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"5 Relationship-Wrecking Mistakes" -- Mistake 4 Cup Stuffing

In the past few articles, we've discussed the first 3 of the 5 most common communication mistakes: Case Building, Story Telling, and Message Assuming.nnCase building is the first choice we are faced with in communication. It is deciding whether we want to build a case against somebody by gathering evidence to be used against them, or whether we want to build a connection with them.nnStory telling is when we tell ourselves a story about an observation -- and then believe it. W

November 19, 2006

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Got Jealousy?

So, what do humans and the frilled lizard have in common? Sometimes, when we're afraid, we both puff out our faces and ears and try to act really, really scary. The fear in jealousy is so strong that it cannsometimes make us react to situations like a frilled lizard, just to make sure that our partner gets the point that we don't want them to stray.nnAnd how many times has that ever made your beloved admire you more? Probably not many...nnPeople use the word 'jealousy' as a f

November 6, 2006