5 Proven Strategies For Getting The One You Love Back

Making mistakes and getting into arguments are perfectly normal of our characteristics as human beings. If not, we will be like monotonous robots with no will of our own. But if that results in your relationship falling apart, here are some proven strategies for getting the one you love back.

1. SMS, Email Or Using Social Media Like Facebook And Twitter

Usually when relationship falls apart, the couple will not want to see each other.

If your partner refuses to see you or answer your phone calls, you should try other alternatives in communication. Given today’s technology in the 21st century, there are plenty as in mobile or iphone SMSs, emails and even using social media like Facebook and Twitter today to send messages or tweets.

Start off with a simple short sentence saying Honey, I am sorry for what I did and hope you can forgive me. You should apologize but you should not whine or beg him or her for forgiveness. Not only this will make you weak but also make your partner lose respect for you.

2. Trust And Respect

Secondly as much as you want your partner to trust you, you should respect his or her decisions whether or not they are in your favour.

This to me is true love. Not just based on your expectations but your partner as well. After it takes 2 hands to clap. The same principle applies to relationships.

3. Make Yourself Busy

It can be your job, your hobby or both. It can also be spending quality time with other people around you.

There is no point feeling sorry for yourself and having regrets over what you should and should not do for your relationship to progress if your partner insists on ending it.

Sign up for courses like communication, cooking, digital animation, driving or foreign languages to develop and upgrade yourself. While doing these, get to know new people as well.

You can also participate in church or community club activities as another way of making your life more enriching and meaningful.

4. Let Time Heal Your Hurts

By doing what I just recommended, you are also allowing time to heal your hurts.

After 1, 2 or even 3 months, you may contact your ex and ask whether he or she is still interested in continuing the relationship with you.

But based on my experience, I have to alert you that your ex may already have a new steady during that time. If that is the case, it is perfectly okay. If you build relationships with other people, you should not be too heart-broken.

If your ex stills want to be with you, buy him or her a meal, movie tickets and even vacation tour. Redating each other after a period of time will definitely help to make your relationship stronger since both of you are in a better frame of mind to talk things out.

5. Listening, Understanding And Providing Advice

Just because your ex agrees on a date with you again does not mean that your relationship will be back to normal again.

As much as you need to communicate and make your feelings clear, you also need to listen, understand and provide good advice if your partner talks.

Afterall, relationship is all about give and take. That is what defines love as full. This is also what defines my proven strategies for getting the one you love back.