So there is this guy you like and feel close to, the only problem is that you don’t know where his heart is. You have things you want to talk with him about, but every time you start, he appears to be disinterested or even bored in the topic you chose.

Oryou want to talk to him but as you are rather nervous,the words refuse to come out theway you want them to? Are you worried he might pull back from you if he finds it rather boring talking to you? After all, not being able to ever excite a man is one of the top reasons why men pull away from a woman.

Having a set of topics to talk about planned out beforehand can help you find topics that then actually interest him. In this article, we will look at some of these topics of potential interest to him that you can talk about with him to keep any boredom locked out.

1. Ask - and talk about Him

This one never fails to be a success. If you feel that you’ve run out of things to talk about, just begin a conversation about him. Ask him questions that are directly related to him as a person, as this will make the conversation last longer and keep his interest level up. After all, this is all about him now!

Moreover, after him talking about himself and his interests, you will have plenty of new ideas what to talk about next.

2.Talk about Cars

You know the thing between men and cars. It appears they could talk about their cars any opportunity they get. For most men, the topic of automobiles never gets out of style.

Men thrive on it. He either already owns a car that he will be really excited talking about, or he has the deep wish of owning a particular “dream car” one day. Whatever the case, the topic of cars is one that is on the minds of most men.

What does that mean for you? You don’t necessarily have to be an expert in cars in order to engage him in a meaningful conversation. Quite the opposite is true, as he will gladly share every detail of knowledge he has about this topic, so start asking him questions right away!

Just a basic understanding of maybe the make and models he is into and you are good to go. Ask him any question about cars that might come to your mind. This is a good strategy for keeping the conversation going. That way, he will also see that you really enjoy what he’s talking about, and he will enjoy chatting even more.

3.Talk about his Work

On average, people spend almost 70% of their time at work, and men seem to be even more proud of putting their hours in at work. Therefore, ask him about his job and how it’s going there. You can also ask him about any new goals he may have at work, any projects he is currently handling or just about anything to do with his work. Through showing that you care about the important aspects of his life, you can be sure to keep his attention.

4. Sex

If there is one topic that can get any man really interested and that will make him pay even closer attention to you, it’s the subject of sex. So this is a great topic to chat about with him. Be aware though, to have a positive, not any kind of negative conversation about sex, as most men tend to think of sex as something really positive and exciting.

Talk about the things you really like in the bedroom, things you would want to try, and ask him if there is something he would like to try. This is one of the best ways to keep him interested in the conversation, and the good thing with it is that it addresses something that concerns most relationships and is equally interesting for both men and women.

5. Shared Interests

It’s often easier to get a conversation going if the two of you have mutual interests. To know if he likes the same things you do, you can ask him the following, or related questions:

  • What’s your favorite movie?
  • Do you like cooking?
  • Do you like reading? If yes, what books do you read?
  • What’s the scariest movie you ever watched?
  • Who’s your favorite actor or actress?
  • Where is the best place you’ve ever visited?

6. Food

Men love food, and when you start talking about it, it’s a good way to get his undivided attention. Talk about you planning to prepare him some food, and see how he will getexcited. If the both of you are in a relationship already, you may even want talk about making the food for him while you are half-naked.

7. His Passions

Talk to him about what he is most passionate about, and you can be sure that he’llkeep going on and on. Not many men discuss their deep interests with their other friends that often, and chances are that he has a lot to talk about. If he already knows you well and the both of you have a trusting relationship, he might reveal many different things, and will also keep coming around.


Conversations and communication per se are essential parts of any healthy relationship. If he knows that you tend to keep him interested with your topics, he will want to be with you all the time. This is why it’s so important that you have a good idea of the topics and subjects that are of most interest to him.

Discussions surrounding food, cars and in general his passions are sure to keep him interested.So are those concerning himself, his work and all questions regarding sex. Do not hold back. Just talk and get him perked up!

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