Self-talk is what you are saying to yourself all day long and you may be wondering how it is an important factor in your wealth attracting efforts.

* Are you aware that what you say to yourself affects what you attract?
* Do you know how your self-talk affects your bank account?
* Do you usually maintain a positive attitude when things go wrong?
* What the biggest mistake you make when trying to attract more money?
* Can you tell if the people you spend time with are hindering your wealth attracting process?

There was an Internet marketer who told me an inspiring story about how after he made his first million and lost it, he got to work and started another business to get back on his feet.

The key point that he told me was that he never doubted himself. He kept himself motivated and believed in his abilities. He kept his thinking positive and didn't let doubt affect his progress.

One day a friend came up to me and said, "What a horrible day I have been having! Everything went wrong. I'm so glad it's over." My initial reaction was to just get away from this person!

I was reminded of Wallace Wattles advice in his book The Science of Getting Rich. He says, "Never speak of yourself, your affairs, or of anything else in a discouraged or discouraging way."

I knew that this friend was struggling financially and I could see what part of the problem was. The next time I saw this person, she said the same exact thing about her day. Hello---is it any wonder that this person was struggling??

Your SELF-TALK is an important factor in how well you attract wealth. What others say to you can also have an affect on your bank account without you even knowing it.

What do you think is the biggest mistake most people make regarding wealth attraction? (I'll give you a clue. It has to do with how you interpret your life events.) Keep reading!

All of this has to do with your self-talk and today, I have 5 tips for uplifting your self-talk so you can begin to attract more wealth into your life.

Tip #1: In his book, "The Science of Getting Rich," Wallace Wattles tells us about how the "formless substance," or nature, reacts to your thoughts to help you create what you want.

When you understand how the mind works in relationship to the formless substance, you can create anything you want merely by thinking. The key is what you are thinking, or what you are putting your attention on. Is it on lack or abundance? And if it is abundance, are you consistently thinking abundance?

Tip #2: Your self-talk can determine how much money you will make.

What we tell ourselves about our life can be positive or negative. But that is because there are always a positive and negative way to look at something. It's all a matter of perspective.

It's also a matter of choice. You may say, "a big financial loss is definitely a negative experience," but you can still find something positive in it. For example, sometimes a big financial loss can be a valuable lesson in money management that can motivate a person to discover a better way to create a much larger income than before.

Tip #3: Positive thinking can override negative thinking if done consciously.

You have to know how to catch yourself before you "fall." Then you need an arsenal of tools to change your thinking back in the right direction.

This is especially essential when things go wrong. It's nature's way of testing you to see if you are really serious about your desire. The next time you are about to react to a situation in a negative way, stop yourself, and look for the positive side. You'll be amazed how it changes your outlook!

Tip #4: The biggest mistake you can make in the wealth attraction process is to complain.

Complaining about your life experiences is the worst thing you can do when trying to attract wealth. Many times we say things that we don't even know are complaints.

You need to pay attention to your self-talk and how you talk to others to discover when you are complaining. Then stop the complaint by attending to the situation to change it, or learn to live with it.

Tip #5: Sometimes our friends can be subtle obstacles on our path when they don't believe in your dreams.

There was a time in my life when most of the people I knew would not believe that I was even capable of becoming a millionaire. So while I was working on it, I had to stop spending time with them. In fact I only had 2 friends who knew what my goal was.

You need to weed out the people who are not going to support you as you progress on your way to your goals.

You need ask the right questions to change your thinking from lack to abundance. Actively writing down answers and learning how to adjust your thinking is the best way to remember where to put your attention and attract your good fortune.

How you think and what you put your attention on are the ESSENTIAL KEYS to successfully attracting wealth.

Author's Bio: 

Jeannette Koczela coaches solopreneurs who want to get more clients, grow their business, and make more money. Let her help you create a thriving business and prosperous money mindset using the universal law of attraction. Receive her Empowered Spirit Coaching Success Kit including her report "3 Secrets to Attract Your Ideal Clients" and a free coaching session audio .