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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***How to Get Dates with Smart, Confident Men

I've been told that I'm scary. That's what my client, Liz, told me today. She says that several men have said she's intimidating and "too much for them." I was told that when I was single and dating. My response was: that's who I am—and if you can't take it, I don't want you! (I probably added a couple expletives, but I'll spare you.) After I finally got sick enough of being alone and having one dating failure after another, I took a good look at myself. What I saw was that my approach to men was somewhat cold, defensive and bordering on aggressive.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Should You Trust Your Instincts? Beats Me.

“Intuition is truly a feminine quality, but women should not mistake rash conclusions for this gift.”~Minna Antrim The other day I was listening to my friend tell me about her 25 minute “date” with this guy “who had nothing going for him.” As she’s talking I’m thinking: WTF?! So I ask her how she could possibly conclude anything about someone in 25 minutes? Her response: I trust my intuition; it’s always right.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Key #5 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Real Women Find Their Man

This is the fifth and last in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 5 Keys are: M - Me and Me first. A - Assess your list. S - Shed your stuff. T - Time to get out and Trail blaze. R - Real women find their man. The truth is that as we get older, the ratio of single men to women begins to favor men. That means there's a lot of competition, especially for the confident, healthy, relationship-minded man you want to meet. That good man has a lot of options – and I want You to be the one he chooses!

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***The Truth about Dating, Single Men and Strong, Independent Women

Are you a single woman over 40 who is smart, independent and thinking there are no good men out there? I hope you don’t mind my saying this: you are wrong. As a dating and relationship coach – and a woman who was a first-time bride at 47 – I’m quite aware of what we tell ourselves: Men can’t handle smart, powerful women. This is who I am and I'm not going to change for any man. I’m going to wait for the man who accepts me just the way I am and if he doesn't come along then I'll be just as happy. Sound familiar at all?

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

30 Things You Can Do This Weekend (With or Without a Man)

Happy Memorial Day weekend! How about a little trivia to start your day?

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Why the Gracious Needy Gal Gets the Guy

Needy women attract good men. "Low-maintenance" women attract jerks…or no men at all. Is this counter to what you've always thought? Did you think that the less you expected from a man, the more he'd like you? Well, consider this: A Good Man – one who is confident, mature and relationship-minded – wants to give to a woman and make her happy. He needs to know that you need him and that he's enhancing your already-great life.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Dating and Looking for Love? Why You Should Think of Yourself First

Do you know that you are special, that you count big time, and that you deserve to think of yourself first when dating and developing a love relationship? This is such a difficult concept for so many women. Think of myself first? That’s so selfish! I’ve never done that before…ever! I don’t want to become one of those bossy bitchy women!

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***30 Things You Can Do This Weekend (With or Without a Man)

Happy Memorial Day weekend! How about a little trivia to start your day?

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***10 Simple Things to Do to Improve Your Search for Love

Have you heard this quote by Anthony Robbins: “If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.” I love this quote. What does it have to do with dating and your search for love? It may have everything to do with it…especially if you’ve been looking for a meaningful relationship for some time. Let me ask you: Do you want to find a good man to be your life partner? How long have you been looking or waiting for him?

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Albert Einstein...a Relationship Expert?

Albert Einstein once said: “Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.” Al was so damn smart! Not only was he the king of quantum physics, he got right to the heart of one of the most troubling challenges in male/female relations. Okay…let’s break this down:

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***How to Know if He is Merely Hot...or Maybe Husband

Looking for a life partner but keep picking players, paupers, or just plain zeros? Finding a partner is like finding a good job: you only need one, but making a bad choice wastes your time and sticks you in an unpleasant situation. To avoid that, you need to make a grown-up decision about whether it’s good for you and how it will enhance your life. That means not letting yourself be taken in by the flashy exterior. It means asking the right questions and using that sharp brain of yours to answer.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Key #1 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Me First

This is the first in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 5 Keys are: M - Me and Me first. A - Assess your list. S - Shed your stuff. T - Time to get out and Trail blaze. R - Real women find their man. A single man I know once said, “If a woman doesn’t seem to love herself, why should I love her?” That makes sense. Keep in mind that: • The way you treat yourself is how others will treat you. • What you expect from people is what you will receive.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Key #3 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Shed Your Stuff

This is the third in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 5 Keys are: M - Me and Me first. A - Assess your list. S - Shed your stuff. T - Time to get out and Trail blaze. R - Real women find their man. I know you are a fabulous, smart, accomplished woman who has created a good life for herself. You're probably here, though, because there’s a missing piece. It's likely that you're still looking for love because there's something standing splat in your way. And that something is probably You.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Are You Expecting Men to Act Like Women?

