Using Social Proof to Get Women Interested

Have you noticed that certain women feel strong attraction to men who are in a relationship – and even married men?rnIf you think about it with an objective and rational mind – there is no sense for a woman to want a guy who is already taken – so why do women still feel strong attraction to such men? rnOne explanation is our natural desire to get and achieve what we can't get. But this is not the only explanation.rnIn this article I would like to talk about a principle in psychology called "social proof", and explain how you can use this principle to be far more attractive to women. The Principle of Social Proof rnLet's say that you are going to a dinner in a restaurant. Someone told you that it's a nice place, but you're not that sure. So you and a friend arrive at the restaurant – and surprisingly – the restaurant is totally empty. You are the only diners. rnHow does arriving at an empty restaurant feel? Now compare it to a situation when the place is almost full. rnAs human beings, we are strongly affected by the herd effect. When we see that others like something, we tend to like it too, and vice versa. rnBased on this same principle, women choose their partners. When a girl knows that other women like and want a certain guy – they immediately feel attracted to him, too. rnThat's why a married man is far more attractive to women than a single man – if a man is married it means that at least one girl really liked him so much - so he's probably a great guy to be with. You Don't Have to Be Married rnIn fact, you don't have to be married in order to get women interested in you. The principle of social proof can be used easily even if you're single. rnAs an example, let's say that you're out in a night club, and you're interested in a certain girl.rnInstead of immediately approaching her, you can get yourself seen in the presence of other people – preferably women. These can be some of your female friends, or even some random girl that you've met. rnBeing seen talking and having interactions with various people in the club, is a great method to make yourself extremely attractive while picking up women in a night club or a bar. rnThis can be also used in any social circles – including in parties, events, at the gym and in your office.rnSimply be a social person who loves talking to people, and your "attraction level" will always be high. Conveying High Status rnThe principle of social proof is one of many masculine traits that are attractive to women, including leadership, body language attraction, sense of humor and others.rnLike any other trait, you can convey social proof in various ways, not only by being seen around people. rnA great method that I use to convey social proof (and high status in general) is by mentioning it in stories that I tell women.rnYou should never mention it directly, but it's easy to add it as a part of a story. For example, I love to tell women about how I arranged a big party recently to which I invited many of my friends and people that I know. rnYou see – I just told a story, but inside I added the fact that I have many friends and a large social circle, and that people love to be around me. This conveys high status and social proof, even if I'm just talking to a girl.