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When a relationship comes to an end, each person can go their own way, or something else might take place. As a result of this, it could only be matter of days or even weeks before they are back together.
Round in Circles
In fact, this could be something that will take place more than ... Views: 48
Come 4th February 2017, the Chinese will usher in the solar New Year of the Fire Rooster. It heralds the arrival of Li Chun or spring in the Chinese solar calendar.
This is when the energy of the earthly stars will circulate in a property within a defined pattern according to Flying Stars ... Views: 74
One of the biggest issues that couples face is that after the first few blissful months or years together we begin to see our partner’s flaws, the things we don’t like and the things that upset us and annoy us. When we initially fall in love it is with the feeling it gives us. We feel on top of ... Views: 76
Welcome to Shamanics in Portugal´s Journal. Our intention is to remind you our readers, friends and connections we are all part of a much larger, ever evolving community bringing balance between Father Sky and Mother Earth, and within ourselves. Did you make shifts in October? November is the ... Views: 51
They are the three "Ds" in your life - desperation, dependency and doubt. They sneak in without you realizing they are there, create havoc and ruin relationships. But, when you are aware of the potential problem, you can stop the problems before they start, whether you are manifesting the ... Views: 57
What is the means and reason of marriage?
Marriage is that the intimate union and same partnership of a person and a lady. It involves North American country from the hand of God, World Health Organization created male and lady in his icon, so as that they may come back to be one frame and ... Views: 57
We all know love is the best and purest feeling in the world. But it is not always very easy to express love, no matter how intense your love is. So, what do you do when you are stuck between – whether I should say it all and hold back? You must communicate your feelings without worrying about ... Views: 75
We all were about to sit in meditation when suddenly there was commotion, a friend's dog had somehow walked into the hall. It came to me, jumped on my lap and started to lick my face. Even though I was discussing a serious topic with a serious crowd, with the dog in my lap I suddenly became a ... Views: 65
A lot of the time men have trouble getting out of a "dry spell," or getting out of a "rut." For some men, this can be because they moved to a new city and are struggling to create a new peer group. For other men, it can be that they've simply lost touch with old friends.
Either way, getting ... Views: 146
I suppose you might be wondering how long things can last without getting back together with your spouse, especially when you are hoping for reconciliation. There is no definite time frame when all hope of reconciling is cut-off, and I know this from personal experience. Some people can be apart ... Views: 158
Welcome to Shamanics in Portugal´s Journal. Our intention is to remind you our readers, friends and connections we are all part of a much larger, ever evolving community bringing balance between Father Sky and Mother Earth, and within ourselves. This was never more so than this month of ... Views: 88
If one was to think about why they are a relationship with someone, they could begin to list what they like about them. This is then going to be a time when they will go over what they bring to their life.
Having them in their life is not simply going to give them someone to spend time with; ... Views: 121
The current wisdom is that people are attracted to those who are confident in their demeanor. They know what they want and they go after it. They know with certainty who they are, what they're worth and that they are worthy. On the other hand, wisdom also holds that men are interested in the ... Views: 141
What if Joyce dies before me? This is one of my greatest vulnerabilities.
Sure, I could die first. Statistically, women live longer than men. But this is not my vulnerability. My dying first brings up other feelings, like abandoning my true love, not being there to help her when she needs ... Views: 104
How do I know if I am acting codependent or loving? This is an excellent question and often confusing for many for different reasons. Let’s look at the definitions of codependent and loving and see what we find.
Love: An intense feeling of deep affection. For the purpose of this article, we ... Views: 223
Some women have this "thing" that attracts all the men in a 20-square foot vicinity. Most women can't identify what that is, but most men will be able to identify it and will hone in like bees to a hive. Women might think she's beautiful, has a great body, dresses well or knows how to flirt. But ... Views: 170
When someone’s relationship comes to an end, they can have to the need to carry on with their life. There is then going to be no reason for them to spend time talking about the person they were with.
