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I find that most couples do not have a vision of their future in place. They do not know where they are going in life. They deal with things as they come up, live pay-check-to-pay-check or floating their lives on credit cards, putting out fires, and mechanically going through their days. They ... Views: 11
Welcome to Creating Harmony’s note of indication. Our intention in this edition of the Harmonising Times is to provide our readers, friends and everyone else with foresight as to the influences impacting all our lives as we move from emerging to embodying. From wondering to a sense of knowing ... Views: 7
Whew! You just came home from a wedding anniversary extravaganza of your longstanding friends. Everything went according to plan, except the gift you presented to the couple did not elicit the kind of response you expected. A gift you thought about for so long; something you argued over with ... Views: 12
Love is a symbol of eternity. It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end.
Love is a type of eternal bond in which one tries to bring joy for other at the ... Views: 23
Going through a break up when you are still in love with your boyfriend is its own unique type of emotional suffering. Sitting idly by as the man of your dreams packs up his things and walks out of your life is one of the most challenging situations any woman will ever have to face. If you're ... Views: 25
Are you worried that your ex will never come back to you and you will never be able to get him back? Do you miss him and wish that you knew what to do to get him to change his mind? Do you dream of being held by him again and wish that this whole nightmare was over with and that he would just ... Views: 22
"I dumped my girlfriend and now I want her back." When a man says this it's always tinged with a deep sense of regret. It's unfortunate that we can't get a quick glimpse into the future before we end a relationship. Sometimes the grass seems greener on the other side but it just ends with you ... Views: 29
What does it mean when a guy says he wants to take a break? By far, this is the one question that women most often ask me about their boyfriends. It’s one of those very obscure things that men say that we can’t quite understand. We want to believe it means one thing. That’s because all of our ... Views: 26
The question you’re wishing you had an answer to is, “how can I make him realize what he lost?” It’s understandable given the circumstances that you’ve been forced to deal with. You were dumped by a man you utterly adored. You know, deep within your heart, that you’re the perfect woman for him. ... Views: 29
One question I’m repeatedly asked by women on my blog is, “should I tell my ex boyfriend I’m doing no contact or not?” It’s a legitimate question and if you’re unsure you should always double check either by searching for some information online or asking someone with a bit more insight. Here’s ... Views: 23
“Is my ex boyfriend leading me on?” I’m asked that question often by women who are terribly confused about what exactly their ex boyfriend’s motivations are. These women typically all fall into the category of “woman who wants her ex boyfriend back.” I know how it feels since I was in those very ... Views: 26
It’s happened. You never imagined it would happen to you, but there it is. It’s not a nightmare, it’s not even a bad dream, it’s your new reality. Your boyfriend dumped you out of nowhere and now you’re left to pick up the pieces of your heart and your life and move on. You’re angry, aren’t you? ... Views: 21
When Dr. Romance was a girl, growing up in the small township of Rockland, New York, there was a tiny post office, which was a small room with a separate entry in the house next door. Rockland’s official postmistress was Clara Weiss, who seemed very elderly even when I was a very small child. ... Views: 37
We have collected a pretty good list of signs your ex girlfriend wants you back. How many signs? 18 signs your ex girlfriend wants you back.
To learn the killer, advanced strategies to get your ex back, simply click here!
Why did we make this list? Well, at first, when your heart is ... Views: 94
While some people can find that they can function whether they are with someone or if they are by themselves, there are others who are not in the same position. In this case, one can find that they struggle when they are not with someone.
On the other side, one could find that they it is not ... Views: 81
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“There is a crack, a crack in everything.
That's how the light gets in.” Leonard Cohen
Just as ever increasing earthquakes and volcanic eruptions are creating bigger cracks in ... Views: 60
I want to first apologize for not taking the utmost care of you in the past. I have learned some of your limits and vow to stay within them. Although you are not the way you were 10 years ago, you know now with the achy pains and much slower movement, you are still the love of my ... Views: 59
Dr. Romance gets a lot of letters about older women dating younger men, which appears to be shocking to some people, but I don’t find it so unusual.
