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Getting dumped is one of the greatest pains you can feel. Its so distressing, frustrating and it brings out your weak point in you. Having someone close to you at your side today and the next day it seems the person is very far from you; she acts cold, distant and bitter towards you. That same ... Views: 2
Dr Romance writes:
As life develops, many of us have an urge to focus on the deeper issues -- our dreams and goals, and our emotional and spiritual development. When this happens, life gradually becomes more about meaning and satisfaction and less about obligations and ... Views: 7
When I was a girl, growing up in the small township of Rockland, New York, there was a tiny post office, which was a small room with a separate entry in the house next door. Rockland’s official postmistress was Clara Weiss, who seemed very elderly even when I was a very small child. She ... Views: 13
The other day I realized the person I have become is exactly the person I would not have wanted to hang around with before I started my journey. That made me think while the illnesses manifested in my body, the real disease was in my mind that I could not open up to simply being open.
You see ... Views: 15
In other to get your ex boyfriend back use the law of attraction, it is the simplest natural method to apply in wining your ex. I am going to introduce you to the law of attraction combined with another method, which will make your ex boyfriend crawl on his kneels begging to come back to ... Views: 21
Apparently it may seem absurd, but recent studies have proved unanimously that falling is love is actually helping to lose some extra weights. So, next time when you calibrate your weight and excited to see a few pounds lost, don’t forget to thank your partner too. Deep into your physique, ... Views: 17
If there are unique rugs in the market then Persian rugs are definitely the most unique of them all. These rugs come in different sizes, shapes and even designs. They have the capacity to make any room look as good as new. When complimented well with the room, they leave one of the best ... Views: 20
Dear Dr. Romance :
I am a 20 year old college student. I have been going out with a man for almost 2 years, I feel he is the one I want to marry but now we are having problems and I don't know how we are going to stay together. I made the mistake of telling him about my ... Views: 23
You may have suffered some low moments, maybe friends tell you you should love yourself more, or perhaps a therapist has suggested it. You may have read various self-help books about how to find this elusive self-love, all in vain.
Whenever you look to improve your self-confidence, up pops ... Views: 36
On Sunday, September 27, 2015 at 10:51 PM EDT, we will experience a Total Lunar Eclipse. There is much publicity surrounding it. This is primarily due to the fact that it will be a Super Moon. The last time we had this combo was about 30 years ago. Also adding to the drama of its arrival, is the ... Views: 48
Dear friend, I have a number of questions for you today, beginning with this one. How happy are you?
How happy can you be?
How good can you feel?
What is the best feeling thought that you can feel right now?
What is working in your life?
What would improve your life more than all other the ... Views: 44
Have you ever wanted more attention from a man?
Does it feel like you can never get enough sometimes?
Well I know just how you feel!
It's both fabulous and frustrating to want MORE in love.
The problem is that this desire for more can lead to smothering out the flames of attraction ... Views: 56
We all want love. We see evidence of this when we engage in relationships, make babies, build a happy home and career, when we do good work and make great art. These are all ways we choose to create and express more love around us and within us.
In our matchmaking program The Good Love™ for ... Views: 61
Dr Romance recommends couples increase their mutual respect and appreciation by having a regular "State of the Union" meeting. Here are two simple techniques you can use in all kinds of relationships: couples, families, even work partners and friends, to enhance your cooperation, ... Views: 63
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have been married for nearly 20 years and thought we had a great marriage. 10 years ago I got hurt and have had 6 back surgeries. At one point I would double up on meds and drink to ignore life. During this time my husband was an angel; until he discovered I ... Views: 65
Dr. Romance has had many clients who are grieving, and wrote this to help.
None of us wants to think about it, but the standard definition of a totally successful relationship is the old, traditional "til death do us part." Any time we love, whether it’s a life partner, a dear ... Views: 65
Ever had an opinion about something, or someone, and you felt it in your entire body that your opinion was based on solid facts and therefore the only right opinion? (Read: believe system) Every vessel in your body is telling you that you are so right about this!
