Relationships are a dance of souls and their interactions together. Some are duets of near perfection, but the majority are always a work in progress. Just like on the dance floor, your physical connections depend on balance. Without having a fair share of it, then what could be or should have been a situation of beauty, instead becomes testing. For many of you, the test may seem too great, while others just flow gently through the rhythmic swings that the universe is full of.

If we focus on personal relationships, Spirit will always tell you to diminish your partner's faults so that you can still see the beauty of what brought you together. This does not mean to turn a blind eye and be an enabler or co-dependent. One of the most profound things in life is that you your heart and head can always change what is not healthy for either of you. While we look for couples to iron out their differences, this is not done to the long-term detriment of your happiness. "Trust" is vital; as is compatibility. Your personal core values--when in the right spiritual balance--cannot be overlooked or compromised. There will be times when you struggle, along with times where you feel like you are floating with angels. Either way, it is part of your soul's path to learn how to deal and cope with the things that will make you happiest. If there is a sense of guilt, shame or repugnancy, then it is fair to say that you need to evaluate what you are doing.

On the other hand, your relationship can improve in unfettered and happy ways when you step back and put into motion a belief that you can re-acquire happiness. Where the happiness comes from, or what level is not important. It will begin with the value that you place on yourself. In other words, if you realize how special you are and that your feelings and emotions are not to be dismissed, then the direction you move towards will become rewarding. You, nor your relationship partner needs to be perfect. All you need is gentle respect for each other.

The world is going through a series of rebirthing situations. It creates tensions in your personal lives. It also means that by abiding by universal spiritual principles and precepts, then the problems you incur will be largely diminished. This is especially true when you are able to build on your relationship with God, Jesus and the entire array of beings in the Golden Light, which includes your loved ones. Today, we want you to do one thing a little differently if you are trying to work through some problems within any type of relationship. We prefer that you say one nice thing to the other person, but if that is still too difficult, say it to Spirit. Without changing your approach, nothing can be accomplished to your liking. Each one of you are empowering souls, guided by a divination of perfected energy from the heavens. Remember that you do not need to struggle because that was not the intended path given to you. Being happy is a right for you, not something that is abstract or available only to others. With deep love and respect, we leave you with these thoughts, as they are The Spoken Words of Spirit.

Author's Bio: 

Jim is a renowned medium and psychic, but considers himself a teacher of spirituality. Although he has been doing most of his work on a more personal basis, Jim's new direction is to try to include more people to understand the simple, yet perfect connection they can have with their loved ones on the other side.

The ability to communicate with Spirits was not something he searched for. In July of 1993, while enduring a very difficult time in his life, Jim was suddenly blessed with being able to speak, see and hear numerous people and higher level souls in the other realm. He openly and actively shares the information he gets with anyone who desires to improve their life.

Jim Fargiano can be reached on Facebook and Twitter, but most easily through his website at: He is a widely recognized leader in spirituality and posts messages he receives from the other side almost everyday. Short quotes will be on the fan page for The Spoken Words of Spirit on Facebook, as well as on his home page. Longer messages can be read at If you are serious about improving your outlook on life, then take advantage of the opportunities Jim provides.