If this is because it ended badly, it will be normal for them to want to put ... Views: 150
Navigating through the dating scene as you look for your soulmate can be daunting. You want to protect your heart when you start dating someone new while also remaining open to possibilities. Astrology is a good tool to gain access into the fundamental personality of someone you’ve just met. You ... Views: 157
Una maravilla del español, es que expresamos el amor en dos etapas: una basada en que existe independiente de las otras emociones, “te amo”, y otra que expresa emociones fuertes y deseos que decimos “te quiero”. Te quiero también significa que de alguna forma te necesito, que mi felicidad ... Views: 86
In life from birth we are alert. We are alert to the chase of life. You may not remember your discovery years of life. Although, in our former years we had discovery, play and imaginative play for self-development. ... Views: 178
Everyone can say they’re right. Everyone can believe that they’re in the right . . . to defend their beliefs, their land, their way of life.
Yet this thinking doesn’t get us far in terms of the goals of peace and joy and a more Loving world.
So I want to draw attention to the fact that we ... Views: 211
As you may know, I am big believer in The Love Diet.
This means that I do my very best to consume positive, Loving food and media. I focus on having joyful and peaceful experiences with kind and Loving people. And I stay aware of what I’m thinking, saying and doing in order to strive for my ... Views: 158
Some people will tell you there’s no such thing . . .
No secret sauce even exists.
And you might’ve heard that “Success leaves clues”. So, in theory, you could follow these clues to victory without much trouble . . .
But if success were easy, everyone would be enjoying their ideal ... Views: 153
Just a few simple ingredients, put together in a specific combination . . .
Maybe it sounds too good to be true. But as my experiments in Love continue, I discover more evidence that supports this idea.
Love is something that you experience when you create the proper conditions for it to ... Views: 229
Those nine words by Ted Geisel (Dr.Seuss), one of our country’s favorite storytellers, contain so much wisdom. They apply to many different aspects of life, but I would like to focus on the area of relationships. Most of us are going to have relationships end at some point in our lives, whether ... Views: 226
Doing what you love is the best thing in the world. In this age of massive connection, new jobs are always being produced and people are being hired in new positions all the time. Thus, twenty first century is an era of unprecedented opportunity. If you want to do what you love, you can choose ... Views: 128
How Texting Brought Us Back Together.
After two years together, my boyfriend all of a sudden decided that we were too young for a meaningful relationship. He concluded that it was necessary to go our own way and that we needed time alone. Right then and there I decided I had to figure out a ... Views: 257
We have all heard this statement many times: “You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else”. In order to bring health into your life, to experience true closeness and connections with others, you need to be taught to love aspects of yourself again and again. You need to see yourself ... Views: 262
In the past, someone would have needed to go out in order to meet someone, but in today’s world, that is no longer necessary. Nowadays, the only thing that they need to do is to go online.
Social media can allow them to find what they are looking for, or they can go one step further and join ... Views: 158
Dear Dr Romance:Thank you for your article "Age Differences in Dating". I am a fortysomething woman whose fiance' died in my arms of heart failure three years ago. He was in his late sixties. Then I dated an ex-pro athlete who had a stroke and lost ... Views: 123
Learning to love ourselves in our loved one’s presence is the best thing we can do for our relationships. No other activity or exercise comes even close to making this much of a difference.
What difference does it make?
When we love ourselves in our loved one’s presence what we are really ... Views: 134
Couples who are most successful have learned how to argue effectively. Believe it or not, arguing in a caring fashion is a skill. Arguing can easily get out of control. You need self-confidence to bring up a topic you’re concerned about, and you need self-confidence to argue in a way that ... Views: 357
In general we love our families. We love our friends. We love our pets. We love our home. We love our cars. Sometimes, not often, we even love our jobs.
Why is it we love everything outside ourselves but when it comes right down to loving or even liking ourselves, we fall short. We ... Views: 137
Astrology is the study of correlations of celestial events with behavior on earth, particularly correlations which cannot be explained by gravitation, magnetism, or other forces that are well-established in physics or other sciences.
