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By Steve BrunkhorstFeb 3, 20041 topic

Setting High Personal Standards

In his book, "The 22 Non-Negotiable Laws of Wellness,"author Greg Anderson wrote, "Let us be about setting highstandards for life, love, creativity, and wisdom. If ourexpectations in these areas are low, we are not likely toexperience wellness. Setting high standards makes every dayand every decade worth looking forward to."nnHe also reminded us that, "When we change our perception wegain control. The stress becomes a challenge, not a threat.When we commit to action, to actua

Primary topic: Empowerment

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By Steve BrunkhorstMay 19, 20041 topic

7 Power Skills that Build Strong Relationships

A strong, healthy relationship is one in which the partners show respect and kindness toward each other. The relationship forms a rewarding and enduring bond of trust and support. Here are seven power skills that will help you form stronger alliances and bring more closeness, authenticity and trust to your relationships. 1. Relax Optimistically If you are comfortable around others, they will feel comfortable around you. If you appear nervous, others will sense it and withdraw

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Steve BrunkhorstJan 29, 20091 topic

10 Actions that Build a Strong and Lasting Character

People strive, throughout life, to build strong personal characters, traits that reflect their purpose, passions, and values. Yet, as people who would like to build a strong character, we find it difficult. The difficulty lies in our resistance to the very circumstances that would lead us to grow.nnThis article will provide insights into the following questions: How does character differ from conduct? How does personal character lead to the growth of spiritual character? Why

Primary topic: Empowerment

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By Steve BrunkhorstNov 22, 20031 topic

Encouraging Blossoms of Achievement

The tiny dogwood sapling was only a twig when my motherplanted it years ago. At age four, with a red wagon andbucket, I was happy to carry water to anything thatgrew, even to the full grown, flowering apple trees inmy grandfather's orchard.nnThrilled with the promise of a flowering dogwood, Ihappily nourished the new sapling with both water andanticipation. Yet weeks later, to my naive impatience,there were no flowers.nnGreek philosopher Epictetus, said, "No great thing iscre

Primary topic: Empowerment

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By Steve BrunkhorstMar 2, 20041 topic

Making Communication Effective: 4 Language Filters

Language is a challenging way to communicate. It allows us to share our thoughts and feelings by describing our personal views of reality.nnYet language is not reality. It is merely a limited system of symbols, signals, sounds, or gestures that belong to a specific culture or group. It only describes a personal map of the actual territory. We might have a great message to share. Yet there are other important factors to consider if we want to make our communication effective.n

Primary topic: Communication Skills and Training

Communication Skills and Training

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By Steve BrunkhorstJun 3, 20031 topic

Signs Along the Road to Achievement

One of the first things most of us remember hearing when learning to drive an automobile was "Keep your hands on the wheel." Then there were other precautions like, "Keep your eyes on the road, drive defensively, buckle up for safety, and watch the road signs!"nnThese basic precautions would keep us moving along safely, and help us arrive at our intended destinations on time. Remembering these simple golden rules of safe driving can also help with the achievement of other imp

Primary topic: Happiness

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By Steve BrunkhorstMar 27, 20041 topic

5 Result-Getting Time Management Tips

How often have you tried to manage your time in more productive ways, and found the process to be difficult and confusing? Perhaps you simply gave up on the idea. As one friend said, "Time management takes too much time!" nnThese tips will simplify time management with five important steps that can bring remarkable changes. They will allow you to easily customize a plan that will fit your specific objectives. Each action in your plan should support one of these five steps.nn1

Primary topic: Success Coaching

Success Coaching

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By Steve BrunkhorstJan 10, 20041 topic

The S.W.P.D. Recipe for Success

A wonderful quote by author and scholar William A. Ward relates a time-tested recipe for success. Think of it as the S.W.P.D. success recipe. This simple and powerful formula has brought success to many men and women who have put it to use. S.W.P.D stands for studying, working, preparing, and dreaming.nn"Recipe for success: Study while others are sleeping; work while others are loafing; prepare while others are playing; and dream while others are wishing." â William A. Ward

Primary topic: Success Coaching

Success Coaching

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By Steve BrunkhorstApr 8, 20041 topic

7 Gifts that Multiply Happiness

Did you know that there are gifts that will multiply your happiness when you give them away? Here are seven of those gifts. Giving these gifts will allow you to share with others your most unique treasure: your authentic self. Each gift will return to you many times. As you read about each of these gifts, think about ways that you could share that gift with someone today. 1. Share appreciation Tell someone how much you appreciate the faith they've shown in you. Thank them sin

Primary topic: Happiness

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By Steve BrunkhorstSep 24, 20041 topic

7 Key Steps to Unshakable Confidence

Do you remember that day? Perhaps it was your first job interview. Perhaps you were speaking to a group for the first time. Maybe you were starting a challenging new career or meeting a special person for the first time. Your throat became dry and your knees wanted to shake. You were about to leave a place of mental and emotional safety. You were putting your skills on the line and taking a risk. If you were successful, there could be great reward. However, self-doubt was try

