Do you feel that your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you? Well, if your intuition is strongly nagging you that you are being duped, then you need to get to the bottom of it. Don’t allow a cheater to get away with his philandering. You deserve to be treated fairly and with respect! No one deserves to be cheated. Every relationship goes through tough times, and if your partner chose to become a coward and fool around, rather than face the real issues in your relationship, then it’s time to stand up for yourself and make a stop to his betrayals!

If you expect a confession from a cheater, it’s going to be tough, but it’s not impossible.

Yes, you can make Mr. Duplicity spill his guts out. All you have to do is to cover every possible reason for excuses. Mr. Duplicity always leaves his clues behind, all you have to do is to be keen with these clues and be patient. You don’t want to confront him with one mingy clue, what you need is a myriad of evidences- evidences that will leave Mr. Duplicity no excuses for justification and lying. So, here’s what you are going to do. First of all, if you have extra cash stashed away, there are tons of catch- a- cheating-spouse- gadgets out there to seize Mr. Duplicity red-handed. Believe me, it will be worth it, there’s no price for peace of mind.

Here are some ways on how to catch a cheater. You might want to check out and, these sites promote discrete extramarital affairs. Then, there’s also escort sites like, the and Check these sites out if your hubby has been subscribing to their services. Of course, don’t expect that he will be using his real name there. What you can do is to be sneaky. In the internet setting activate the “remember username and password” in the computer he’s using. So that the next time you are going to check up what’s he’s been up to in the net, you’ll know. Also, and other sites alike, require payment for their subscription, you might want to double check his credit card billing statement.

Another way of catching Mr. Duplicity on the act is to set a 99.9% fail-safe trap. A cheater on the loose is always easy to catch. So, here’s what you are going to do, tell Mr. Duplicity that you will be away next weekend, but you’re not going anywhere, of course. Then watch and wait, if he’s not home the whole night he might be spending the night with the other woman, in which case you would have to follow him. If he’s lying about his whereabouts, you have to be alert.

As I’ve said, cheaters leave clues behind, here are clues that you need to take note of:

-He usually doesn’t mind having your children stuff in the car, but now he does.
-The car seat has been move and is not in the usual position.
-There is a scent of women’s perfume in his clothes or inside the car.
-There is unaccounted for hairs of different colour on his clothing or car.
-He has another number that you don’t know about.
-He has become physically conscious- new hairstyle, skin products, tanning salon visits.
-He has unusual billings in the credit card statement.

There are tons of ways that you can catch Mr. Duplicity and it’s usually with his sudden change of attitude. There are more inconsistencies and unexplained excuses now. Usually, the affair continues, because the wife chooses to turn a blind eye and justifies the cheater’s behaviour. Remember, the more you ignore these signs, the more it’s going to get complicated. When you think that you are being cheated upon, face the problem head- on. Ignorance isn’t always bliss.

Author's Bio: 

The author of this article, Ruth Purple , is a Relationship and Dating Expert. Conquer Infidelity and Experience a Happier Love Life through her New eBook.