Want to Catch Your Cheating Spouse? Then Look Out For the 5 Common Mistakes Every Cheater Makes
Written by Lucy Morgan-Rowe
Do you suspect that something's amiss in your relationship? Are you suspicious that your spouse is having an affair? Do you want to know how to catch your cheating spouse? It doesn't matter whether the cheater is male or female. They all will eventually get caught because here are the five most common mistakes that cheating spouses make. For simplicity of reading this article, we'll assume the cheating spouse is a male. But similar signs of cheating will apply to women cheaters as well.
1. Suddenly Changing His Appearancer
You have a guy who normally never shaves on weekends or shaves every other day and now he insists that his face be baby smooth all the times. Another tell-tale sign is that he suddenly cares about fashion. Here is someone who you normally couldn't get out of his ripped jeans and faded t-shirts and now he's wearing well-cut, designer jeans or tailored trousers and nice polo shirts or flattering button-downs, even on the weekend to run so-called errands. He may start going to a hair stylist instead of his regular barber or even dyes his hair. He's changed his food preferences to an improved diet and is exercising; not for his health, but because he wants to look better. Sudden appearance changes are a strong indicator that you should take steps to catch your (likely) cheating spouse.
2. Staying Out of Touchr
You used to be able to reach your husband whenever you wanted or needed to. Now, he doesn't answer his cell phone, he's unavailable when he's supposed to be at work, or he doesn't return your calls for hours or at all. When confronted, he makes unbelievable excuses. Or, he suddenly needs a second phone "for business" even though he's used his regular cell phone for years.
3. Unexplained Expendituresr
Your bank account is dwindling from cash withdrawals you didn't make, your credit card has charges he can't realistically explain or he suddenly gets his own credit card and has the bills sent to his workplace. Perhaps, even though you've always paid the bills, he unexpectedly says that he'll take over your home's bookkeeping. He assumes that you will be so happy to have him handle this chore that you won't notice anything is amiss. If this happens and you want to catch a cheating spouse, run a credit check for new cards issued in his name or go online and check your bank or credit card statements.
4. Sex habit changesr
You've pretty much been making love the same way and on a fairly routine schedule for years. Now, he either doesn't want sex, wants more sex, is anxious to try new sexual positions or he insists on wearing a condom even though you are already on birth control. Any or all of these are common errors that unfaithful husbands make that can help you catch your cheating spouse.
5. Gets overconfident and thinks he won't get caughtr
Think Tiger Woods here. If half of what Tiger Woods' alleged mistresses are displaying as proof of their affair is accurate, then Tiger Woods is one of the most careless, cocky and self-destructive cheaters around (or he has a serious sex addiction problem). If your cheating spouse is leaving voice mail messages on his lover's answering machine, letting his photograph be taken with the other woman that is uploaded to the Internet or otherwise can be forwarded to you, sends e-mails from his regular account or goes out with his mistress to places where people he knows can see him and possibly report back to you, then your spouse is either delusional that he won't get caught or he (or his mistress) wants you find out about the affair.
If your spouse has committed one or more of these common mistakes that someone who's unfaithful makes, then you should take act now to take steps to catch your cheating spouse.
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