All of us know how a small stone thrown into a pond can stir up ripples all around it. This imagery is a good way of showing how a single person can make a big impact on his surroundings and the people around him. It shows how a person and his attitude can affect so much even without his notice or knowledge.

Now think back on how you’ve been handling yourself and your attitude the past few years. Have you been acting as someone who’s been kind and positive? Or have you been acting exactly the opposite way? Remember what you’re giving out is affecting you and everyone around you. The great thing about being kind, being loving, and being positive about things is that in return it also always comes back to you.

Whether you’ve been giving out positive vibes and being kind or being the opposite, here are some things that might help.

Start to live a better life. When people give out negativity and start being unkind it starts a circle that would often impact one’s life. One’s relationship with friends, colleagues, and loved ones can be harmed. The best way to get it remedied would be to start becoming a bit more kind when dealing with people. It’s a difficult road to try to change but starting to recognize how you’ve been a bit unkind can start you to become better.

Practice a better way of life. It will be hard to change your way of thinking and dealing with people but often reminding yourself of what you’ve set out to change will help. Once you start being positive and becoming kind in your dealings with everyone you’ll see it won’t only be you who’ll change. The changes that you’ll start seeing would be having a more positive interaction with people. You’ll also see that you’ll see less stress in your relationships and less stress within yourself.

Reap the benefits of a better life. Being positive and being loving can start you on a road where you have less conflicts and better dealings with everything and everyone around you. It will also feel good to become kind even to those who are being unkind. Who knows seeing you will start them on their own journey of change. Lastly, when you start changing yourself it’s not only others who’ll love you back, you’ll see that you’ll also start loving yourself more.

Remember, all your actions will cause ripples going outwards. It’s up to you what effect you’ll send out to others and the world. All things are connected and you can choose to send out love and kindness. Those ripples in turn will go back to you.

Author's Bio: 

Kindness should really start within ourselves and we can affect other people with this attitude. If you need information of becoming better or about coaching, visit and Download Our Free Coaching Reports that will help you or others attain a better life. You can always check my blog where I write regularly and it is called Coaching Blog. I’ve been constantly updating it with my experiences as an Executive, Corporate and Life Coach.