Too often it is easy enough to carry on the way we are and not be looking to the future and finding ways to better ourselves. Whether it is emotionally, physically or educationally there will always be something to learn and ways to improve. The one thing that you should realise is that it will not always be easy and you may not always see a great deal of difference early on.
Often you will not realise that you are actually improving and it will be down to other people to let you know that things are getting better. The first improvement that you will have made will have been the realisation that you are not perfect and you do need to improve. If you don’t understand and accept your failings there will never be a change.
Next you need to realise that you have the ability to change and grow and there is actually an easy way to deal with this. The way forward is growth:
Get to be a kinder and more open person. Understand that you may need help and that there will be times when you need to help others.
Release feelings of guilt by doing what is right rather than just doing what is right for you. Each time you do the right thing you will feel that little bit better.
Open yourself up to what is going on around you. If you see others being kind then emulate them, if others are not being kind try to enlighten them.
Welcome each new day as a way to look for improvement. We can overcome many negatives just by starting the day well and believing that nothing is beyond our capabilities. The more we do this and the more good we do each day, the more it will become second nature.
Transform the word problem into the word challenge and it will seem a much easier life. Everyone loves a challenge but few would be happy to be faced with problems.
Hunger to be the best you can be. If you do not push the boundaries and set yourself higher targets it is very unlikely that others will. Don’t be put off by slight failings or set-backs as long as you see this as a lesson learned and not a reason to give up.
There is not really a short cut when it comes to self-improvement and the best way to succeed will be to set out a plan and make sure that you know what you want and how you are going to get it.
There are some questions you could ask:
Why do I want personal development? – The answer should be to make myself a better person.
What is holding me back? – Often this will be a lack of effort and self-awareness.
What can I do? – Think carefully before every decision is made. Before long you will be making good decisions and soon realise that you have in fact developed into a good and rounded person.
Thrillionaire Nik Halik founded the Thrillionaires social community. He is global wealth strategist, entrepreneur, international speaker, astronaut, high adrenalin adventurer and best-selling author—Nik believes in living life to the fullest. He started life with the same dreams as many kids: be an astronaut, have lunch on the Titanic shipwreck, climb the highest mountains, explore the pyramids. The difference? Nik didn’t let go of his dreams, he turned them into goals—and achieved them! A self-made multimillionaire, Nik believes life is about the magic not about the materialism. He educates and motivates individuals from around the world by sharing his knowledge so they too can experience the thrill of living without limits. And his most important goal is to welcome new members into The Thrillionaires global community. http://thethrillionaires.com
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