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Dear friend, this world is full of negativity and regardless of whatever people say, we need to face this negativity and find ways to get over it. But it is you who have to decide. Who is in charge of your life, you or your surroundings? Once you decide that you are in charge of whatever happens to you, you will put your foot down and get over whatever negativity surrounds you.
Dear friend, here is the best kept secret to happiness. This is a proven formula that will work for you at any stage of your life. It is a formula that took me many years to put together and I want you to consider it like precious gold and never lose sight of it. You will find it will always lighten your daily stresses. It is a formula that will also help you reduce worry. It is laughter.
Two Keys to Transformation - Awareness and Self awareness Dear friend, to get a clear understanding of self awareness, it's a good idea to first understand awareness itself. So what is awareness? Simply put, awareness is our capacity to notice things. We may be aware of the time or aware of a particular situation - we may notice that we are late or that someone is watching us. Being aware of such things means we have taken note of them. This is awareness. That being said, would you agree that in order to change anything, you must first become aware of what it is?
Dear friend, are you wandering through life with little direction - hoping that you'll find happiness, health and prosperity? What do you value most? Do You Know What You Want? The most important thing in your life is to know what you want. It is in knowing that the victory is half won. There is nothing as helpless as a rudderless ship in a gale. It goes in all directions with each succeeding wave and wind. So it is with the individual who has no definite aim in life.
Dear friend, do you want to know how to take charge of your life like the director of a movie? Then read on. In order to understand the way you respond to the experiences you have in your life, I’m going to use a metaphor.
Dear friend, today I invite you to join me on a new journey as I take you through chapter 1 of my eBook the 12 Secrets to Creating Money and Abundance Caribbean Style. I want you to imagine you are going to the airport. On your arrival you walk directly into the departure lounge. You see this sign: WELCOME TO FLIGHT 101: DESTINATION: MONEY AND ABUNDANCE
Dear friend, to have a joy filled relationship is to have that sense of self. We all have expectations of relationships and how they are going to be. But if we come from within ourselves, with that authentic experience of knowing who we are and have the ability to share that with others, unencumbered by that mask of the need to protect, then we will draw to ourselves those that we are compatible with. We will have like minded experiences and a flow of energy that is not discordant or fractured or uncomfortable.
Dear friend, as you embark on your quest for abundance and prosperity working from the inside out, one of the emotions you will come up against is fear. I am not speaking of the “fight or flight” fear when you are faced with danger. I am referring to the fear which comes to the surface as you prepare to move out of your comfort zone. Fear is mortal man’s greatest enemy. It may be fear of the future, fear of failure, fear of another, fear of one’s own self or any of the thousand and one fears that follow people through life.
Dear friend, now that all of the goodies from the holidays have settled, hopeful we could turn our attention to healthy living. How often have you heard the saying, the good things in life are free, yet we neglect this simple but profound message. Daily we are bombarded by various advertisements beseeching us to use this and use that to enhance our well-being.
Dear friend, it is quite well known to all that everything starts from our mind. The smallest thought is being generated into an idea, which takes the shape of the actions in order to be implemented. This whole process is being developed within one’s mind so that one can plan ahead.
Dear friend, I invite you to join me on a new journey. I want you to imagine you are going to the airport. On your arrival you walk directly into the departure lounge. I will be your captain and coach on this flight. Since we don't have any customs officers and there will be no flight attendants on board, I will be providing you with the required information for your flight. I have over twenty-seven years experience on this route. You may now sit back and relax while I provide you with more details.
Dear friend, asking for what you want—and setting boundaries around what you don’t want—is a key life skill. But sometimes in our enthusiasm to practice this skill, we over-do our own assertiveness and end up with a partner who shuts down, gets angry or feels resentful. Here are four tips for developing your assertiveness in a way that will actually strengthen, deepen and enrich your relationship—thus avoiding the “alienation trap”: 1.Get Clear.r
Dear friend, I have a number of questions for you today, beginning with this one. How happy are you? How happy can you be? How good can you feel? What is the best feeling thought that you can feel right now? What is working in your life? What would improve your life more than all other the things put together? Do you know the power of feeling good? Are you happy and contented personally?
Dear friend, are you interested in saving 1000s of dollars? Are you always on the lookout for the best deal? Trying to stretch your household budget further with less? Is growing your business or protecting your money important to you? Are you positioned to WIN in your life and business? Do you want to start learning how to create personal wealth today but not sure where to start? It is simple! All you need to do is learn how to become a smarter consumer – then you will start accumulating cash. It is easy to do – much easier than you imagined.
