As you learn NOT to take anything personally, you will bring harmony into your relationships. For example, someone may say or do something that feels like an attack on your self-worth, wellbeing or your beliefs. If you retaliate by defending or protecting yourself, you disrupt the connection ... Views: 15
Recently I heard a spiritual teacher address a woman who asked whether she should continue to love and accept her partner of four years the way he was or move on. She wanted him to be more committed to the relationship in ways that mattered to her but could continue to love him unconditionally ... Views: 6
Your heart still beats for him. You just realized you still love him and you really want to hook up again. Maybe he feels the same and maybe he’s just waiting for you to make that first step. If you choose to wait as well, you might wait forever. So, what do you do? You sit down with yourself ... Views: 5
If you grew up in a family where one or both parents used anger to control you, then anger likely plays a role in your life now.
Did you grow up with anger in your household? Did one or both of your parents use anger as a way to keep you in line and have control over you?
How did you ... Views: 6
Are you being selfish if you do what brings you joy, even if others don't like it? Do you feel trapped, believing you can't really take loving care of yourself without being unloving to others?
One of the questions I often hear from my clients is, "If I take care of myself and do what brings ... Views: 5
Is lack of trust undermining your connection with your partner and wreaking havoc in your relationship? Lack of trust might extend to beliefs that your partner is cheating. Or it can be as simple as not trusting your partner to be there, follow through, keep their word, be accountable, get your ... Views: 6
Most of you reading this article , might have passed your first wedding night while many others have been planning not only to face the first night of a wedding but preparing to make it as a memorable moment or worth remembering chapter of life. As the days come to closer to one’s marriage, ... Views: 10
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am single man, I have question for you, is it natural for a man to masturbate? I normally, do it everyday, sometimes 4 times a day. Tell me if its wrong or normal to fantasize my cousin and she is a woman? Is it that wrong thing to do? I love to masturbate and to me ... Views: 4
By learning each of the 13 Commandments of Love you will experience love finding you.
1ST COMMANDMENT OF LOVE
Human beings are trained to become self-sufficient in acquiring the life-sustaining energies in air, food and water. From the bottle, to learning to use a knife and a fork, to ... Views: 10
You know how you can be going along in a conversation with a friend or a loved one, and it all seems to be good, and suddenly, you say something and the conversation stalls or stops entirely. And you’re thinking “What happened?” You didn’t say anything insulting or mean, you just voiced your ... Views: 13
You did a lot of thinking and soul searching, tried “time to yourself thing” dated some other men but it never worked and finally you have realized that things will not get better until you get him back. You made a very big mistake when you let him slip through your fingers. And now you are ... Views: 13
None of us wants to think about it, but the standard definition of a totally successful relationship is the old, traditional til death do us part. Any time we love, whether its a life partner, a dear friend, a child, a sibling, a parent or even a beloved pet, we are risking ... Views: 18
Make new friends, keep the old. One is silver, the other is gold.——adage
Research conducted by Dr. Dean Ornish and others shows that the happiest and healthiest people are those who are well-connected to friends and family. But, in our mobile society, keeping friends is not always possible. ... Views: 32
Getting your ex boyfriend back is not the most complex part. The complex part is getting them to stay with you. After all, they once left you, what can you do to stop them from walking away from you again? What is the point of getting him back if you cannot make them stay? Find out below how to ... Views: 21
Human beings have an inherent need to share who they are with others; they need to be seen and heard. When this happens, one will share what is really taking place for them and not what they think someone wants to hear or what will make them look ‘right’.
However, in order for someone to ... Views: 34
If you want any chance of getting back with your ex you may be wondering how long it can take. What do I do to get my ex back; Remember, every relationship situation is different and you could be apart for days or years before you have a chance to settle and bring back together.
Texts that ... Views: 31
If you are trying to get your ex to come back to you, you need to recognize the difference between what techniques will work and the ones that will not. How to tell if your ex still likes you; Many people will assume any strategy will work for them, this assumption can be wrong.
