How to Get Started On Making A Successful Change

The one thing in life we can all count on is change. Some changes come about because of unexpected life circumstances that we'd rather not be going through, like a job layoff or an unexpected health limitation. Other changes may be welcomed and happen through personal design, such as choosing to get married, changing careers or deciding to improve your health through regular exercise and better eating habits. Chosen or not, each of these new situations disturbs the equilibrium or "balance" of our lives to some extent. Current routines and previously successful ways of managing everyday activities may no longer work. We may find ourselves ill at ease or uncomfortable. Perhaps we may feel "stuck", not knowing what to do in order to get back in balance. How can we shift from the discomfort and turn these life circumstances into truly invigorating, life-enhancing experiences? Making a successful change can be easier than you might think. In her book called Walk On! A guide for babies of all ages, Marla Frazee reminds us to "only begin when you are ready". My research on making successful transitions suggests that before you take committed action and start walking down a new road, it's best to start with some preliminary activities. Just like the child who needs to spend time developing her brain and muscles to be able to walk, we as adults have our own level of preparation that is worthwhile and can support our successfully walking down new life paths. This preparation includes taking the time to recognize that your life is changing, be truly honest about what’s important and mapping out where you want to go next. What if you don't know where to go next? Click here to use an effective exercise that can help you clarify what your next step can be http://pathmakercoaching.com/resources/article-get-started.html