Actions vs. Words!

Men react to actions rather than words. They don’t like it when a woman says, Let's talk, men freak out and get on the offensive before you even say a word.

Let's talk about words first. When women talk to long about a subject concerning there relationship, the man looses you after about the first paragraph. It's not that he is being disrespectful he's just that way. He gets lost in your words. Men don't use words to get there point across as much as they use actions. Think about it.

Let's now talk about actions. Pay attention to the way a man is acting and not his words. First, pay attention to your actions that caused him to act a certain way towards you. Say for instance you are not into a committed relationship as of yet and you allowed him to do all the calling. Then you felt it would be fine to start calling him, he then began to pull away and became more unavailable to you. Instead of you to talking to him about this, you then use actions. You pull back from him and stop calling, he will soon get the picture, his attraction for you will begin again and he will start calling you wanting to spend more time with you. You now become a little unavailable to him. Be busy doing something else or don't answer the phone a few times, let the answering machine pick up, so that he will have to leave a message and wonder were you are. This is giving him the space he wants and even more space. Trust me if he has emotional feelings for you he will come around.

Now don't forget that men are awesome creatures, so don't take advantage of them, just a little smile and a compliment is also a good action. Men love this even more than we do, since they don't get compliments as much as a woman does.

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The wisdom I have gained from life experiences, have lead me down the road to being able to help others move forward towards there goals and a better life.

These are some of my life experiences that I have experienced but have also gained wisdom from. Too much alcohol consumption, abortion, unfulfilled marriage, divorce after 25years, bad dating choices, date rape, bad communication skills, death of parents, drugs, son in prison , low self esteem. Turning these bad times in my life around and learning from them, have given me the skills to pass along to others. Over fifty years of life experiences have brought me to be were I am now. I have learned patients and gained tremendous strength!

I have learned to embrace the gifts in life that I have been given. My son, grand children and friends I have made from all walks of life, three businesses that have all been successful. My self confidence and Independence that I have gained is a feeling of empowerment and it just gets better! I am so proud of the woman I have become!