After a break ... Views: 24
If you have just experienced a relationship break up I know how hard it can be. Getting together after a breakup; If you are questioning if you can save your relationship, it will depend on your particular situation. Below you will find a few tips that may help make a difference for you.
How ... Views: 28
After a relationship break up it is common for some women to think of ways to get their ex back. Tips on how to get your man back; There are of course many techniques and methods of going about this without scaring him away that have been used for years.
How to get him interested in you again ... Views: 21
You have experienced a relationship break-up and are now grieving a little. Do ex boyfriends ever come back; All of your friends thought this was going to be your best relationship yet, you were with a great guy. You now may be trying to think about how to get him back because you miss him. ... Views: 28
Having broken up with your girlfriend or boyfriend you find yourself suddenly single. Do exes ever come back; Trouble is you cannot get your ex out of your mind because you keep thinking about how to get them to love you again. You may reach a point you give up the thought because you think it's ... Views: 27
Bob and his girlfriend Carol got into an argument one day and Carol stormed out saying she never wants to see him again. Do ex girlfriends ever come back; This left Bob devastated as this came so unexpectedly and he was desperate to find out how to get her back.
What Bob needs to understand ... Views: 22
For those that wish to fasten a broken relationship there is excellent and terrible news. Best relationship break up advice; No matter how bad your relationship is it can be repaired, that's the good news. The bad news is you cannot do it alone. Both parties have to be dedicated and working ... Views: 26
You have just experienced a relationship break up and now feel a sense of annoyance, bitterness and fault. Dreams about your ex girlfriend; It's making you unhappy and you keep thinking about how you can get your girlfriend to come back to you.
Seeing your ex girlfriend in a dream could be a ... Views: 31
Is your relationship stuck in a pattern of blame where you both feel like victims of the other person?
One of the most common dynamics I see with the couples I work with is that each of them is convinced that if only their partner would see what he or she is doing to cause the relationship ... Views: 21
Greed is wreaking havoc on our planet.
"We are in danger of destroying ourselves by our greed and stupidity." ~Stephen Hawking
"In a country well-governed, poverty is something to be ashamed of. In a country badly governed, wealth is something to be ashamed of." ~ Confucius
What Causes ... Views: 19
Do you know what to do to get your ex back? How to still be friends with your ex; Be serious about your aim and take achievement. Think of it like a pastime, which could be the most important game you play. Possible to be friends with ex; Your aim is to get the person you love back into your ... Views: 33
Dear Dr. Romance:
My story will probably sound like a thousand others you've heard, but I am in desperate need of some answers. I am in my fifties, my wife is a few years younger. My wife had a hysterectomy about 15 years ago, so menopause is not likely part of this equation. As you are ... Views: 22
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am (or was, perhaps) in a fairly strong relationship for a few months now. Recently though, as the upcoming fall quarter approaches, my girlfriend doesn’t think she can handle a relationship. Between stress from school (she really wants her 4.0 this year), over-bearing ... Views: 31
In 1998, Richard and I had a marvelous opportunity to sail around the world as the ballroom dance teachers on a cruise ship. Many of the places we saw then, such as Oman, Jordan, Turkey, Morocco, Indonesia and Israel are in turmoil now, and not as safe for tourists. Last year, when ... Views: 31
TONE OUR LANGUAGE
By Barbara Stepp, NLP, DHE® Master Trainer, Clinical Hypnotherapist
IN OUR PREVIOUS newsletters, we talked about our language, the words we think and speak. We said that words create our reality. If we don't say it, we don't get to do it or we don't have to do it. What ... Views: 42
Are you setting yourself up again? 10 things you need to know to avoid being hurt and disappointed.
Nobody, absolutely nobody likes being taken advantage of. But when you are foolish enough to set yourself up to be played for a fool by a fool, that's taking clueless to a whole new level - ... Views: 28
As the saying goes, I suppose it is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as if it were a nail. The same reasoning applies when you're approaching your marriage problems.
