Are you struggling with what to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back? Finding the right words to say in a situation like this can be a struggle. The problem is that this is generally a highly emotional and tense situation for both of you. It's far too easy to take one step further only to find yourself taking two or more steps in the wrong direction and losing any ground you've gained before.

How do you know what to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back? Don't you wish it were so easy that anyone could do it? While the odds are good that you have some idea of what he wants to hear you need to dig deeper and tell him what he needs to here. Give these three things a try for starters:

1) Let your boyfriend know he was right to call it quits. When he picks his jaw up off the floor and recovers from the shock of you agreeing with him he's going to find more questions than answers. Needless to say he'll be thinking about you long after you let him know how grateful you are that he called things off now rather than later. The other reason this works so well is because it's the complete option of what he is expecting from you. Keeping him on his toes builds a sense of mystery. Agreeing to the break up makes you seem "unavailable" and as a result infinitely more attractive to him.

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2) Make sure he knows that you've learned a few painful lessons from the mistakes that were made while the two you were together. This allows him to see how much you've grown and evolved since the end of the relationship (hopefully there's been a little time for that growth and maturity). Tell him you're sorry for the pain you've caused him and hope you'll one day be able to redeem yourself in his eyes.

3) Tell him what he really means to you. If you can't put it into words then maybe he's not the man for you after all. Tell him how much you love him, what he's taught you, and how much of a difference he made in your life when you were together as well as how much of a hole has been left in your life since his absence. He needs to know that you appreciated his contribution to the relationship and he wants to know that it was noticed and is missed.

Three things need to be made abundantly clear when you decide what to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back: appreciation, respect, and contrition for the best possible outcome.

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What Are You Waiting For?

Ready to mend your relationship?

Are you sitting around waiting for your partner to finally do some work towards fixing your broken relationship? What are you waiting for?

Your relationship, its future and its happiness are all within your reach. Right now, today.

There's no need to wait for your partner to do anything differently at all. In fact, if you really want to mend the rifts within your relationship, you probably won't have to do too much work either.

The key to putting your relationship back on the right track is all in learning to look at your partner through different eyes for just a moment.

Think of it this way: who's at fault for the problems in your relationship?

Most women will believe their partner is at fault for not spending enough time together, not trying to understand you, not giving you the affection you crave. A woman's view is all about what her partner ISN'T doing - not about what he IS.

However, your partner is very likely wondering what on earth happened to change the fun, confident, happy woman he fell in love with. He's looking at you with a perception that is all his own, and it has nothing to do with what he's not doing, but all about what YOU'RE not doing.

Between the two of you, you're both waiting for the other person to do something to make it right again.

And nobody's doing anything at all.

This kind of waiting-game is enough to drive a wedge right down the middle of your relationship and drive you apart for good if you're not careful.

Rather than wait for your partner to figure out on his own what he's not doing right in the relationship, isn't it time you focused on what he is doing right that keeps you hanging around waiting?

When you begin to focus on the good things, you begin to appreciate your partner in a different way.

Of course, the good thing about men is that when they notice you're appreciating the little things they actually do, they become determined to do them more often - and that can really help bring you closer together.

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