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Finally! A step-by-step guide on how to meet women that makes meeting women fun and easy for any guy! I have a question... (And you have to be honest with me here!) Is meeting women hard for you to do? Do you feel afraid when it comes to meeting women? And is that fear keeping you from ...
It seems to be a complete mystery. Something we cannot understand. And yet it happens every day all around us: People who used to love each other madly suddenly fall out of love, just like that. What are the reasons? Sarah's Story: Sarah and her boyfriend had been the perfect couple. It was as ...
I got this email today from a good friend of mine and just had to share... One of the things, unless we're REALLY lucky in life, is that we are never taught exactly 'how to kiss'. Some get it and some don't, but mostly we learn by trial and error. Knowing how to kiss a woman the right way ...
Have you ever been out on a date with someone who you really liked, but you weren't sure exactly how to let them know that you really like them and are interested in them? It can be hard to know how to express yourself around someone whom you don't know very well yet. There are LOTS of ways to ...
Ladies, you know in your heart if your man is cheating on you. You can feel it... Maybe you've suspected for a while that things aren't quite right in your relationship and you're worried that maybe he's stepping out on you, but you just can't put your finger on exactly what's bugging ...
Want to give your man a thrilling experience like never before? Here are 5 really simple ways to make your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more passionate, starting tonight! 1. The best position for his enjoyment Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” ...
At some point or another, almost all of us have used magical thinking to give us the confidence to go on when a relationship hits a rough patch. Most people are able to move through this stage by taking risks to confront their partners. They realize that heated discussions, arguments, even ...
Marriage is a choice that thousands of people make every day. For many people, this is one of the best times of their lives. Unfortunately, however, marriage may not always be the best choice or the one that makes you the happiest and even worse, this is usually not realized until much ...
Did you know that love does NOT conquer all? You see, often people get married with the idea that their “chemistry” or undying love for each other will keep them together forever. However, with almost 50% of marriages ending in divorce these days, it’s obvious that this ...
Infidelity can sneak up on even the most solid partnerships. According to an infidelity poll conducted by WomanSavers.com of 6,330 women, 92% believe that emotional affairs lead to physical affairs, whereas only a mere 7% believe they do not. With the increase in technology, cheating has ...
If you find yourself in a relationship where you find yourself constantly arguing and fighting with your partner, you're not the only one. You're also not alone if you genuinely love this person and want to make the relationship work. Are you doomed to a breakup? Not necessarily... Dear Dan ...
I’m all for individual style and taste but if you want to ensure that you don’t send the wrong messages, there are some style tips that you can’t afford to miss. Groom from the inside out I don’t care how hard you’ve worked, how little time you have, and bla, bla, ...
It's not so easy to get dumped by a man who dislikes change. Of all the zodiac signs, Taurus is the most stubborn, a true creature of habit. The Bull is an earth sign (along with Virgo and Capricorn), focused on tangible progress and concrete results. He's attached to his treasured possessions. ...
It may be hard to 'lose' a Taurus, but it's just as difficult to keep a Gemini. The sign of the Twins is known for being fickle and flighty, stimulation-seeking and superficial. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and information. The winged messenger is faster than the speed ...
Being in the "on top" position during sex can be a nerve-wracking experience for both women and men. The expectation to please and to make the person "on bottom" orgasm can easily turn a playful sexual experience into an emotional disaster. Although it's commonly assumed that ...
Your guy may change your tires, buy you presents and open the door for you at a restaurant, but he has not yet uttered those three words. Does that mean he doesn't love you? Without hearing the utterance, you may wonder what's going on in his skull. Is he just sticking around for the sex? Has ...
Having sex for the first time with a new partner is always an exercise in silent negotiation. Issues such as who will take the dominant role or when the undressing will begin abound and are often worked out using body language, eye contact, and other non-verbal communication cues. Although ...
How compatible are you really with your partner? Down deep, where it really counts? How would you know? Just because you like the same types of foods and pets certainly does NOT mean you'll have a happy, blissful, long-term relationship. Do you know why your mate does or doesn't attend church? ...
Many years ago, when I finally overcame my extremely painful break up, I noticed a strong shift in different areas of my life. I'd become stronger, more independent, my relationship to others had improved - I was simply able to enjoy life more. That was the moment when I started to plan how to ...
It's no surprise to learn one of the sexiest places in a house is the kitchen; the delicious smells, the beautiful colors, the way everything simmers together, tempting our senses into complete and utter abandon... Unfortunately most of us never get the opportunity to fully explore all of the ...
Having hot, passionate sex with someone you love is a wonderful experience, certainly more fulfilling than sex with someone you barely know. And having lots of sex and erotic adventures with your partner is usually a really good thing. But how much is too much? Here's a question from ...
Some partners are possessive, while others don't even ask where you were all night. And when it comes to independence, it can be maddening if the two of you don't have a good fit. You may want your main squeeze to be with you all the time, while your honey bristles at being under a tight leash. ...
Everyone likes to think it's just men that watch porn. Wives and girlfriends everywhere, high on false righteousness, patrol their man's computer to make sure it's still virgin. And God forbid he actually watches porn on TV. After all, porn's just downright wrong, isn't it? Or is it? But here's ...
Everyone has their own sexual preferences, whether it's plain old missionary position, lights off, oral sex, anal sex (gasp!), or any one of dozens of exotic sexual activities. Of course, nobody thinks of what they like as a weird fetish. No, what they like is always "OK" and ...
Life doesn’t always go smoothly, have you noticed that? It’s easy to feel in love and happy with your partner during times of success and relative calm. But times like that don’t come along all that often. My husband and I figure we have had one year that was ...