A "celestial event" is any event in the sky. For example, ... Views: 142
You're ready to get married and you think you've found your match. There’s great chemistry, you're best buddies, and things seem to be going well. So let’s do this… right?! Marriage here we come!
Just make sure you’re keeping it real…
Have you asked the important questions? As a love ... Views: 149
For many couples, getting married is the happy conclusion of a long-lasting relationship. However, getting married doesn't mean that you'll never need to put in any serious effort to keep your relationship blossoming. Going on dates, taking vacations and giving each other gifts can help you ... Views: 420
FIRST LET US UNDERSTAND THAT LOVE IS NOT AN ATTACHMENT :
For most people in this world, love masquerades as attachment. Sometimes both exist together and get mixed up. This happens in parental and filial love, among siblings, lovers, friends, spouses etc.
True friendship, chosen and not ... Views: 426
Not so long ago, I was talking to a business man in Korea. There we were negotiating a multi-million dollar deal, and neither could understand the other's language. Thanks to God for a good interpreter. Still, it required a great deal of effort on both our parts. I learned as we spoke to each ... Views: 474
Finding someone you love and who loves you back is a wonderful, wonderful feeling. But finding a true soulmate is an even better feeling. A soul mate is someone who understands, loves you like no other and will be there for you forever, no matter what happen. They say that nothing last forever ... Views: 256
“Our minds map out a neat, perfect little road for life and we hate to have it changed in any way. Yet that perfect little road may completely by-pass our goal of God-realization.”
–Barry and Joyce Vissell, The Shared Heart
Joyce and I have written before about the importance of taking ... Views: 185
Our son got married a few days ago to Isaiah, the man of his dreams. Hardly ever in our work with couples have we seen such depth in love, respect and commitment. Whoever feels that only a man and a woman can truly love each other, has not witnessed the kind of deep love that Isaiah and our son, ... Views: 205
Last week I was hurt because of something my husband said to me. I was hurt, but at the same time, he felt frustrated and misunderstood. The evening ended abruptly. For me, it had been a lovely day spent with a good friend. That evening, I sat outside with my husband sharing the goodness that ... Views: 255
When it comes to romantic relationships, what is the most important thing you look for in a person?
Although many will have a different answer, the one thing that tops the list for most people (or at least makes their top 3!) is honesty.
I agree, honesty is very important. It’s one of the most ... Views: 282
The New Moon on the 2nd offers many opportunities for you to expand both your personal and professional social circles. New friends acquired under these rays will prove to be loyal. Plus, they’ll inspire you to stretch your underlying creative talents. With Mars entering your zone of ... Views: 255
Monthly Forecast : August 2016
With the New Moon lighting up your Love and Creativity Zone on the 2nd, August should prove to be quite a romantic month. Rams involved in the arts professionally can be showcasing their talents to tremendous applause too. This is not the time to hide ... Views: 263
Monthly Forecast : August 2016
With the New Moon lighting up your Love and Creativity Zone on the 2nd, August should prove to be quite a romantic month. Rams involved in the arts professionally can be showcasing their talents to tremendous applause too. This is not the time to hide ... Views: 167
I recently read an article in The New York Times by philosopher Alain de Botton that ignited my thoughts on marriage. Among many things, de Botton expresses in the article a belief that “Choosing whom to commit ourselves to is merely a case of identifying which particular variety of suffering we ... Views: 187
Let me preface this article by saying that there are no quick fixes when we are dealing with the highly complex reality of interpersonal (romantic) relationships. The internet is littered with guides, ebooks, and membership plans that promise “tricks” to get him or her back. That should be ... Views: 239
Developing relationships can be equally as confusing as rewarding, yes? Especially at this time, when so many older souls who are attentive to spiritual awareness and energetic balance actively seek romantic partnership for the purpose of raising consciousness and working at a deeper ... Views: 195
While one could be in a relationship that is going as they would like it to go, there is also the chance that this is not the case. As a result of this, they could be in a position where they believe it is time for them to move on.
This could be a sign that they don’t feel ... Views: 283