Losing the one you love doesn't precisely mean you lost. You lose when you quit. To win your ex-boyfriend back when he is moved on could be a challenge but everything is possible when you try. I have been in your same situation and it was not till I challenged myself, that I then I spotted that I won what I once thought I lost. It is like the saying you do not know unless you try, right?
1- The 1st step to getting the one you love back is somehow making him still believe he still wants you. If this doesn't work there are definitely much more strategies you can try from here.
2- One of the most advantageous things you can try is to start a fellowship with him. Become extremely good buddies. Show him what a good friend you can be by showing him you understand how he feels, show him an entertaining side of you, crack hilarious jokes, make him giggle, and even invite him for coffee sometime. He may begin to wonder at about that point that he may want you again.
3- When you talk to your ex-boyfriend ensure you are additional sweet and kind. Don't play games, trying to act hard to get. You need to him to want you continue to. Don't make yourself completely available either, do give him space. You do want him to desire you also , so let him have an opportunity to think about you.
4- At that point you've shown him what a very good time he will have with you, even if it's a closeness for now. You need him to know you're still available but slightly keep your distance. Loaf around with you buddies and have an excellent time. This could make him wonder about you, and he may a little start to feel jealousy. This good sign because he's going to start to truly ask him why he is feeling this way.
5- When he does ask you about your weekends and what you've been up to, be sincere and fair. Let him know you miss him, but don't make it sound like you are desperate. You want him to know you continue to care but also that you are still having fun too. He will see you are assured and realize he hasn't got you.
6- Remind him of the fun times you had together. Don't talk about anything negative or start any drama. Bring up a favourite spot you both had and enjoyed being there together. Also, bring up the first time you met and how you are feeling in love. This may trigger feelings, good emotions naturally.
These are just ideas that helped me get back with my ex-boyfriend after I thought I had lost him. Now we're back together and I could say we've got the best relationship and he's actually my best-friend!
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