Having an affair can be one of the worst things to happen to a relationship. If you find out that your other half has been cheating on you with someone else then it can be devastating, and sometimes so bad that the relationship can never been fixed again. People have affairs for many reasons, but at the end of the day they all boil down to 3 major problems. By knowing these main problems you can help prevent keep your relationship safe and strong.

The First Problem: Fights and Arguments

Fights and arguments are very common in a relationship, and aren't always bad things. Sometimes they can be very helpful to get things out in the open which is the first stage in fixing them. However in other cases they can lead to the affair starting. This is because if you have been fighting with your man then he may feel very angry and want to either vent his anger or get his own back on you for hurting him. This can sometimes lead men to go out and find a sexy lady somewhere with whom they can start an affair with. Sometimes this is a secret thing which he does try to and make himself feel better after the fight, or in other cases he might make it very public what he has done. This is his way of getting his revenge on you, his way of saying "this is how badly you hurt me, you made me do this".

The Second Problem: Feeling Unloved

In a relationship, one of the worst feelings is the feeling of not being loved or cared for by their partner. Unfortunately these feelings often develop within relationships very frequently, and can be caused by many things. These feelings can be caused by things such as long-term relationship going stale after a long time, because people can get too familiar with each other and the spark can go out. They can also be caused by things such as pregnancies or babies, because they take your attention away from him. If he isn't getting the same attention he is used to then he may want to go and find someone else who will make him feel loved and that is how the affair can often start.

The Third Problem: Boredom

Relationships are things that can last for years and years. When they first start everything is new and exciting and you want to spend every minute together, you also want to try new things and get to know each other in every way. However after a long period of time you start to grow too familiar with your partner, the excitement starts to die down and you know everything about each other. This can cause boredom in the relationship. This could make your man go off and want to start an affair because they miss the excitement. The affair could also be caused by old age starting to make the two of you feel less physically attracted to each other, which could make him go and find a younger sexy lady who he can have an affair with, to make him feel young again.

Author's Bio: 

My name is Winny Kho and I am here to help you understand how the men you are in relationships with actually think. Relationships are some of the most important aspects of people's lives, and you have to work at them to keep them strong. However this can be hard when women feel that they have no idea what is going on inside their man's head, and this is where I come in.

My articles will help you to understand what men are thinking, and give you advice on what you need to do to keep your relationship with him healthy, and how to make him fall deeply in love with you. I am here to stop break-ups, affairs and divorce, I am here to make sure everyone is happy in love!

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