If your relationship has recently broken up and your boyfriend or husband has moved on to a rebound relationship, how are you supposed to get him back again? A rebound relationship is defined as a relationship with someone else to help get over an ex partner. These types of relationships offer a break from the many emotions you go through after a break up. When someone needs help moving on from real love, they can turn to a rebound relationship.
And this is an important point to getting your ex back. The fact that he is in a rebound relationship to get over breaking up with you, speaks volumes. The reason for the split does not matter in this case. Whether it was you or him who initiated the break up, still doesn't matter.
Looking beyond the cause of the split, you can see that it was real love. If you remember one thing from this article, remember this; true love almost always has a way of being saved. When he is in the rebound relationship, he will think a lot about what was wrong with the relationship he had with you.
If he has picked a rebound partner completely the opposite of what you are like, this is normal because he will be trying to have less reminders of you. Now he will be focusing on the major differences between you and the rebound girl, which will work in your favor for two reasons.
1. He will be thinking about you when he is with her.
2. It will give you hints to what he is looking for.
If he has chosen someone as different as you can get to yourself, then it might be a hint that he felt he was missing something. If you think this rings true, try using the time you have apart to make improvements in your own life. Let him be when he is in the rebound relationship. The more time he spends with his new partner, the more flaws he will start to notice in her.
After a little while, he will start to think of you as the better relationsihp option. This is why you need to let him have his rebound relationship. He will come to realize he misses what he had with you. When he does come back asking for you, you wont need to play hard to get.
Just focus on the improvements that you have made for yourself and he will do all the chasing. When your ex moves on to a rebound relationship, know that you can get back together at some point. Keep in mind that for him to be in this type of relationship means that he had strong feelings for you when you were together and he still has them.
So, regardless of thoughts like my husband has left me, or when we were together I think I saw signs of a cheating boyfriend, now that the breakup has happened and you would rather have him back, it is possible for you to get him back, even if he is in a rebound relationship.