"Life is what you think it is, and gives you what you dare to dream it will.” - Anon One aspect of the human condition that I find fascinating is the way that we overcome the challenges in our lives tends to be consistent with how easy or difficult we first imagine those challenges to be. We pre-empt the obstacles that are likely to present difficulties, and run a mental rehearsal of our ability to deal with them. Of course, this is a very handy skill to have if you use that rehearsal time wisely, to solve any potential problems before they occur.
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Good Habits – Bad Habits. Are you sure? Good Habits: Work hard, Play hard. Lead by example. Bad Habits: Alcohol is bad for you. Banish procrastination. We all have beliefs about what are good habits and what are bad habits. My grandfather said that eating an egg or two a day was good for you. Today people are conce ed about the cholesterol in eggs. They used to have prohibition in the United States because alcohol was surely an evil thing. Now you’re supposed to drink a glass of red wine per day for your health.
What Happened to the Baby-Boomers? I remember graduating from High School in 1968 and like every class graduating, we felt like we were going to change the world. Well, we did change the world, but is the world a better place? You have to answer that question. Personally, I don’t think so.
Are you feeling stuck? Maybe you’re in a job you hate, in relationships that aren’t serving you, or in a cycle of unhealthy behavior. If this sounds like what you’re experiencing, know that you are not alone! Many people have reached out to me looking for a career coach, because they feel stagnant and are not achieving the results they want in their life. Deciding to get support is one of the most beneficial things you can do for yourself. There is no shame in asking for help. In fact, this often saves time and money, while reducing the chance that you quit on your goals.
As Walt Disney said, "It's kind of fun to do the impossible." What's possible for you? What's impossible that you want to be possible? What if you could make the impossible possible? You can...it's an art. I've been thinking a lot recently about what has been called one of the modern deadly sins...over-working and
Building a business is a fantastic and challenging experience. You can wake up exhilarated to begin your day and go to bed feeling overwhelmed and frustrated. The key to success is to maintain a positive, "I CAN DO IT!” success driven mindset. Easier said than done, right? Here are 5 key strategies that will help create, enhance, and sustain the confidence of Success Driven Women who have chosen to achieve their dreams by leverage their personal and professional mindset. 1. Surround yourself with successful and positive people.
The growth and success of your business depends on building trusting relationships with other people. Ask yourself this one simple question: Do my words pull people towards me or push them away? This question requires a willingness on your part to honestly evaluate how you use your words and to what degree they build trust and respect. I warn you that what you discover may sting a bit.
As a life coach of some years standing, I am frequently emailed by people with queries about becoming a life coach, so I have recently put together a regular newsletter with information about the kinds of considerations which I believe you should take into account before you try to launch yourself into a coaching career. This article gives an introduction to some of the preliminary issues that it may be worth you bearing in mind if you are thinking of being a personal coach.
You are divine beyond measure : significant, soulful, perfection unrealized. Someone out there would move heaven + earth for you and considers you their moon + their stars. Right now, someone dreams of you, knowing their love is unrequited. Someone may lie, cheat + disappoint you. You are resilient. Your antenna will be sharper for it. You have a voice that speaks truths: ripe, relevant, resonant. Right now, someone is taking a stand + lending voice to protect your civil rights. You may trip up, screw up, even *&%# up, but you will dust off and it will raise your bar.r
Many people view their career as a separate entity, not part of their "real" life when it's actually an intricate part of it. When working with women who a re really unhappy with their job, I often hear them say things like, "Well, it's just a job, it's not my life" or "This job won't make me or break me-I have a life after I leave this place".
A common reason people attack The Secret (and now, Rhonda Byrne's sequel, The Power) is that it promotes a self-centered and "consumerist" attitude. Byrne, critics say, encourages us to focus on "manifesting" luxury cars, expensive shoes, and so on, rather than on helping others.
