A new male friend on facebook wrote and asked what makes men easy.

Here's what I told him:

What Makes Men Easy by dating and relationship expert Kara OhI studied men for a couple of years and I came up with 12 Secrets About Men. The first and the last are what makes a man easy...as in easy to be in a relationship with. The secrets in the middle are how to do the first and last secrets well.

In the first Secret I teach women to be beautiful in how they are, rather than ugly, which a lot of women are. By ugly I mean, whining, complaining, emasculating, out-of-control emotions, blaming, trying to change him, etc. By beautiful is be kind, gracious, happy, playful, appreciative and able to communicate needs in such a way that it is win/win for both sides.

The last Secret is, "A man wants to be with a woman who encourages him to enjoy being a man." She can do that by accepting him as he is, understanding why he is the way he is, both as a man and individually, by letting him know he makes her happy, encouraging him to spend time with his guy friends, not mothering him, not nagging, respecting him, being an enthusiastic lover, etc.

The hard part for women is taking control of themselves and choosing to be beautiful. Seems pretty crazy that they so often are ugly, but they mostly don't know any better. They tend to blame whatever is not right on the man, when they have a whole lot more control than they realize, including not getting involved with a man because he has "potential."

My goal is to help women be smarter about how they interact with men. Why? So they can be happier and enjoy how great it feels to be cherished by a man who adores her.

From my heart to yours,

Kara Oh, Author of Men Made Easy and other relationship books
Men Made Easy by Kara OhThe Single Most Important Skill You'll Need
If you've ever wondered what the single most important skill is for creating a deeply loving, passionate relationship is, I would tell you, without a doubt – it's the ability to use the power you already have, as a woman, over any man you want to influence.

That's because the single most important ingredient of any successful relationship is... the power that is hidden within you right now. I call it Feminine Grace and I'll teach you how to use it in Men Made Easy!.

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Author's Bio: 

Kara Oh,

relationship coach, best-selling author and public speaker, offers
a full range of products and services to assist women and men with
everything they need to create fulfilling relationships that are filled with
love, playfulness, romance and passion. Whether you are single and looking
for the right partner, involved and frustrated, or married and struggling
with everything from an affair to falling out of love, her unique resources
offer everything that you need to enjoy the kind of relationship you

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