The lyrics as sung by Frank Sinatra: “Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start all over again..” offer a positive way of getting through life’s challenges. Sometimes, however, it takes a lot more healing and work to get through tough times.
It is said that 3 of the most difficult challenges that a person can go through in his/her life are: death, divorce or moving.
Divorce, or the end of any relationship, is generally extremely traumatic as partners in a long-term relationship tend to build their lives around each other. It is usual for people to begin to define themselves as a part of a couple and no longer as their individual selves.
Breakups can leave you feeling vulnerable and insecure, as your whole world as you know it has collapsed around you. The future as you had previously envisioned it, no longer exists.
How can you cope with this and come out a stronger person? How can you heal, rediscover yourself, and ultimately find true love?
There are 3 steps involved in healing yourself after your breakup:
·Grieving – Grieving is so important and completely normal. Let yourself grieve for a healthy time period.
·Rediscover YOU – rediscover who you are and learn how to define yourself as your individual self. Understand who you now are as a person and embrace that person.
·Moving on – once you’ve rediscovered yourself, you are now in a healthy place to move on with your life and find your true love.
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Rachel Moheban is a Licensed Certified Social Worker with a private practice in New York where she counsels couples and singles. Rachel is known as the Relationship Success Expert, who created The Ultimate Relationship Resolution Program for couples to learn inside secrets for communication, loving deeply and living a fulfilling life together. Find out more information at The Relationship Suite.