My idea for today's post came from a seminar I hosted last week called "Making Sense of Men." It was co-led by a trainer for PAX Programs International, which is in the business of educating women about men. If you haven't familiarized yourself with PAX, which is the brilliant work of Alison Armstrong, I can't recommend it enough. I attended my first course with them 10 years ago, and it was a life-changing experience.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Why Women over 40 Should Be Picky Daters…Kind of

"I know why you aren't married: you're just too picky!" Women who are single in their 40s, 50s and beyond hear this a lot. After all, what other reason can there be for why you haven't yet snagged a man? As a woman who became a first-time bride at 47, I heard this a lot—especially from my father. And the word "picky" was said with such disdain, like I wasn't deserving of being selective. Like I should just grab the next guy who would have me.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Two Lessons that Single Women Over 40 Can Learn from Oprah

I hate being like everyone else, but I have to make an exception for Oprah. Everyone is talking about her, and rightly so. May 25 is her final show. Oprah will no longer be visiting us every weekday, teaching us, nourishing our spirits and making us laugh. The positive transformation this one woman has effected in the world is breathtaking.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Why Online Dating Is Not for You

Last week I hosted a workshop called Get Online, Get Noticed, Get Dates, Exclusively for Women over Forty. I had a fantastic time with these smart and lovely women who really want to meet their mate. It was a total blast, and they all left excited and feeling like they had the confidence and tools to get online and go for it.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***3 Ways to Manage Rejection So You Can Move On

Rejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it. Thing is: rejection doesn’t have to strike a mortal blow. I know so many women who avoid connecting with men – by choice or unconsciously – because they don’t want to experience rejection. If you don’t accept – even welcome – rejection, your dream of meeting a life partner will most surely never materialize. It will keep you from getting out there and giving it your best.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***How to Be a Powerful, Feminine Woman

Want to attract a confident, grounded man who will enhance your already great life? The best way to do it is to act like a lady. Yes, that age-old scenario is still true: masculine men are attracted to feminine women. Men want to know that they're contributing to our lives. When a man cares about you, making you happy is his mission. If you don't allow him this gift, chances are he will not stay. Or, if he does, he will give you what you ask for: nothing.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***How to Make Every Date Great

The first ten minutes of a date often determine whether a second date is ever going to happen, and let's face it: second dates are not the norm for many. That was definitely my story until I learned about (what I now call) "Date Waste."

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***The Truth About Reading Men’s Minds – And Quieting Yours

If you’re a woman who tends to over think and over analyze (and let’s face it…what woman doesn’t?) I want to advise you when it’s appropriate to do so about men: N-E-V-E-R! Oh how we love to dwell in conversations with ourselves about all kinds of fascinating things. Is he attracted to me, what will I do if he does/does not call, what signal was he trying to send when he did this/didn’t do that, what did he really mean when he said…?

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Valentine's Day: Make It All about YOU!

Have you been dreading it and trying to avoid it? Chances are pretty good – thanks to all the advertising and silliness – that you’re keenly aware Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. I used to call Valentine's Day “Singles Awareness Day.” Now that I'm married I couldn't care less about it. I know from years of personal, painful experience that being single on Valentine’s Day can suck. Sure, you might not want a box of cheap chocolates or a dozen roses that will wilt and die in days. But I’d bet good money you want what Valentine’s Day is supposed to represent: being in love.r

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***When You Should Treat a Man Like a Woman

<img src="http://datelikeagrownup.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/Girlfriends-Fotolia_9196352_S.jpg" width="160" height="160"> Are you an independent, smart single woman who is dating and looking for love? If so, you've likely been challenged with how to respond when a man does something that ticks you off. What are realistic expectations? What should you tolerate? I get asked this question in many forms.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***What Men Say About Women (It May Surprise You!)

What if you could hear men honestly share their thoughts and feelings about women, dating, sex and relationships? I had the opportunity to do that twice last week when I hosted and observed "man panels."

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Please Be Kind to Frogs

Think about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss before I find my prince?” You know what I’m talking about. It’s cute, and although we don’t really laugh at it, it tends to ease some of our feelings of disappointment and rejection. Let’s face it: after years of dating with no spectacular man to show for it, we have to tell ourselves something to help explain away the fact that we’re still “alone.”

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

Avoid Dating Burnout by Thinking More Like a Man

This week I spoke with my client, “Sue,” who recently entered the online dating world. Right off the bat she had scoped out a profile she really liked and emailed him. He seemed interested, attentive and pretty fabulous on paper. The next thing you know…she has a date! When they met in real life, he complimented her generously, told her he felt so lucky to have met her, and talked about doing lots of things together. At the end of the date, they both agreed they wanted to see each other again. She felt a major connection.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Why Married Men Adore You But the Single Guys Don't

As a Dating and Relationship Coach for Women, I talk to many women who say they are buddies with many married and attached men; yet they don't get asked out on any dates. The complaint comes under one of these two categories: 1. She talks to a lot of men and they seem to like her; but none ask her out. 2. While she doesn't connect with single men, the married and attached men adore her. In fact, they tell her they can't figure out why she hasn't met a fantastic man yet...and they mean it.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Are You What's Holding You Back from Finding Love?