Are You Tired of Striking Out Night After Night? Most guys think that women like 'bad' boys so they try to portray this image and simply end up looking like a jerk. What a woman really wants is a man who will keep her interest, has great confidence, who is not afraid to stand out, and is ...
You can't really blame some modern men and women for rolling their eyes at the idea of old-fashioned romance. The phrase brings to mind antiquated images of dramatic gestures, overly poetic assertions and a sort of starry-eyed obliviousness that most contemporary lovers find pretty silly and ...
What would you do if you started dating a man and the relationship seemed perfect. Except for one little thing... You find out that he hasn't really ended his last relationship. He's still seeing his ex while dating you. He sees her, he takes care of her emotionally and financially, and he ...
Randy was reaching for a doughnut when his wife glared at him. Inside, Randy could feel a defiance surging inside. He reached for the second doughnut and felt smug and happy with himself. Janet struggled to maintain her composure when Jerry joked about her going to spend her morning with ...
OK, fine... We all have different views on pornography and sexually explicit movies and pictures. Some people take a firm stand against porn, while others use porn and erotic movies to enhance and spice up their sex lives. And these days, internet pornography is easily accessible to those ...
Although you're probably familiar with the terms "sex drive" and "libido," how much about your own sexual clock do you understand? For example, can you list your sexual "need" signs? How long can you go without sex before it starts to negatively affect you? Are ...
Is your guy so cheap he squeaks when he walks? Is your girl so thrifty she uses tea bags thrice? I feel your pain. I too was a long-suffering companion of a date who felt that a root canal was preferable to spending money. Allow me to introduce him. We'll call him Rob. (I'll call him the most ...
The hot new song from Pink which is all the rage these days - and one of the top songs on iTunes - has an unusual title that many people haven't noticed. It's called "U + Ur Hand", as in "You and Your Hand". There's this expectation that any woman in a bar is looking for a ...
A while back I sat with a beautiful older woman who had been struggling with depression for most of her life. She and her husband have been married close to 40 years, and their relationship has become distant, though they still report to love each other. I was shocked to learn ...
Explore the Logic of Passion Emotions are the primal bonds of our relationships. They are authentic, immediate, intimate, passionate, and memorable. They provide a window into another’s most genuine thoughts and feelings while they reveal our own true selves. Emotions are colorful, ...
As a couple’s therapist, I’ve seen a myriad of relationships styles. People who come in for counseling are clearly looking to change something they see problematic in their partnership. The problems range from the relatively benign tweaks in communication to serious pain and trust ...
After being married for a while, many couples find themselves in a situation where one partner feels angry, hurt, and/or resentful toward the other. They feel that they're the only one who's made sacrifices for the relationship, that they gave up their dreams, so that their partner could ...
I love you! Love you too! I love you more! No, I love you more! AAAAAhhhh! Stop it! You hear it every day... people casually throw these magical words around like there was no tomorrow. Sometimes it's a replacement for "talk to you later" when you're going to hang up... "Luv you. ...
There is a beautiful little town just south of where I live. It has peaceful, quiet, tree-lined streets with beautiful homes both old and new. It is the perfect example of small tow America, a place where many of us dream of raising our children, a place that we think of as being safe. Last ...
Every little girl grows up wanting to be a beautiful princess. So is it any wonder that young girls are so attracted to rock stars, movie stars, and pop idols? After all, they're waiting for their gorgeous prince to ride in and rescue them, after which they'll fall in love, get married, ...
Not having any luck dating online? You may be making these mistakes. 1. Being a Winking, IM’ng, and Email Whore Imagine if you went to a club and winked at someone all night, maybe even leered at them and you hadn’t introduced yourself yet? Imagine that you kept knocking on ...
So, when's the last time you used modern technology to share your romantic feelings with your significant other? The advent of the Internet, cell phones and hundreds of other modern communication tools has indeed made our world a bit more impersonal and fostered an expectation of immediate ...
Ever feel like you're being just a little TOO persistent? Do you ever wonder why she never seems to get that email or text message you sent? And how did she miss all those voice messages you left her? Wait... could she be trying to tell you something? Ask Yourself These Questions to Decide ...
Loneliness is one of the deepest sorrows – at its peak it feels like a quiet desperation, a yearning to melt completely with another, a slow suffocation that we can’t escape no matter what. And it was shocking to see how common it is. The media has begun to describe the spread of ...
Jim was a thirty-something man who was involved in a violent relationship. He was not proud of his part in the violence and had been attending an anger management group. He felt to blame for what had happened and was clearly confused and ashamed that he had behaved this way toward the woman he ...
Growing up in the 60’s with a liberal mother I was all over the women’s movement. We marched for Choice, we burned our bra’s, we shouted out “Equal Rights for Equal Pay!” And, we did a lot of good. Things have changed. They are not yet as equal as they should be ...
Unless you have been hiding unde eath a rock you have heard about the Law of Attraction in the past couple of years. Since the movie “the Secret” came out it seems that everyone has been talking about it. Basically the Law of Attraction says that you will attract what you ...
Why do we cry at weddings? I think its because we are all hopeless romantics. We all want the dream of a lasting connection that keeps us engaged and invested. We want to feel hot about our love 30 years into the marriage and we want that for others. We cry because we want it ...
I think we've probably all been in, or have known someone in this situation... You meet someone really great, you have a lot in common, you have so much fun together, you really click. There's just one little problem. He already has a girlfriend! The particular type of man that I'm referring to ...