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Small Changes: Big Weight Loss Results

Written by Kathryn Martyn, M.NLP

Topic: Dieting and Weight LossPublished October 19, 2005
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Turn Eating Out Back into a Treat

If you really want to get a handle on your weight problem, first look at where you eat, second what you eat, and third how much you eat. If you absolutely cannot give up going to restaurants or fast food places every day, then you must start ordering plain, unadorned foods. If you can't do that (which I can't) then just go out less often. Turn it back into a treat, a special occasion type thing, and then eat whatever you want. Find what works for you, and then do it.

Train your Eye to Accept Less Food

Start training your eye to accept less food on the plate. We've taught ourselves to expect heaps of food, but your body doesn't need such huge quantities. Frankly, it takes a very tiny amount of food to supply our needed nutrients.

If they developed a pill which contained all the calories and nutrients our bodies required, no one would want to take it. We like to eat. Eating is pleasurable, it's part of the makeup and experience of being human. Take back control of that most basic of human needs. Cook at home for friends and bring joy back into your life through food.

If I Ate Out More Often I'd Gain Weight - it's That Simple

I know I maintain my weight with an average of about 2,200 calories a day. That's more than most dieters strive for, so how do I get away with eating that much -- I make better choices.

If I started eating out at restaurants more often, I'd suddenly be eating nearly double what I eat now (calorie wise), without even trying. Double the calories and guess what? Weight gain won't be far behind.

Trying to radically change your approach to food or exercise is rarely successful. More people that are successful at losing weight and keeping it off do so by making changes and incorporating them into their lifestyle. Start now. Choose one habit (such as eating out every day) or regular food you eat, and decide to cut back on how often, or the quantity. Set a plan, and do it.

Make a deal with yourself and keep it. If you find you cannot - that you set yourself too strict a cutback, then modify it and do it again. Keep at it and you'll be successful.

If you eat out every day during the week for lunch, here's a plan to make a small change. Carry your lunch one day a week, or save the extra from dinner out on Sunday night for lunch on Monday. Get together with your coworkers for a walking lunch every Wednesday. If there's a gym of fitness club in the vicinity join along with your coworkers and make an agreement to work out together three days a week, at lunch time. Take brown bag foods you can eat at your desk those days.

These small changes add up to big results. Try a couple in your daily life and see what happens.

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About the Author

Kathryn Martyn has studied and work in the field of weight loss beginning with Bushel & Peck Produce, a produce and bulk foods store she ran with her husband in the 1980s. She began studying nutrition and fitness, strength training, herbology and discovered NLP. The techniques Kathryn used to lose 80 pounds and keep it off for nearly two decades is all included in her 8-week Ending Emotional Eating online weight loss program. Kathryn also offers in-person workshops, tele-seminars and one-on-one private weight loss coaching. Called the "Weight Loss Lady," she gets results when all else has failed. Visit OneMoreBite-WeightLoss.com and sign up for The Daily Bites, mini lessons in using EFT to end the struggle with weight loss, http://www.onemorebite-weightloss.com/getnews.html and get started on your path to freedom from emotional eating.

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