Why do we hold on to the man who isn’t good for us, our feelings of insecurity and being less-than, or our pattern of picking jerks and liars? These are all self-sabotaging behaviors and beliefs, and intellectually we know it. Yet we cling on for dear life, feeling powerless over our unfortunate circumstance.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Key #2 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Assess Your List

This is the second in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 5 Keys are: M - Me and Me first. A - Assess your list. S - Shed your stuff. T - Time to get out and Trail blaze. R - Real women find their man. Most of you probably have a list of what you want in a man. It may not be on paper…but you have one. It usually includes things like: Honest Tall Funnyr Good lookingr Financially stable

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

Are You Waiting to Be Wowed?

Newsflash: Women constantly push really good guys right out of their lives without even knowing it. We do it by behaving in ways that, until pointed out by someone else, are a complete mystery. Finally having this pointed out to me in my early 40s was a huge part of my transition from a pretty happy single gal to, at age 47, a truly fulfilled wife of a loving and adoring man.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

Your Fear of Rejection Is Getting You Rejected (FemiType #3: The Scaredy Cat)

We all know that dating over 40 can be a bit of a jungle with challenges, surprises and pitfalls. I'm sure you've encountered your share of Pingers, Needy-men and Players as you meet single men. I get it, and you belong to a large, loving sisterhood. But it's not only us gals who have dating disasters. Men have their fair share of icky, confusing, ego-crushing experiences too.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***How You Can Help Men Make You Happy

If you don’t ask…you don’t get. I think this is the key to being happy with men. It’s one of my Dad’s favorite lines. I heard it so often growing up that it’s now a mantra in my already overloaded brain. Dad’s premise was that it is your responsibility to state what you want, and then give people a chance to give it to you. If you don’t ask for something, there’s a good chance you won’t get it. And if you don’t, it’s not the potential giver’s fault; it’s yours.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

Don't Sleep through your Sex Life

Have you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you're in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy "being on hiatus." And the hiatuses were often pretty long. (Sorry…TMI?) The truth is that extended periods of celibacy are somewhat common for single women over 40. Unlike our earlier years of joyful experimentation and bed-hopping, most of us aren't sleeping with any guy that comes along. (Yes…pun intended.)

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***"What Looking for Love and Birthing a Baby Have in Common"

There are so many women I care deeply about —both friends and clients — who are holding themselves back from bringing love into their lives. Are you one of them? Are you saying "I want a fabulous man in my life" and "I know I'm a catch," yet not doing much to actually reach your self-described all-important goal? Are you doing the same routine each day, expecting things to be different? Are you staying closed in your head and your heart, unwilling to learn to better understand and love men...and yourself?

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***When Do Men Expect to Have Sex With Us? A Single Man's Response

I get asked this question constantly. Women who are dating want to know this; especially women who are divorced and over 40, and haven’t been dating for some time. They also want to know how they can tell if sex is all he wants. Good questions. The truth is that whether you’re dating at 20, 40, or 70 you’re going to question how long you should wait – and he will wait – before you get intimate. And you certainly want to be able to spot the guys who just want to hop in the sack and then go on to the next gal.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

Are You a Princess?

If you're going to be a successful dater (which means you have fun and meet good men), an essential tool is the ability to empathize with the men you meet. Empathy is not feeling sorry for someone. It's being able to put yourself in their shoes and understand their experience. I believe that the only way women can truly do that with men is to hear their stories firsthand. In my years of coaching I have gathered thoughts, feelings and stories from men in their early 30s up to their 70s, and clear patterns have emerged.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Four Ways to Flirt with Flair and Class

No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the "I think you're hot and would be interested in going out with you" way is to flirt. When I suggest that to the over-40 women in my dating workshops and coaching programs, I can see them cringe. Most of these otherwise outgoing women have no idea how to flirt, and many consider it childish and classless. I have news for you. Here is what you get when you don't flirt with nice men: a nice conversation. That's it. But you're not looking for a buddy, right? You want to be asked out.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

Are You Still 18 When It Comes to Dating and Relationships?

