What If Fear No Longer Stopped You From Your Dreams?
Written by Christine Arylo
What if fear no longer stopped you from your dreams?
What is it that you really want right now?
Not from your head or your ego, or what you think you should have to make you happy.
Go deeper.
To the place where real dreams,
dreams worth having and dreams that actually have the power to manifest in reality come from.
Go in to your heart.
Who already knows exactly what dream is raising its hand screaming, “Ooh! Ooh! Pick me!!”
Who already knows the first few steps you could take right now to turn it from dream to reality.
What does your heart have to say?
Can you hear her or him?
Okay, let’s do this together.
Close your eyes right now.
Take a breath and put your hand on your heart and ask,
“What is the one dream I have for myself that right now is most important to me?”
What does your heart say?
And if you were to ask
“What is the one or two steps that I can take in the next three days to move towards that dream?”
What does your heart say?
And wait, one more question…
“What is the one thing that will stop me from this dream becoming real?”
What does your heart say?
Okay, just one more…
“If I didn't listen to fear but instead to the truth in my heart, what do I know?”
Whew! Great work moving past your fear into love… if you were really listening to your heart when you did this exercise, then when you asked yourself what would stop my dream from becoming real, you would have felt your heart contracting, fluttering or some kind of feeling that was BLAH! That’s because fear had the microphone!
And as an ambassador of Team Love, I’m just not going to let fear win over you and smash your dream. All you have to do is take the love dare!
SELF-LOVE DARE…
Take one giant step toward your dream!
1.Write down the guidance you received in your journal, on a piece of paper, heck even a sticky note. Just somewhere you can see it.
2.Then write down, say out loud or share with a friend the one or two actions you are going to take in the next 3 days to take a giant leap toward
If you need some extra support connecting to your Inner Wisdom and her Team Love message about your dreams – you can download the video meditatio
I created.
Wherever this finds you today, read this knowing that fear only has the power you provide it and at any time you have a choice … To choose to have faith in LOVE or to choose to have faith in FEAR. I really encourage you to try on having faith in LOVE. And of course, that love starts with the love you have for yourself. Love yourself well today. You deserve it.
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About Christine Arylo
Popular author of Choosing ME before WE, Every Woman's Guide to Life and Love, Christine has been called the Queen of Self-Love. Her insights, fresh perspectives and daring take on love, in all its forms, have been featured on TV and radio stations across the country, in the world's top spas and retreat centers, and in colleges and corporations. She is the founder of Madly in Love with ME, an international movement of self-love, which includes a free self-love kit downloadable at www.ChooseSelfLove.com. She is also the co-founder of Inner Mean Girl Reform School, a virtual school where women go to transform their self-sabotaging voices into self-empowering ones.
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