I cut open an apple the other day, and it blessed me. Not just the fruit - which, of course, was very tasty and healthy - but the seeds. Every apple has at least four seeds in it, enough to grow four more trees … and thousands of potential apples. Every bag of apples is an orchard! That’s true of every plant and animal God created. An ear of corn can produce a garden; a bushel can provide a field. Not only does each species have re-creative abilities designed within it; it also contains the power of multiplication – God’s promise of abundance.
No, I’m not talking about the infamous and autumnal flu vaccine, even though I have already got an email and text reminder from the doc… I’m talking about a different type of vaccine; this one is made of 100% natural ingredients and has been proven to induce a quick and comforting feeling of contentment, almost like happiness itself. I prescribed it to a client a few weeks ago. He went for it and took it like a man. I’ll tell you what happened…
My husband is a pessimist. He spends a lot of time worrying about many, many things. Among them our children, our home and now, the economy. Jerry works at home and takes time during the day to check CNN and other TV channels for the latest unnerving news about the state of the US economy. ...
copyright 2007 December 28, 2007 www.simplydivinesolutions.com While behavior in the world may be valuable, I find that thoughts and the monitoring of thoughts to be fundamentally important to our walk in the world. I once heard a fellow mother say to her child, “It isn’t ...
14 WAYS TO KNOW IF YOU ARE READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP By: Debbie Dodge, PhD, LPC, CHLC 1. Will I be happy if I do not find a relationship? Happiness has to come from within ourselves. Otherwise, we will cling to the relationship as our source of happiness, identity and fulfillment. Losing that ...
My name is Brian Allen; I am 50 years of age in time as we know it, but my attitude towards life is one of many, thus making me timeless. Our thoughts are so important to us on a daily basis. What we think about most of the time is exactly what manifests in to our reality. When we change our ...
With the crisp mornings and even cooler evenings here in New England, it seems we are fast approaching the end of another year. The leaves have changed colors. The sky has taken on its winter hue. The frenzy of the holidays are fast approaching with just a few more weeks until the beginning of a new year! Where did the time go? If you're anything like me, you wonder how summer could have come and gone so quickly. Speaking of how quickly things change…how much have you accomplished in the way of making the changes you started out with at the beginning of the year?
MASSIVE INSECURITY I just read an article by a writer named Lisa Kogan on this topic. It was a great reminder that massive insecurity is an affliction suffered by a huge cross section of the entire population. We with addictions think it is unique to us. I have believed for years that while many with addictions have MI, it is shared by millions of others. There is that word I hear in oh so many places. NORMAL. I don't think there is any such thing. There are many who have chosen a path of life recovery; a path that addresses Massive Insecurity.
I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear. Nelson Mandela Are your fears holding you back from living? But what is courage, really? Courage is the ability to continue moving forward even in the face of challenge, adversity, and fear. Just as Mr. Mandela says in his quote, it is in the triumph over fear that is courage.
This is a phrase used in the bible of the original 12 step organization (known as the Big Book). As I have traveled the road of life, I often found myself looking for an easier, softer way to get what I wanted. In school, I dogged assignments and read other peoples notes. I have tried get rich ...
Have you ever imagined that you are receiving Divine messages and guidance all the time? That you are continually guided in everything that you do? Whether you realize it or not, you are consistently receiving Divine messages. Maybe you doubt the validity of what I'm telling you. Maybe you're ...
The best way to make your dreams come true is to wake up. -Paul ValerynnIn chaos theory the term Butterfly Effect is used to demonstrate the idea that one butterfly could eventually have a far-reaching ripple effect on subsequent events: For example, the flap of a seagullâs wing in Brazil could cause a tornado in Texas.nnWhat a fascinating theory! It makes me wonder how much every one of my actions today, down to the most minuscule one, will impact my life, the lives of oth
“A battlefield is a battlefield. I don’t care where you are fighting it. Unless you have lived through fearing for your life on a nightly basis, you cannot imagine what war is like." - Dr. Gayle J. Hall. A victim of domestic violence fights for her life on a daily basis, just like a soldier on the front line of combat fights for his. Now, this may be difficult for soldiers to understand and may even make some angry. They may say, “I sure did not see any women out there on the front line with me when I was at war. What the hell! How can you possibly compare the two?”