Why would a younger man want to date an older woman? Who isn’t attracted to success, smarts and experience? Young men can find this ... Views: 137
Emotional intimacy is a foundational aspect of all great relationships. The word “intimacy” refers to the experience of being fully seen and comes from the Latin “intimus” meaning innermost. When we share this experience with another, we feel whole, complete, and at one with the world. Yet we ... Views: 112
Giving gift to someone is a disturbing matter. Sometimes you want to get the special attention of your loved one, but you get failed in this task. Because! You do not get the right idea of what to gift. To sort out this problem we have come up with amazing birthday gift ideas. You will ... Views: 99
Singles - Spring has sprung! Birds are singing and butterflies are mating. It’s in the air! Are you ready to become a love magnet? Or are you feeling stuck and a little lost getting back out in the dating world? If so, here are a few tips to get you moving:
1) Energy - How do you feel ... Views: 91
How will you ever know if your ex wants you back... if you don't even know the SIGNS that your ex wants you back?
You probably have seen some behavior from him that you think might be a sign, so I'll do what I can to give you some hope.
What can you do to get your ex back? What are the ... Views: 141
Breakups are not the nicest event in anybody’s life. It bring tears, anger and hatred. Sometimes, people will go all the way to hurt their ex for the break up without going through and evaluate the situation with a rational mind.
Some of you girls will hate your ex-boyfriend and there are ... Views: 100
So you recently broke up with the one you love and you feel like you can't live without them. You think about it everyday; your relationship was not meant to end and you want your lover back in your life, back in your arms.
Well, pull yourself together and stop moping because here are a few ... Views: 112
Anyone who is in a long-term relationship knows how important it is to celebrate each anniversary that passes by doing something special together. To spend some extra special time with your loved one, there are a number of places you could visit for an incredible getaway. When you want to travel ... Views: 63
Dr. Romance writes:
Those of you who have read my articles know that I am always talking about the importance of good communication, urging better communication, and giving skills for being better understood. Communication is one of the most important aspects of relationships; positive and ... Views: 77
EXCERPT FROM LOVE SICK by Cory Martin
Reprinted with Permission from Write Out! Publishing
Copywright: Cory Martin, 2016
OMG. FML. I am too old for initial speak, or internet jargon, but this is the kind of shit that’s floating around my brain these days.
My life has always been simple, ... Views: 92
As current divorce rates show, staying in love is not something we can take for granted. Despite this realization, modern society does not prepare couples well for making their relationship last.
For instance, romantic movies typically end at the point where a lifelong relationship begins - ... Views: 205
I am grateful to be living in a loving relationship with my partner, for more than ten years now. I also have a good relationship with my children–and I even count those times when they use all their creative energies to annoy us until it is unbearable, as well as those times when I am too tired ... Views: 106
When a relationship starts, there is the chance that one will experience a lot of pleasure, and then as time passes, this could change. This is not to say that this will go from being a something that has a positive effect on their life, to something that has a negative effect.
What this ... Views: 175
Having trouble forgetting your ex? Do you miss the way that they smiled at you? How they smelled?
The way their hands felt in your hands? Do you think you see them on the street when really it’s a stranger?
Do you still hear certain songs that reminds you of them? When is a big part of ... Views: 244
If one was to go and see their doctor, there is a strong chance that they would be the point off focus. This is primarily due to the fact that one is likely to be there because they have a problem and the doctor is there to assist them with what is taking place.
