Has he been acting weird lately? Maybe it’s all those late nights at the office or maybe he just seems emotionally distant lately, but either way, you’ve got this sneaking suspicion that he’s having an affair. I know that it can be difficult tearing your hair out trying to really get to the bottom of why things just seem “off” lately with him.

Here are a few creative ways that you can find out once and for all if he’s cheating or not. These little tricks are a little bit outside of the box, but that’s the way you need to think if you’re going to catch a cheater.

First, you might consider recruiting one of your attractive friends to lead him into temptation. If you know that he is going to be somewhere without you in the near future, then have your friend make an advance on him. This usually works best if he doesn’t know your friend and there aren’t other people that he knows with him at the time.

If he has already cheated on you, he’ll probably be more likely to accept your friend’s advances than if he hasn’t. Great places to set up this trap could be at a bar (if you know he likes to grab a beer or two every once in a while) or anywhere that he might go to run an errand such as at the supermarket.

Second, you can send a text message to him pretending to be his mistress. Use one of those pay as you go cell phones, which are pretty cheap or send the message through your computer. Just pretend to be the other woman without completely identifying yourself and tell him that your phone broke.

Then just start flirting with him and see what happens. If he is extremely confused and doesn’t take the bait, then he’s obviously innocent, but otherwise, you might have to have a talk with him.

Third, check to see if he has a secret cyber life. Look around on popular social sites to see if he is listing his status as “single.” A lot of people believe that they can hide their identity well online, but you’d be surprised how small the world can be, especially when you start looking for people directly in your area of the country.

You also might want to consider joining one of those paid dating sites to see if he’s advertising on those as well. If you don’t want to pay their monthly membership fee, you can always use a friend’s account to search. After all, in this day and age, who doesn’t at least know one person who is trying out online dating?

Dealing with a cheating husband isn’t an easy thing to do. Cheaters usually go to extra measures to cover their tracks, so you’ve always got to be one step ahead of them. With a little cunning and some creative thinking, you’ll be able to discover the truth about why your husband is acting so strange these days.

Author's Bio: 

Do you want to discover the truth about how to catch a cheater with more cunning tactics? Be sure to check out the website http://WhyDoGuysCheat.com to learn more.

Alex Haight is a relationship writer helping women with relationship problems and specializing in affairs and infidelity.