Maximized Human Potential and The Law of Love By Dr. Jeaninenwww.SimplyDivineSolutions.comncopyright 2007 11-10-07 I’ve noticed that some of my clients and friends have humorously begun to call me “Dr. Love”. It is a nickname that I thoroughly embrace. What could be a more complimentary ...
When Charles Dickens provided Ebenezer Scrooge with the ghost of Christmas future, he created what may have been the first literary description of a life coaching experience. When Ebenezer’s poltergeist showed the old fellow a view of the future, he was employing a powerful tool used by ...
Goal Setting the Right Way What are your goals? If the only one that comes to mind is success – we’re going to start working on that right now. Goal Setting Goal setting means that you need to make multiple goals. Yes, you need to have many goals set into place. When you grow a business, you need to take baby steps with it. A business starts as a baby. You have to nurture it as it grows bigger. Just like children, you love it but it will annoy you to death on some days. You need some sort of reward in there to keep you going.
I became a widow at the young age of twenty-six. My husband was an environmental scientist who was killed in a small plane crash in the interior of British Columbia that not only took his life but those of the pilot and all three passengers. The year after this devastating event in my life I ...
Marketing for generating b2b sales leads is always an important activity for various companies. Come to think of it, firms will not be able to carry on with their business if they do not have enough business coming in. And what better way to gain more customers and clients than with the help of professional lead generation services . Of course, there is always an issue about how to maximize your lead generation job. For those who are having problems in getting the business l
If we were to dissect the superficial front of families we would find, strife, jealousy, fear and hatred and no holiday within the family feels like a blessing. Love brought families together. Love that binds the family together is often taken for granted, by the parents and the siblings. When grown adult families come together, then everyone needs to remember that they are adults, and not children. I have posted a saga of two families One family focuses on abundance, gratitude, blessings and love. The other family focuses on power, individual differences, lack, and fear.
Usually in midlife there are some major events that occur that trigger the need for you to reinvent your life. Here are some guiding principles that will be your constant companions in this life reinvention project that you are going through. You are an amazing person of resource, power and strength: Repeat that statement and make it your mantra. You may feel a little beat up and you may not know it, but I am here to tell you that I know that you are an amazing person. How do I know? I know because I know that you have an Inner Genius within you that you may not have fully explored.
Hello every one its me, Brian Allen here once again after a long rest that I have needed to incurred to recharge and regenerate my energy into giving my readers some further guidance in using spirituality when being faced with divorce. This will be of great help when dealing with divorce either for the first time or even second time around. I thought about condensing the main points into one post alone but as this is such an important issue or point I have decided to divide it into 5 parts this being the first of the Five.
12 Things to Do for 2012 It’s that time of year again…people are taking stock of where their lives are, what they have accomplished in the past year, and setting goals for the new year. What’s on your list this year? What will make a difference to actually seeing your goals come to fruition? Is it all hype? Can people actually live a life of their dreams? I believe the answer to that question lies in how motivated and committed individuals are, and how much tension for change they are experiencing.
You're About To Discover How You Can Eat Organic Food AND Stay On Your Budget! Have you been trying to figure out if it's worth the money to buy certified organic food? And, if it is, how do you afford it? Not sure organic food is any better than conventional, and which companies are really ...You're About To Discover How You Can Eat Organic Food AND Stay On Your Budget!And, quite honestly, even if you have no worries about affording organic food, don't you want to be sure you are supporting the companies doing the right thing?
Bringing out the best Ponderings... by Glenda Gibbs Several years ago I was working with a couple who were deciding whether they wanted to continue their marriage or bring it to an end; they chose the latter. Both were conce ed about the family gossip. They didn’t want to feed it so what were they to say? I suggested for them to share they were ending their marriage because they were no longer bringing out the best in each other. I also suggested they didn’t need to say any more or less.