The only resolution at that ... Views: 62
This series is to reminisce about times gone by as well as future events for you to ponder. Life is so amazing! We learn and grow from each new experience.
When you look at life it is more than going from point A to point B, it is about the journey in between; the ups and downs and the people ... Views: 66
I woke up quite early this morning. Strictly speaking I do not know whether I woke up or whether I was really woken up by a dream. It was one of those very real dreams, the one you want to go back to and complete it. In it I was with my best male friend, whom I really was in love with. I was ... Views: 62
You've been dealing with so many things since the break up, haven't you? You have to juggle the sadness, with the loneliness with the apprehension that comes with not knowing what your future holds. You miss your ex and you feel compelled at times to tell him as much, don't you? Maybe it's in ... Views: 92
If you still love your ex you probably feel as though you're suffering through emotional torture each and every day. Loving someone you are no longer with brings with it a whole set of unique challenges. It's certainly not easy trying to figure out what went wrong while at the same time ... Views: 86
It's hard to let go of a relationship when you're still in love with your ex. It's common to be constantly thinking of your ex during these times but how can you make your ex miss you and more important, how can you make your ex want you back? Even if your ex is not talking to you or perhaps ... Views: 101
Are There Still Differences Between Male and Female Psyches?
After John Gray’s Book “Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus” came out decades ago, significant mental and emotional differences between the sexes explained many of the difficulties that caused ... Views: 75
When some people think about what it is like to be in a relationship, they might get a sense of being around someone who is truly there for them. This means that the other person is not only physically available, they are also emotionally available.
Now, this could be because they are ... Views: 88
We, all without exceptions, spend most of our lives chasing after an intangible or an abstract idea called Happiness. However, is it a tangible feeling or an elusive concept?
The fundamental question should focus on the meaning of happiness and the means to experience it.
Some people may ... Views: 87
Show your woman that she is safe with you.
Show her that she can share her inner self with you and
you have the strength to hold her up.
2. Open Book
Share things with her about your daily routine not because she may be insecure and not trust you.
This act creates ... Views: 97
I was recently in a New York City café, sipping a cappuccino and observing couples at different stages in their relationships. The age-old story: two people meet… and the ritual of courtship ensues. They’re looking for love. Some couples will find “love” for a day. Other couples will create a ... Views: 101
So you have already proposed and she said yes, the next thing is letting your friends and relatives know the big news. There are so many ways to get the news out but be sure to make a lasting impression. Customized cards are the best ways to get the news out. You can get the cards personalized ... Views: 107
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Love in a Cup - by Gordana Stankovic - Humanistic Counsellor and Lif-Coach
Lessons in love are hiding in almost every moment and situation of our life. The question is whether we are ready to take an opportunity to live that moment fully and whether we are going to stay open to receiving a lesson in love that this moment and situation have the potential to teach ... Views: 114
Would you like to make a lasting impression on that date/birthday/Christmas or any other special event? Well greeting cards are the solution. However the common greeting cards are just so boring, ecards are more likely to leave a longer impression compared to normal greeting cards. You can ... Views: 108
Dear Dr. Romance:
Q: My father died 1 1/2 years ago.My mom always snaps at me and my older brother and I think she has a serious problem. I personally think it's a power struggle because she fells like she is loosing control over my brother and I. But, what she ... Views: 114
Q & A with a Dr. Romance reader:
Q: I would like your advice and input. I have been working in business for 12 years as a CPA and have recently been quite frustrated with it. Recently I did some career/interests/aptitude testing and found that the work I do now is pretty much what I ... Views: 141
Dear Dr. Romance:
I work at an Indian health clinic in northern California. I am a substance abuse counselor, or Certified Addiction Treatment Counselor . After scanning a book I found on a colleague's bookshelf called The Real Thirteenth Step I felt compelled to seek it out, and I ... Views: 138
Women Embrace Your Truths
1. Never Give Up on Your Dreams
It is okay to help your man achieve his dreams but never ever give up on your own.
Your dreams are just as important as his dreams.