Dating like a grownup is the quickest path to finally enjoying mutually nurturing relationships with men who are full of respect, adoration and commitment. If you're going to date like a grownup, developing empathy for men is crucial. Just like all your relationships, when you have the ability to step outside yourself and get into someone else's head and heart (even just a little), your connections instantly improve.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***How to Spot the Bad Guys and Chase Them Away

Do you want to be in a relationship with a man who doesn't care what you want and need? I'm going to assume the answer is "no." So I have to ask: Why would you date a man who doesn't care what you want and need? Two of my private coaching clients are struggling with the notion of communicating their needs and desires to the men they date. Most of my clients have this challenge. I know I did. We think that if we share what we want, the guy will think us pushy and selfish, and leave.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Let's Agree to Face Our Fear

Do you go month to month, year to year, repeating the same mantra about men? It leaves your mouth in various forms, but you’ve got only one point: to release yourself from any responsibility and keep you safe and snug-as-a-bug-in-a-rug without the worry of that pesky intimacy thing. "There are no good men out there. I’m better off without a man. I don’t want any man who isn’t willing to accept me exactly as I am. All the men my age are old fuddy-duddies or want the young girls...." Blah, blah, blah. Okay ladies…I’m here to say once again: Please Stop That!

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***The 10 Style Secrets of Hip, Healthy & Sexy Women Over 40

Do you walk out of the house each day feeling good about yourself, and ready to run into that one man who is going to rock your world an put that proverbial cherry on your cake? Check out this guest post by Sybil Henry, The Style Concierge. Sybil joined me Wednesday night for my GGNO Club event: The Art of Being a Woman, Mastering Your Secret Super Power. (Have you signed up yet?) I love this woman. you will too.rn———————–

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Why It Can Be a Good Thing When He Goes Cave-bound

Last week a smart, thoughtful woman left a comment on my post about Dating the Somewhat Disappearing Man. These are the guys I call “pingers” because they ping you (or contact you) just often enough to make sure you’re there when they need or want you. They keep you attached and interested, and often get in touch when it’s time for some sex. She asked such a good question, I want to share it with all of you. Here goes:

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

The One Word You Can Use to Magnetize the Right Man

A single man I know once said: If a woman I'm interested in doesn't seem to love herself, why should I love her...and trying to convince her that she's great would be too exhausting. When a man meets this kind of woman he may be attracted initially, but after figuring out that she is a project (one he doesn't care to take on), he will soon disappear. Your phone won't ring after the first or second date because if you're not keen on yourself, a good man takes that as a signal to run. It makes sense. Think about how you judge a man as a good potential mate.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

What Dating Is Like for Men (Oh…ya think you know?)

Last week was Men’s Health week; and as another nod to the guys, I thought I'd help them by helping you better understand them. (Did you follow that?) In particular, I want to help you better understand the experience men have when they're trying to “date like a grownup.”

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Is Something Surprisingly Simple Keeping You From Finding Him?

<img src="http://datelikeagrownup.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/Eyeliner-like-a-Pro.jpg" width="223" height="167"> I learned something this week that completely rocked my world: when you apply eyeliner, you should start from the inside of your lid, not the outside.

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Dating Tip: First Decide Whether You Like Him

It’s pathetic how easily I can find my self acting like the insecure kid I was in high school. These days it doesn’t come up too much, but can happen when I meet someone I especially like and admire, and get the sense they don’t return the feeling. I can get to feeling so hurt and undeserving that I turn into a withdrawn ball of mush.

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***How to Write a Killer Email and Get Dates Online

Want to know the number one trick to meeting men online and getting dates? Learn how to write a killer email. When I was online, I remember how it felt. I’d send an endless number of emails that seemed to go into the pit of Internet rejection hell. The truth is, there is a lot of competition out there—especially if you’re a woman dating over 40. Move into your 50s and 60s, and the competition gets downright fierce. Having a fantastic profile is a must, but coupling that with the art of writing emails sets you up to be a surefire winner in the game of I-love.

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***Why You're Dating and Not Finding Quality Men

Dating can be a real pain in the butt, right? It can be a lot of work that leads to a lot of nothing. I conducted a survey recently and asked women what their biggest challenge was when they date. The #1 response was: I’m not meeting quality men. Can you relate?? I hear this from women all the time. I’m tired of meeting losers. All the good ones are gay or taken. All the men I meet are bald, boring, messy, sex-crazed, they are too this, not enough that. And the most common: I just don’t feel a spark with any men I’m meeting.

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

***How to Decide When to Have Sex

The ladies in my Master the Mystery of Meeting Men telecourse have been talking about S-E-X. When is it okay to have it? How do you decide? This is such an important conversation! You may think "I'm not even dating yet...who cares!" But the decision may be closer than you think, and I want you to be prepared. Sex can be a glorious part of a relationship. But for women, it can also wreak havoc on your emotional state. Having sex too soon can also mess up an otherwise budding relationship.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Bobbi PalmerRecently published1 topic

Delicious Life Lessons I Learned from My Father

My Dad died. There…I said it out loud. Even though I was by his side and saw him take his very last breath, it’s been hard to believe he’s gone forever. F-o-r-e-v-e-r. I wanted to write this article for Thanksgiving so I could publicly thank him and show my gratitude. How trite, I thought. It doesn't do him justice. So I write now. On a dreary Friday in November. Just another day like every single day since October 2 when I think of him and wish he were here.

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