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- Law of Attraction and Sick Kids - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2010 from Matthew FerryI answered this on Yahoo Answers and I thought you might enjoy my thoughts. “A friend recently introduced me to The Secret: Law of attraction, a concept I found extremely interesting. Upon further research, I found that it is strongly linked with the new thought movement. Both of these ...
Views: 968(1 vote) - How To Follow Your Passion When Your Life Is not Set Up For That - Life Coaching Training - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Matthew FerryAs a life coach, I help clients understand what their true passion in life is, and then help them set their life up so that their passion can exist within the structure of their life. Now, this is not easy, because our life is currently designed to perpetuate the commitments that we've made ...
Views: 957 - Do You Have To Many Goals? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2010 from Matthew FerryI just finished creating my goals and intentions for the Second Quarter of 2010. I started by assessing my Q1. In doing so I realized that I wasn’t living my over arching intention for 2010. I have two signs in front of my computer screens… 1. Simplicity 2. My time is valuable In the first ...
Views: 944(1 vote) - Does an obsession for success kill the passion for life?- Life Coaching Training - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Matthew FerryDeluxe. Several times I was moved, elated, bouncing and feeling so happy being right here, right now. In the last month I read all four Twilight books and I was so blown away by how it made me feel. I’m sitting here thinking. Where have I been? What have I been doing? What have I been ...
Views: 937 - How Inspired Action Life Coaching Leads to Bliss - Life Coaching - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2010 from Matthew FerryAs an Inspired Action life coach, my job is to support my clients in living a life of happiness, joy, peace, and most importantly, bliss. The dictionary defines bliss as supreme happiness. Most people don't have an experience with bliss. Most people don't know what bliss even is. It is that ...
Views: 929 - Even great parents screw you up - Life Coaching Program - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Matthew FerryI received this question from a client… “I was in bed thinking about my 5-year-old and the problems he is having with interpersonal relationships at school and a little bit with his nanny. He seems to talk back and he can be a tyrant. Also he is not quite a big follower of authority. I know ...
Views: 917 - Life Coaching - Why Temper Tantrums Rule! - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Matthew FerryI recently confronted my client on the fact that she made me a promise and didn’t keep it. Rather then owning it, and simply saying, “You are right, I said I would and I didn’t.” … she did what most powerful people do; She used her enormous power to try and manipulate me into believing that her ...
Views: 914(1 vote) - What To Do When Things Don’t Manifest - Life Coaching Programs - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2010 from Matthew FerryI’m sitting in row 20 seat E. That’s the middle seat at the back of the plane. This morning, not knowing what seat my assistant had booked me for this trip I wrote in my intentions, rather spontaneously, “I am so thankful to the universe for providing me with first class seats on the way up ...
Views: 910 - Is your focus making you a victim of the economy? – Life Coaching - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Matthew FerryThe Drunk Monkey (your mind) is a survival machine. It’s job is to protect you from possible destruction. Therefore, it is totally addicted to the news. The news organizations have realized that sensationalized news hooks their viewers Drunk Monkeys. The news has no commitment to truth. It ...
Views: 900 - Life Coach Confirms Law of Attraction Visualizing Myth - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Matthew FerryVisualizing has been taken out of context. The many great men and women who told us about visualizing produced spectacular results. Taken out of context people began to assume that if you visualize, then you will get those results too. Not true. Visualizing is the beginning of the creation ...
Views: 805 - Life Coach Reveals Technique for Releasing Stress - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2010 from Matthew FerryWhat makes you nervous? Usually its some future The Drunk Monkey in your head is obsessing over. The way to get relaxed is to see it for what it is. The Drunk Monkey in your head, all that talking is just trying to keep you alive longer by avoiding potentially negative experiences. This is ...
Views: 775(1 vote) - You Aren't Wired for Happiness - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2008 from Matthew FerryYou are a practicing Being Unstoppable! You are someone committed to having it all…right? You want the money, you want the freedom, and you want the joy of existence…you want to be inspired and in action on your dreams…feeling the exhilaration of being a fully engaged adult on ...
