Turn the Tables On Your Ex and Use 3 “Under The Radar” Tactics That Will Get Them To Ask YOU To Get Back Together With Them!

So you've broken up with your ex. Now what? You have a couple of choices and decisions to make. You can either wallow in self pity and feel sorry for yourself or you can pull yourself together, regroup and decide to do whatever it takes to get back together with your ex. Rather than relying on trial and error, you also need a plan of action that will determine what you need to do, when and how to get back together with your ex. This article will describe 3 strategies you can use in the initial stage of the break up in order to put your relationship back on the right track again.

* It's understandable if you feel shocked, sad, frustrated and angry as a result of the break up. This is why it's important that you take a step back and recover from the emotional effects of the break up before doing anything else. This is especially important if you and your ex broke up recently.

Once you let your emotions subside you will be in the right frame of mind to view the situation from a different, more logical point of view. Only then can you seriously start thinking about what your next move should be. Ideally, you should tell your ex that you agree with the break up and that spending some time away from each other will give both of you a chance to re-evaluate your relationship.

* Avoid contacting your ex for a while. This may seem counter-intuitive, but it's effective for couple of reasons. Calling your ex constantly, sending letters, e-mails, text-messages and gifts will give him or her the impression that you are desperate and clingy. Nobody likes that.

You need to come across as an individual who can deal with the situation in a mature way. Secondly, following this strategy will give you enough time to recover emotionally from the effects of the break up and allow you to think carefully about the exact steps you need to take to reconcile with your ex.

* When the time comes for you to re-establish contact with your ex, take things slowly. Don't talk about the break-up, your relationship or the possibility of getting back together. Your priority should be to make your ex comfortable in your presence again rather than pressuring them back into a relationship with you. A good start would be to take them out for coffee and keep the mood casual and light. Your ex will subconsciously feel more attracted to you and getting them back will become easier.