We all have mental models that help us make sense of the world we see. A "mental model" is ... Views: 58
The love of your life has just walked out on you and you are emotionally shattered. You feel completely alone, heartbroken and desolate.
And now you are wondering how to get over someone fast and get over the breakup?
Here are certain points to consider getting over the hurt and pain that ... Views: 34
The pain that you feel when you see your ex-love after they have moved on is something that is hard to put into words.
Yet, many of us go through these emotions and though we think it is the end of the world, there comes a time when we realize that we just have to let go and move on.
Most ... Views: 27
You know it is never the same 'feeling'-
When you are going to pick a glass of water for someone
When you are going to pick a glass of water for yourself
When you are going to pick a glass of water in order to obey
When you are going to pick a glass of water under pressure (of your ... Views: 30
Erasing the memory of a loved one is not easy especially if you have been in a beautiful relationship which has suddenly gone sour. You experience a lot of pain and negativity when you lose your self-confidence and wonder what really went wrong.
How to erase someone from your memory? ... Views: 40
I mentioned in part 1 that when we are rejected we have to deal not only with the emotional pain but also the conclusions and beliefs that may get stuck in our thinking. Everyone has been conditioned by life and have taken on many beliefs, some of which serve us while some don’t. When something ... Views: 27
Do you want to get your ex girlfriend back? Here are some great guidelines that may work for you. How to get a man back after you hurt him; Keep in mind that getting your girlfriend back depends on why you broke up and what has happened since then.
If you are sure this is what you want then ... Views: 53
You may have recently opening up with your boyfriend or girlfriend and both of you were happy to be rid of each other. How to tell if my ex boyfriend wants me back; The relationship may have been going great but something happened that brought this break up.
Regardless of what happened, you ... Views: 53
Have you originate yourself wanting to get your ex girlfriend back after breaking up? You would not be the first with this thought, this happens quite often. When will your ex girlfriend start to miss you; The state could be the relationship just lost something or maybe you said something that ... Views: 44
Have you experienced a break up where your girlfriend left you for someone else? It does happen so don't feel like you are the only one trade with this. How to know if your ex boyfriend wants you back; Maybe you are now demanding to think about how you can get you're ex girlfriend back.
Being ... Views: 49
There are many people that have experienced a break up that came as a total shock to them. Also you may have been the one that initiated the break up only to understand later it may have been a mistake. How to make your boyfriend miss you after a breakup; No matter how it happened there may be ... Views: 37
You have broken up with your boyfriend and feel like you can't continue on without him. If you have the desire to get your boyfriend back with you, you must take a close look at yourself. How to get your ex boyfriend back and keep him; Decide if the relationship you had with him was really all ... Views: 39
Most of us at some point in our lives been through a relationship break up. You think everything is going on well then something happen that make things turn around. I just want my ex boyfriend back; Your relationship comes to an end and you are left to be alone.
So you try to figure out what ... Views: 46
There are many people who have experienced a break up that came as a total shock to them. How to get my ex boyfriend to want me back; Also you may have been the one that initiated the break up only to understand later it may have been a mistake.
No matter what happened there may be a way for ... Views: 38
There will be times when one is unable to see what is taking place around them and during these moments, it will be important for them to reach out to others. This is not necessarily because the people on the outside have something they don’t; it is because they are not emotionally involved.
... Views: 62
Rejection is a painful experience to go through and it can undermine your life in many obvious and subtle ways. Here are a few ideas about dealing with rejection, and coming through it as a stronger healed person.
The problem with rejection is the feeling – it feels terrible and that is what ... Views: 42
Dr. Romance writes: Early in our marriage, after a difficult struggle between us, I gave my husband Richard a card. All over the front it said, "I love you," and inside it said, "It's a dirty job, but someone has to do it." That phrase has carried us through many ... Views: 56
There are a few ways of re-attracting an ex-girlfriend back into your life. I have found out what works and what doesn't work from my years of dating experience and this is why today I can show you this article which hopefully will help you to move forwards with your attempt to reignite your ... Views: 57