There is always a way you can be more exciting to your boyfriend. Even if you have been together for a long time, there is no reason he shouldn't still be attracted to you - even more than he was the first day you met.

Usually, people lose interest in each other after some time, since they get used to being together all the time. Don't let that happen to you. Use the 5 real life tips I'll give you so that you can stay exciting for your boyfriend for a lifetime.

I won't lie to you and give you false tips and try to be nice to you. That wouldn't help. You may not like me after reading this article. Some of the ideas I'll lay down for you may sound "shallow", and they probably are - but they produce results. And that is the only important thing. The truth may be hard to swallow - but it will set you free.

1. Always work on your looks.
Guys are visual creatures. If you look good, there's a big chance we'll want to have you around for as long as possible. The thing is that, even good looks can get a bit "normal" after some time.

That's why you should always keep improving your looks. It's not about make up, don't stress about that. What I'm talking about here is that you work out on a regular basis and keep your body "tight." There is nothing more exciting than when you are fit, sexy and flexible in bed. Make this a lifestyle decision, as it will always make your sex life better just as every other segment of your life as well. You'll be 10 times more exciting to your boyfriend if you take care of yourself than if you just watch TV all day and eat oily junk food. Don't do it just for him, do it for yourself.

Next, I shouldn't even have to mention this. But some of you girls just aren't as "feminine" as your boyfriend would like you to be. Being "one of the dudes" just isn't exciting. Feminine women take care of themselves. They smell good, have nice, fresh skin, dress sexily and stay in shape. Make this a top priority and you'll always stay exciting for your boyfriend.

2. Treat him like a King in bed.
Basically, if you treat your boyfriend like a King in bed, he'll always be excited by you. You have to make it a top priority that you are able to please him better than any other woman out there. You have to master the art of pleasing him in bed. Figure out what he likes and how to do it the way he likes it.

From the top of my head I'll just tell you a couple of things a lot of women aren't doing correctly, but should. First - you have to learn how to talk dirty to him and tell him the kinkiest stuff ever. Believe in what you say and then whatever you mumble out will be exciting.

Second - you have to get more sexually liberated. Don't be shy or think that he'll look down on you if you go wild in bed. Exactly the opposite will happen. What men want is that you behave as much as a Porn Star as possible in bed. That's what excites us. Why? Because, in Porn, men see a key component that some women just forget about: desire.

Every man wants to be desired and treated like a King - which roughly means that you are ready to do anything, and I mean absolutely anything for him in bed. Total submission is hot and exciting for most, if not all, men. If you let him do whatever he wants with you in bed, he'll always be excited around you and literally through himself at you.

And last, but definitely not least: Learn how to give mind blowing blow jobs. That's a skill every woman should have. There's probably nothing that will make you more exciting for him than if you are able to give him the best oral sex of his life. This is the kind of stuff that can get a guy to fall deeply in love. No joke.

3. Play games.
Yes - another way to be more exciting to your boyfriend is by just having more fun in bed by playing games. You don't have to take things too seriously, just mess around. There's an unlimited amount of sex games that you can play to make sex more exciting for both you and him. Role playing is one of them. With role playing you can literally make all his fantasies a near-reality. Of course, it's always better if he role plays his fantasies with you, then if he goes and tries doing it with somebody else. So find out what you both like and have fun - be open minded with it and you'll both get more pleasure out of it.

By the way, in the beginning of the article I've mentioned that the truth may be hard to swallow - but it will set you free. "Swallowing" the "truth" will also make you a thousand times more exciting to your boyfriend;) I hope you got the metaphor:)

Author's Bio: 

Jack has been teaching women all over the world how to give their men earth-shattering, powerful orgasms with powerful oral sex techniques and tips. You can learn more from his step by step, brutally honest and funny guide - Jacks Blowjob Lessons and you can find it here.