The law of attraction is a universal law. This law creates an impact on each person life especially when it comes to love and relationships. All relationships experience problems and this is the time where one should apply positive thoughts in order to achieve success and not see the situation as hopeless. When marriages and relationships are damaged both partners become threatened and the relationship ends up in a conflicting and damaging situation.

Many people believe that they are never going to meet their ideal partner and that they will never have a happy relationship. Well, guess what, you won’t find your ideal partner and you won’t be happy. Why? Because your thoughts are attracting the situation you created. Apply the secrets of the law of attraction and guess what, you will be able to have that wonderful relationship and have whatever your heart desires. Change the way you think and your life will change for the better.

For example:

• Eliminate the fear of loneliness: most people are so preoccupied with thoughts about meeting their ideal partner only because they are afraid of ageing alone. Fear creates obstacles and these thoughts are creative thoughts, just like any other thought. What ever thoughts you create, will materialize and will become a reality. Instead of creating fear, embrace being alone and your fear will dissipate. You should not come from a place of need but a place of want. Neediness scares people. Specify lovingly what it is you want and not need.

• Do you think that you will only be happy if you are in a relationship? Wrong, as you need to be happy within yourself and happiness will attract happiness. Be tranquil and change your thoughts to happy thoughts before embarking on a relationship. No other person can make you happy; you need to be happy within. Many relationships fall apart, as one or both partners are not happy within, so how can the relationship be a happy without.

• Unreal expectations are the major cause of disappointment. People conjure all kinds of expectations with regards to their ideal partner, such as how they should behave and how they should dress etc which leads to the greatest fall in your life – disappointment. Did you for one minute take time to think about what you would offer in the relationship? Once you have mastered the law of attraction, only then will you experience enlightenment and only then will you be ready for a purposeful and meaningful relationship.

• As opposed to stipulating the dos and the don’ts about your ideal partner, rather get to know a person and form a friendship before embarking on a relationship. The failure of awareness and understanding as well as accepting is the cause of relationships breaking down. Attitude is more important that behavior.

For example, if a person states they care about you and love you, but this person shrugs off responsibility and has a bad relationship with their peers and family, is this not a candidate for disaster. Remember, whatever a person thinks, will represent the true reflection of who the person really is.

• Change your way of thinking. Once you change you’re the way you think as well as your outlook on life and practice gratitude, the law of attraction will grace you with the presence of appreciation and motivation. Eliminate negative thoughts and eliminate assumptions, replace these thoughts with positive energy and a whole new world of love and happiness will grace your life.

Author's Bio: 

Jill Magso is a member of the Silva Team and contributes to spreading enlightened ideas and sharing teachings about meditation practices. The Silva Method encompasses a variety of powerful exercises that take you deep into Alpha and Theta levels of the mind so that you can work within your subconscious as well as your conscious mind.