HOW TO FIND AND MARRY A GIRL AFTER YOUR OWN HEART

If you are not one of those young guys into the dating game only for the sexual pleasures but among those who are after lasting relationship that could lead to marriage, you would want a partner who would want the same. You would need a girl after your own heart in the way you are after hers.
But if you have being in the dating game long enough, you would understand that it is not easy finding that kind of girl.

There are certain things that could help you find that girl without much pain. And when you find her, it is likely you would both want to marry each other.

Here are some things that can help you find a girl after your own heart:

(1) She tells you: When a girl opens up to you about her feelings for you, you should take it seriously. This only shows that her heart longs for you.

AJ Harbinger, CEO and co-founder of The Art of Charm, writes that, 'If a girl tells you that she loves you, she's not doing it to hear herself talk. She's doing it because she loves you.'

You should believe her when she tells you, because she must mean what she says. A girl would hardly make herself go as far as that, if she does not have a genuine reason behind it.

(2) She wants more of your presence: A girl who never gets enough of your presence who always wants you around her is in love with you. She would want to be with you after you close from work. She would want to do everything with you.
She would not want you present physically only. Even when you are together in person, she wants you to really pay attention to her. She wants to be in your mind and at the center of your emotions.

According to Harbinger, 'If the girl is always looking for more and more of your time, this can be a sign that she's in love with you or on her way there.'

(3) She is after you: When a girl is in love with you, she will chase after you and try to get you to love her. When she gets the opportunity, she would get herself in front of your eyes, make you guys have eye contact and sit within close range to you.

'Few things are going to keep her from getting what she wants,' Harbinger explains. According to him, 'Women are generally not so forward in chasing after men they aren't in love with.'

(4) Her friends know about you: If a girls chooses you and she is after your hear, she would talk about you when with her friends. She would go as far as sharing personal details about you with them. This is because she truly loves you and she is happy about it.

Obviously, you would not know that this happens unless you meet and talk with her friends occassionally, and get lucky to have them mention it.

As Harbinger explains, 'She probably goes on and on about you more than they even want to hear about.'

(5) She helps you out a lot: People hardly give favours to just anyone, especially going out of their way to help and giving lots of support. You would hardly find a girl who would be willing to give you so much help, except it is a girl who really loves you and is after your heart.

As Harbinger writes, if a girl 'is doing a lot of things for you, this is a sign that you're always on her mind, which in itself can be a sign that she's fall in love with you.'

She is interested in making you happy by giving you all you need. She does not want you to be stucked somewhere. She wants you to succeed in everything you are doing.

What happens when you find her?

All the things mentioned above are most likely going to help you identify a girl that is after your own heart. But marriage would not just happen when you find her.
If you want to marry her, you must let her know that you are after her heart too and that you are ready to commit to her for a lifetime as much as she is willing to do for you also.

You must be careful not to take her love for you for granted or to take advantage of her because of it. Once she senses any negative signal from you, she might withdraw and change her mind about loving you. Make her feel comfortable loving you and make her trust you to love her back genuinely.