Dear friend, how many times have you caught yourself saying that there could be no other solution to a problem – and that that problem leads to a dead end? How many times have you felt stumped knowing that the problem lying before you is one you cannot solve. No leads. No options. No solutions.
Dear friend, one of my philosophies in life is to give myself the best opportunity to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Am I still going to die? Yes! However, it makes a lot of sense to me that while I can, I must give myself the best opportunity to optimize my health which could lead me to saving money in the long run.
Dear friend, if trying to maintain balance in your life makes you feel like a tightrope walker, you’re not alone. Most of us have so many demands on our time and energy; life can feel like a three-ring circus. Take this quiz to see how well you are meeting responsibilities, while also recognizing and fulfilling personal needs and wants. True False 1. The only way I can successfully manage my life is to take care of myself physically and emotionally. 2. Nurturing myself enlarges my capacity to help others. 3. I eat healthfully and exercise regularly.
Dear friend, by state I mean your physiological and emotional state. Simply put, this is how you feel in the moment. You can be the most talented person in the world, but if you are in a dis-empowered emotional state you can't achieve your goals. You are in a dis-empowered state if you feel overwhelmed, uncertain, or fearful. These will influence your decisions and undermine your ability to reach your aspirations and goals. If you find you are constantly experiencing these you are only setting yourself up for failure.
Dear Friend, I am going to begin by asking you to think of the clothes in your closet. There are all those clothes, some of them you wear and some you haven’t worn since the year 2000. This is a bit like the beliefs that you hold. You have been gathering them up along the way and holding many of them to you much longer than the time that they serve you.
Dear friend, I seem to lose count of how many times I've read and heard of celebrity marriages failing left and right. It seems strange that we often see movie and TV stars as flawless people, living the fairytale life of riches and glamour. I suppose we all have to stop sticking our heads in the clouds or sand if you prefer. There are many ways to lose your sense of self-esteem. But whatever happens, we should all try not to lose our own sense of self.
Dear friend, how do you keep focused on your dreams and desires with all the negatives in the world around you? It is as EASY as learning YOUR ABC. Posted on February 7, 2014 by Nigel St. Hill in Money and Abundance Here is an alphabet of tips which I invite you to consider. A – Achieve your dreams. Avoid negative people, things and places. B – Believe in yourself, and in what you can do. C – Consider things from every angle and aspect. To be able to understand life, you need to appreciate contrast. D – Don’t give up and don’t give in.
Dear friend, there are those of us who see the glass as half-full while others see it as half-empty. How we choose to determine the first from the second is up to our attitude and belief system. The choice of how we view our lives in general is totally up to us. Our thoughts, beliefs and attitudes can be what we want them to be - that is part of our free will as humans. If you are the kind who is quick to be on the pessimistic side, the key is to keep a positive attitude to help improve your view and in turn, your situation.
Dear friend, how many times have you gone to sleep at night, swearing you'll go to the gym in the morning or you’re going for a swim and then changing your mind just eight hours later because when you get up, you don't feel like exercising?
Dear friend, happy Valentine’s Day! The greatest gift you can give today is that of self-love and this is not being selfish or egotistical. It is being centered in self. It is only when you can love yourself that you can really love another. As a reminder I invite you to listen to Whitney Houston’s song Greatest Love of All http://youtu.be/IYzlVDlE72w Relationships are at the heart of evolution, they test character, strength, endurance, spirit, wisdom and understanding. They comprise the essence of all learning.
Dear friend, YOU HAVE GREATNESS WITHIN YOU. IT’S YOUR JOB TO BRING IT ON OUT. Take your stand and be a leader today. By: Nigel St.Hill When you are at work, do you get frustrated because things don’t seem to be happening the way they’re supposed to be? You see people milling around but nothing gets accomplished. And in the daily hustle and bustle, do you feel that your goals remain just that – goals. Then maybe it’s time for you to stand up and do something about it.
Dear friend, innovation is a talent that everyone has, yet they think they don't. If you've ever marvelled at somebody's creative prowess, guess what, you can create and innovate too. It just takes time. Everyone is born creative. The box of crayons in kindergarten was not limited to those who possessed potential; because the truth is, everybody has potential.