Views: 770 - Why Top Sales People Achieve Stellar Results with Life Coaching - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2008 from Matthew FerryAll the top sales people who are committed to having a fulfilling experience in life are in a life coaching program. Well, I say all and that is a bold statement. I’ll explain. So many of the top salespeople I have worked with don’t care about having a fulfilling experience. They ...
Views: 756 - Life Coaching: When you Spot it, Acknowledge it - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2008 from Matthew FerryWhen you spot something synchronistic acknowledge it. Get yourself in high alert today. Be alert to the miracles that are happening. Notice how you think of people and they call. You think about something and it happens. You have this power. You have the power to influence reality. When ...
Views: 747 - Life Coach Discusses Why Marriages Don’t Work - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2010 from Matthew FerryIn very simple terms, “You hold your spouse accountable to agreements they never made!” We all experience that intense burst of chemicals in our body during the first 18 months of the relationship. The phrase “Love is Blind” refers to that period in the relationship when we are obsessed with ...
Views: 745(1 vote) - Why Goal Setting Makes You Freeze - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2010 from Matthew FerryA life coaching client wrote in, “I have a question, When ever we are asked what our dreams and goals are, I like freeze, I can never really come up with what my dreams are and can’t find goals that excite me., its like they have been suppressed for so long I don’t even know. Its like when ever ...
Views: 740 - The Energy of Force vs. The Energy of Inspiration - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2009 from Matthew FerryThe energy generated from fear, stress and upset is the energy of force. Force takes incredible amounts of energy to exert and therefore it does not have lasting power and it drains you of your own life force. The problem is that most everyone was conditioned with force. Get to school on time ...
Views: 723(1 vote) - Power and Force - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2009 from Matthew FerryWhen you get the vital difference between power and force, you will engage in a process that will assist you in releasing fear and unlocking unexplainable joy. As you let go of forcing your life, living with “have to do” and “need to do” you suddenly discover that ...
Views: 713 - What You Want Will Manifest Better Than You Could Have Imagined in the First Place - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2008 from Matthew FerryWhat you want always manifests. And better then you could have expected. Sounds great doesn’t it...But the reality is, THE DRUNK MONKEY CAN’T STAND THAT. Warning! Warning! Warning! Monkey Alert!!!! Your mind thinks it is psychic and can predict the future...so when you take an ...
Views: 710 - Give Up Your Righteousness - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2008 from Matthew FerryThere are six billion people on this planet. Every single person has a completely different perspective. You know that every single person has had billions of experiences. Experience shapes our opinions, judgments, ideals, preferences, and ultimately our view of life. Every one of these ...
Views: 707 - Life Coaching - Fix Your Relationship Like Jennifer and Powell - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2010 from Matthew FerryToday I received a wonderful testimonial from Jennifer about how controlling her Drunk Monkey positively impacted her marriage. “I am writing this to anyone interested in creating a relationship beyond your wildest dreams & the affect of working with Matthew Ferry has had for our family –in ...
Views: 691 - What Are Intentions & Delegations? - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2010 from Matthew FerryI’m teaching a class to 1300 people called Instant Manifestation Now. The Purpose of the class is to manifest your wildest dreams. In the class I ask my participants to write intentions and delegations every day to help clarify goals and dreams. First I ask people to dream big. What would be ...
Views: 669 - Give Up Your Righteousness - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2009 from Matthew FerryEvery one of these experiences helps us make new decisions about the world, our desires, and the meaning of life itself. Taking this into account, you now realize that there are no two beings that have had the same experiences. No two people, in other words, live in the same world as you do. In ...
Views: 651 - You Aren't Wired for Happiness - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2009 from Matthew FerryYou are a practicing Being Unstoppable! You are someone committed to having it all...right? You want the money, you want the freedom, and you want the joy of existence...you want to be inspired and in action on your dreams...feeling the exhilaration of being a fully engaged adult on this ...
Views: 637 - Life Coaching Training - 3 Aspects of Inspired Action - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2010 from Matthew FerryPeople who are inspired seem to take action effortlessly while those who are not have to figure out a way motivate themselves into action. If things come easy you are inspired. If things are difficult you are not. If things are not coming easily, it’s probably because you are not inspired by ...
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