -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!
It's been gratifying to watch incredibly timid students of mine, who were once scared to talk to girls and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach fearless approach experts" who were able to meet new girls on a daily basis (even while simply walking down the street!) and always rack up digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night.
But a guy's level of self-confidence can take a lethal hit -- and that old "approach anxiety" can come seeping back in -- when he is faced with the challenge of approaching an exceptionally beautiful stunner. The kind of hottie who makes every dude stop and stare when she walks into the room.
What's the best way to walk up to a hottie like THAT? The answer, in actuality, is fairly straightforward: you use the same approach techinques that I suggest you use with any female, but after you use one of my "transition" moves to engage her in the conversation, you use Teases and Cold Reads to eliminate her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage.
So what are Cold Reads and Teases, precisely? Well, they're two very powerful tactics that you should use when you flirt with women. Fundamentally, these are a couple of my favorite conversational "weapons."
For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that plant a very important idea in their minds: that you are NOT a predictable dude who is bowled over and staggered by how gorgeous she may be.
If you tease a woman the right way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not loathsome -- you're treating her as you would treat an old friend -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. By using Teases with a beautiful babe, in a strategic way, you are showing her that you're not fazed by her beauty and you are relating to her as a normal person.
Of course, this is exactly the OPPOSITE of how the typical dude behaves when he is talking to a gorgeous babe. The ordinary guy can't even carry on a fun, compelling conversation because he's so WORRIED about saying the wrong thing!
Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really awesome. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level.
Effectively using a Cold Read makes you seem incredibly perceptive and it immediately establishes a bond between you and the hottie. And the clever thing about an effective Cold Read statement is that they apply to virtually any woman. Whether you say it to your sister, or to a super hot girl at the club, she's going to nod her head and agree with your evaluation .
So after you approach a woman and use an effective opener to launch the conversation -- and there are dozens of these in my seduction manual -- you'll use a Transition strategy to move things onto the right topic. Then, you can make use of Teases and Cold Reads:
TEASE: "Y'know, Cindy, I think I got the wrong idea about you at first. I can tell there's more to you than meets the eye. It's just too bad you're not my type..." (then change the topic)
And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most people get the wrong idea about you when they first meet you. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sweet, sincere, sensitive person you really are."
(This Cold Read is very effective with fine-looking females, because they are always worried that people are ONLY judging them based on their beauty. Gorgeous girls are often a lot more insecure than you would think, and like to be appreciated for their OTHER qualities -- their intelligence, sense of humor, personality, etc.)
Honestly, it isn't hard to learn how to approach women. Whenever you bring together these techniques with other effective conversational strategies, you have the blueprint for a highly positive interaction that will hit all of her "attraction switches" and drive up her interest and curiosity. Scoring her phone number will be no problem at all -- and where you take it from there is up to you.
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