One way of looking at this ... Views: 175
Dr. Romance writes:
Politeness and sensitivity are not held in high esteem in the media these days. The nastiest politicians get the most air time. Many media spokespeople, stars and commentators, “gangsta” rappers, nasty radio talk show stars and “edgy” comedians; as well as personalities ... Views: 229
Dear Dr. Romance:
Thank you for such a wonderfully positive article on "generation-gap" relationships. I just finished reading "What's Behind the Trend of Women Dating Younger Men?". Although I am in a gay-relationship, I read the article with ... Views: 182
Throughout much of my life, I had a very incorrect and damaging understanding of human emotions. Because of this, my relationships suffered. I find it incredible that we spend four years (or more) studying in universities to land a career and we spend almost no time preparing for romantic ... Views: 256
(Excerpt from the Vissell’s not-yet published book, To Really Love a Woman)
To really love a woman is to give her your complete trust. I love the line in Bryan Adams’ song, “… and when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms, you know you really love a woman.” To lay helpless in her ... Views: 172
While some people end up in relationships that have a positive effect on their life, there are others that don’t. And while this can mean that they are used to being with people who are not a good match, this could be an understatement.
Instead, they could find that they end up with people ... Views: 210
We have all been there, at one point or another. We reached a point in our relationship in which things were just on auto-pilot. The wonderful passion and romance that characterized the first few years had waned and partners look more and more as friends and roommates. Contrary to the popular ... Views: 294
To really love a woman is to give her your complete trust. I love the line in Bryan Adams’ song, “… and when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms, you know you really love a woman.” To lay helpless in her arms, you need to give up control and be vulnerable. You need to trust that she ... Views: 220
"So what's the secret for a good marriage?" asked Ellen, 72. She's been single since her early twenties, after divorcing her physically abusive ex-husband.
"Choose wisely and learn what it takes to succeed in marriage," I said instinctively.
Never Too Late for Love
While this ... Views: 231
Let's face it: being with someone for a long period of time can become boring. If you're trying desperately to keep the romance fires burning, you may want to try these four ways to spice up your relationship.
1. Shower Them with Love Letters
Sometimes it's the simple things that mean the ... Views: 258
By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
March 21, 2016
There can be a big difference in intent between being nice and being loving. Being nice might be manipulative, while being loving means being authentic.
Our ... Views: 292
Is there a difficult person in your life? ll of us are likely to know someone who "pushes our buttons." The person could be almost anyone -- a spouse, in-law, other relative, friend, coworker, boss--or even (gasp!) our self!
Which reminds me of what Rabbi Joseph Richards said: "People are ... Views: 278
Dear Dr. Romance:
I don't even know where to start… I just did the most stupid thing alive!! I send the man I can't forget a text message…and he did not reply. I don't think he wants to speak to me. He knows I'm married.
I was 20 years old when I fell in love with him. I was ... Views: 294
"And then, not expecting it, you become middle-aged... You achieve a wonderful freedom. It is a positive thing." -- Doris Lessing
Maturity or middle age means different things to different people, writes Dr. Romance, but for most, reaching a mature age means developing a new set of ... Views: 209
Depending on who you are, talking about money with a partner may be taboo, acceptable, or somewhere in between. In many cultures and families, it is not okay to talk about money. In others, it's fine to speak openly about it. Regardless of which category you fit into, understanding the source of ... Views: 212
Many singles are conflicted about marrying. They yearn for the fulfillment a good marriage brings but are afraid to commit. They fear it won't work out, which given the current high rate of marriage failures, is understandable.
It should come as no surprise that it takes a leap of faith to ... Views: 240
Have you been searching for ideas on how to make a man adore you? Are you at that point where you've found a man that has the potential to be "Mr. Right" and you would do anything to make him feel the same way?
Believe it or not, there are a ton of women that find themselves in this position. ... Views: 341
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How Brainstorming Ends Disagreements, Makes Couples Happy - by Marcia Naomi Berger, LCSW, author of Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love: 30 Minutes a Week to the Relationship You've Always Wanted (New World Library), is a psychotherapist in San Rafael, California. She helps people create relationships that are fulfilling in all the important ways-emotionally and spiritually as well as physically and materially, whether they are already married or want to be. www.marriagemeetings.com
Do you sometimes feel like you and your partner are stuck in a disagreement? By using the brainstorming for solutions technique, you can end up with a resolution with which you're both happy.
Corporations use a structured brainstorming process in order to make good decisions. This method also ... Views: 318