Primary topic: Empowerment

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By Steve BrunkhorstJan 23, 20051 topic

Making Commitments of Love and Courage

There is a story about a little girl who suffered from a serious disease. Her best chance of recovery would be to receive a blood transfusion from her five-year old brother. The doctor explained the situation to the little brother. He asked the boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister. The young boy hesitated for a brief moment. Then he took a deep breath and said, "Yes, I'll do it if it will save my sister's life." During the transfusion, the boy lay in the

Primary topic: Happiness

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By Steve BrunkhorstAug 12, 20041 topic

Advance Your Enthusiasm and Determination for Success

Imagine being firmly committed to your deepest ambitions. Imagine feeling energetic and enthusiastic about your relationships, career, and all the things you want. Envision a future as bright and promising as any you have ever imagined. Is this your typical day-to-day outlook? Do you adjust easily to unexpected obstacles and handle stressful situations resiliently? Do you thrive on challenges, or do you tend to withdraw from them? Henry Ford said, "You can do anything if you

Primary topic: Positive Thinking

Positive Thinking

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By Steve BrunkhorstApr 19, 20051 topic

7 Stepping-stones to Career Growth and Excellence

Achieving excellence in our work is an integral part of feeling genuinely satisfied in life. We want our careers or businesses to blossom, making us financially secure and content with our achievements. Here are seven stepping-stones that lead to career growth and excellence. When used as part of a total action-plan, these stepping-stones can contribute tremendously to the fulfillment that you desire. 1. Make a Commitment to Excellence A passionate commitment to excellence is

Primary topic: Career Development

Career Development

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By Steve BrunkhorstAug 1, 20041 topic

Your Pot of Gold: Waiting for the Rainbow's End

An old story tells of a country pastor who had created a very beautiful garden. He had removed the old decaying trees and replaced them with healthy young saplings. He had dug granite stones from the hillside and built steps and walkways throughout the garden. A clear stream ran through the garden and supplied a sparkling pool. There were bright red roses, colorful flowering trees, and lovely fountains. One day, a local farmer came by and stopped to marvel at the magnificent

Primary topic: Happiness

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By Steve BrunkhorstFeb 3, 20051 topic

7 Powerful Ways to Show Love to Children

Our children are our most important legacy to the world. However, our love is our most important legacy to our children. Here are seven ways to show love that will help children build sturdy foundations for the future. 1. Spend Time with Your Children. Time is the most loving gift we can give to our children. It allows for the mutual exchange of ideas, emotions, actions, and words that help our children develop and learn to communicate. Enjoy a toddler's tea parties as well a

Primary topic: Parenting

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By Steve BrunkhorstMay 15, 20051 topic

12 Reflections on Personal Responsibility

Responsibility means being accountable for what we think, say, and do. Personal responsibility involves working on our own character and skill development rather than blaming others for situations and circumstances. It means choosing to design a life that honors our values and purpose. Here are twelve reflections on personal responsibility: 1. Personal responsibility begins from the inside and moves outward. We must begin by taking responsibility for our thoughts, choices, an

Primary topic: Happiness

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By Steve BrunkhorstDec 2, 20041 topic

How to Feel Satisfied in Your Career

Many people turn a beloved hobby into a vocation. They have a gift, a talent screaming for expression. It means doing something that they love. At last, they feel empowered. However, this newfound empowerment is inside the person, not in the changing of careers. How can you feel empowered if you are already successful in your work but feel discontent? You must recognize and feel the value within you and your work every day! A colleague and I were presenting a workshop on care

Primary topic: Career Development

Career Development

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By Steve BrunkhorstJun 5, 20041 topic

How to Succeed for the Rest of Your Life

I spoke recently with the owner of a large clothing store who had poured years of effort into his business. He had achieved his dream and built a successful career. However, his hectic pace was becoming difficult to maintain. New interests were tugging at his heartstrings. He felt himself entering another phase of life. He wanted a change but didn't want to give up his successful lifestyle. What would you do if you felt yourself heading for a major change? How could you play

Primary topic: Happiness

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By Steve BrunkhorstJun 17, 20041 topic

Build a Storehouse of Energy and Resiliency

Did you ever feel like your "get-up-and-go" got up and deserted you? Has a stressful situation left you feeling drained and unmotivated to perform the simplest tasks? Most of us have experienced times of stress followed by fatigue. The resiliency to work, play, and enjoy life after stressful times requires enough reserve energy to bounce back. Bruce Lee said that "â¦ the stiffest tree is most easily cracked, while the bamboo or willow survives by bending with the wind." Flex

Primary topic: Happiness

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By Steve BrunkhorstOct 17, 20051 topic

Increase Your Energy: A Powerful Formula

Would you like to increase your energy level and dissolve stress more easily? Here is a simple yet powerful formula to remember: Goals + Action = Energy Choose a Compelling Goal Begin by choosing a goal you would like to accomplish. Write it down in detail, describing exactly how you will know when you have met your goal. Passion behind a clearly stated goal is a powerful force. You can gain enormous control over that force by focusing on one small step that you need to take.

Primary topic: Stress Management

Stress Management

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