It is okay to encourage him to achieve his ultimate goals but do not lose sight of your own ... Views: 150
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have a problem. My mother has introduced me to a male co-worker at her work. We have been friends for a month. My problem is that I am afraid that this relationship may become serious. The gentleman that she introduced me to is real nice, but my stepfather was the same way ... Views: 160
One of the most powerful ways I found to stop being a doormat in relationships was to learn emotional self-control. When you’re too reactive to your partner, he or she can easily draw you into a fight that stops you both from focusing on fixing the problem.
Self-control is not easy. In ... Views: 177
Sending online greeting cards has become a popular trend in the recent years. With the help of advanced technology, you can reach out to your dear ones with your warmest wishes whenever you want.
If you think that you will miss the opportunity to hold that paper greeting card and give it to ... Views: 139
If anyone googles "Stephanie Adams" they will find that I am the first Playboy Centerfold to come "out" as a lesbian...who eventually married a man and started a family. Is sexuality "fluid", something that is forever changing, never the same? I will elaborate more on that topic...Sexuality is ... Views: 165
For over two decades Coach Hu Dalconzo, along with his staff of HuMethod™ Spiritual Life Coaches have demonstrated time and again that their well field-tested coaching exercises will create Permanent Behavioral Change for anyone who is willing to internalize and emotionalize them as ... Views: 194
How it feels when you receive a warm message from your friend, brother, sister or mother? certainly, you feel very happy, loved and remembered. Your message for your loved ones conveys your emotions and feelings towards them. A value of beautiful message that conveys love and care cannot be ... Views: 160
Dear Dr. Romance :
I'm a 5'4" 34yr old male. I've searched online dating sites for a few years now and read thousands of women's profiles. In doing so, I recognized a peculiar trend in women's descriptions of their ideal mate. It's exhilarating to read ... Views: 177
Greetings are vital to make that first good impression, establish good relationships with your loved ones and set a positive tone for any conversation whether it is with your friend, boss or client. If you want to be an effective personality, you should not ignore the importance of greetings. ... Views: 122
"The magic moment is the moment when a 'YES' or a 'NO' can change our whole existence." Paul Coelho
Happy Summer! Over the next few months, we’ll have a golden opportunity for some potentially life-changing healing and growth as Love Planet Venus retrogrades over ... Views: 174
When someone spends their time around people who have an open-heart, they are likely to appreciate being around them. Whereas, if they were to spend their time around people who were the complete opposite; there is the chance that they will feel uncomfortable.
This is because when people ... Views: 176
Dr. Romance writes: I was speaking with a client today about his burn-out in his career. This is a man who’s been very successful, earned a lot of money, and worked hard for a big, national corporation. I told him he was burned-out, and on strike, because he had put himself in a ... Views: 225
In 1998, Richard and I had a marvelous opportunity to sail around the world as the ballroom dance teachers on a cruise ship. Many of the places we saw then, such as Oman, Jordan, Turkey, Morocco, Indonesia and Israel are in turmoil now, and not as safe for tourists. Last year, when ... Views: 233
After speaking to a few ladies, here's what they have to say....
Fellas within the first 2 months of dating…..
1. Please end all of the drama with your baby mommas, ex-wives, stalkers or potential girlfriends before pursuing a friendship with me.
2. Discussing ... Views: 228
While there are some people who are able to receive, there are others who are unable to do so. What this means is that although someone needs something, it is not possible for them to have it.
There are then going to be others who experience life differently, and it will be possible for them ... Views: 232
In my counseling office, I frequently deal with people who’ve heard the dread phrase, “I love you, but I’m not in love with you.” How can it happen that a couple who were once thrilled with each other can fall out of love? It seems like a mystery, but it’s not. And, ... Views: 252
Every woman or man wants a pair of good shoes. No one would buy smaller-sized shoes or an uncomfortable pair to start with. We all like to mix and match while ensuring that we stand out at any event we attend.
Just like shoes, no one wants to be with the wrong partner. Here are three reasons ... Views: 225