Weight management is one of those age-old issues that we never seem to completely resolve. One might think that after all of the years of discussion about the best ways to achieve and maintain a healthy weight there would be a quick, easy formula. The truth is there are more programs, diets, ...
For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile: ~ I Peter 3:10 People ask me why I write so often about the power of thoughts and words. I have to tell you, it’s because they are truly the key to an abundant, joy-filled life. The Bible tells us that if you can control your tongue, you can control everything! (James 3)
You may be wondering why would I need to invest in hiring a personal Life Coach? I bet that if you are pondering about this, then you probably could use some support or motivation. In fact, we all could use a helping hand. There are unlimited benefits and advantages in partnering with a Life Coach. Coaching helps you to identity the roadblocks that may be holding you back from becoming who you want to be and living your dreams. A coach will work with you in many different areas of your life and EMPOWER you to become a better person as well as help develop balance in your life.
This is a time of the year when for a lot of us, emotions and feelings run high. Family, or lack of family; friends or lack of friends; loneliness, big ups and big downs, and of course the lingering resentments, something many feel at this time of the year. One of the big challenges I faced in ...
“Vitality shows in not only the ability to persist but the ability to start over.” F. Scott Fitzgerald. Change comes to us from every direction and we either get swallowed up by it or utilize it for our own advantage. That is easier said than done. It depends on the type of change. True. ...
To listen to this article... http://www.certifiedcoachesfederation.com/PRWebEpisode535981.mp3nnCertified Coaches Federation is conducting a 2-day life coach training and certification course for professionals who are ready to transition into a new career, or just want to add a new management ...
The first book I read by Erma Bombeck was "If Life is a Bowl of Cherries, What Am I Doing in the Pits". I was hooked after that. And when her poem, If I Had My Life to Live Over came along, I was even more inspired by a woman who could write such a profound poem after being diagnosed with cancer. Ms. Bombeck's poem encourages us to live each day in the moment, take nothing for granted and enjoy the abundance we have been given. Ms.
I recently had a conversation with someone who is experiencing turmoil in his life. Having a curious nature about me I asked what kept him in his uncomfortable situation. His response, “It’s comfortable and at least I know what’s going on, if I change I won’t know ...
1. something accomplished, esp special effort, great courage, etc.; a great or heroic deed: his remarkable achievements in art. 2. act of achieving; attainment or accomplishment: the achievement of one's object. Achievement is the desired result of any and all Human Activity. First and ...
Making a lot of money as a certified life coach is possible if you just put your mind to it. The trouble is, most people seem to think that becoming a coach is easy and takes little or no effort. Nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, a career as a life coach can take a huge amount of investment, a lot of energy and a massive amount of time. There are ways to make the process easier such as connecting with a career coach who can guide you or by doing some researc
• Does your work and life feel unbalanced? • Are you sick and tired most of the time? • Do you feel like work overwhelms you? You may be experiencing job burnout.
Hello again and welcome to part 2 of 7. This part is based upon so called friends as promised in part 1. Please understand that this next part is in no way meant to offend you or any of your friends. It is however meant to make you think about a few aspects of how friends can influence circumstances in many areas of our lives.
Love, money, laughter, accomplishment, & fame are what we typically think of when we want something pleasurable in our lives. But do they really bring us pleasure? Within all of them lies a way to find temporary or permanent pleasure.
We all enjoy and need a vacation from time to time. How does one know what’s the best location and amenities to fit our needs? Knowing your sun sign may provide you with just the right insight you are seeking. Normally when we vacation we are with family and/or friends. The sun signs may reflect ...
Society projects an idealized image of a fulfilled life as being straight and married with children. This is viewed as the pinnacle of success in the hierarchy of love. At the very least we should all have a significant other in our lives. With the advent of gay marriage, many gay men are feeling even more pressure to be coupled. It’s true that gays have become increasingly more accepted into mainstream society; however, the expectation of being partnered has also increased as a result. It’s okay to be gay nowadays but it’s not too cool to be gay and single anymore.