Love is one of the most important things in life. Love is our fuel, it’s the energy that pushes us forward in our everyday life. Love makes us feel alive… but if you are reading this article, then you are probably not there yet. Maybe right now you feel very unlucky in love, or you've been waiting for your Soulmate for so long that you think it’s not meant to be, but here I am telling you: “Yes, you can have your beautiful love story and live happily ever after, and I’ll tell you how to do it.

1. Be happy.
Joy is contagious. We gravitate towards laughter. Joy is a high vibration in our bodies. When we take life with this high frequency we get to attract the things we want. No one wants to be in an unhealthy relationship. Happiness is a fantastic road that forces others to travel along with you.

2. Be truthful.
Do you know what you want in a partner? Be honest of the things you want and those you will not tolerate. You cannot attract your soul mate based on misconceptions and lies. You need to be honest and truthful with yourself. You are the only person who knows what you can live with and those things you cannot.

3. Figure out exactly what you expect.
Write down in full detail all the wonderful qualities you expect to find in your perfect partner. Don’t leave anything out, because the universe will give you exactly what you ask for. If you just ask for a person to marry, that’s what you’ll get, but this doesn’t mean that you’ll marry the right person or that you’ll be happy in that relationship. So, if your dream is to marry your soulmate and live happily ever after, then give the Universe all the details about what you want your Soulmate to be. And don’t be afraid to fly too high! There are over 7 billion people on this planet, so you can be sure there’s at least one person who matches your description, and the Universe will find a way to put him or her in your life! Don’t worry about "how," your only job and responsibility is to let the universe know "what" you want.

4. Use visualization.
We all have an ideal persona of what we want in a mate. Use this to attract your soul mate. Make a vision board. Write down in a journal the qualities you want in your partner. Make clear intentions of what you want as a lover, a partner, a friend and a parent for your children (those you have and those you want in the future

5. Prove to yourself that you do deserve to be loved.
Now that you understood that your negative limiting beliefs aren't true, make a new list including all the qualities, actions, and facts that make you a wonderful person: “I always help and support those I love... Every Monday I bring cookies to work... I gave a ride to my friend when he didn’t have his car….”

6. Let go of expectations.
No two relationships are the same. Your high expectations of what you will find in a relationship are irrational and will stop the flow of true love. Expectations are dangerous. They are part of a controlling mind. You cannot expect perfection. You can only attract who and what you are. The more loving you are, the more love you attract. Likes attract likes. You cannot be disappointed if you have no expectations.

7. Listen to your intuition.
This is a huge part of your life. Your intuition is an internal GPS guiding you towards the highest good. If you meet someone and it doesn’t feel right or easy, that’s not the person for you. Follow your gut. Your internal guidance will align with the right person. And, when you finally meet that person you will know he/she is your soul mate.

8. Be the love you are wanting to give another.
Love is a seed of hope and grace. When you love and respect yourself to the highest level, another person will love and respect you for it. Do not substitute lust for love. Do not settle for anything less than the way you love yourself. Giving yourself worth attracts another to treat you with utmost love and appreciation. You deserve the acknowledgment, acceptance and unconditional love out there. It all starts with you.

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Gagan Sidhu
Positivity is Contagious

Author's Bio: 

Gagandeep Siidhu is a certified life and happiness coach also known as #VitaminG
My goal is to help you re-imagine your life and let go of thoughts and behaviors that  undermine you, so that a renewed and fulfilled you can emerge. With  extensive experience in Life Coaching and a vast history of client success, my individualized approach will help you attain your goals