Most every one of us dreams of having a strong, fulfilling marriage. Fortunately, a lot of people are able to achieve the dream. For those of us who want to strengthen our marriage, there is a lot to be considered. For example, having a strong fulfilling marriage requires a lot of patience and effort. It also requires a lot of know-how. Here are 5 Tips For Strengthening Your Marriage:
1. Make Time For Each Other. Studies show that spouses who make the effort to schedule time together feel happier and more fulfilled in their marriage. My advice, take the initiative. If you and your spouse have been working frantically at your jobs for the past several weeks and have had just a very small amount of quality time together recently, then go ahead call into work and tell the boss that you are not coming in today. Remember, the time that you and your spouse spend together does not have to be grandiose, just simply spending time together, alone should be all that you need in order to keep the marriage fresh and new.
2. Support Your Spouse. It is important to outwardly display support for your spouse’s activities even if you do not fully agree with the action that your spouse is taking. When you find yourself in the awkward situation of disagreeing with your spouse’s decision, you should still show sincere support for your spouse.. This is especially true when you and your spouse are in public. Remember, even though you disagree with the decision, you still support the person and you will have plenty of opportunity to tell your spouse about how you disagree with them once the two of you are within the walls of your own home.
3. Encourage Effective Communication. Without effective communication your marriage will fall apart. Effective communication is the key to making sure you and your spouse are on the same page with regard to your plans, your dreams, and your day-to-day lives. Couples who can communicate with each other effectively are couples who can love each other effectively.
4. Learn To Be A Good Listener. Numbers 3 and 4 go hand and hand. The biggest part of being an effective communicator is being able to press the pause button on your mind, press the pause button on your mouth, and press the play button on your ears in order to listen to what your spouse has to say. A very important side note to consider about being a good listener, when you consciously make an effort to listen to your spouse’s opinions and ideas, your spouse will feel respected...and who amongst us does not like to feel respected.
5. Show Your Spouse That You Appreciate Them. Whenever your spouse does something for you, no matter how small that something is, show some appreciation. We all like to feel appreciated. We like to feel valued. In the typical marriage scenario, you and your spouse are living underneath the same roof together from one day, to the next, to the next, to the next. It is very easy for couples who are living together underneath the same roof to get bogged down in the habit of taking each other for granted. Do not let this become you and your spouse. If it has already become you and your spouse, then make a change. Make a change so that each day you will exert a little bit of effort to let your spouse know how much you appreciate the things they do for you.
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